Is a realistic boyfriend good? What does it feel like to have a boyfriend who is too realistic?

If you're a rich man. His attitude towards you will change 360°. If you don't believe me, just wait and see.

Let's be honest. Such a man is really unreliable and loves money.

He doesn't feel the need for him to raise you ... I feel like you should be self-reliant.

Such a man is too hypocritical and too fake...

I don't like this kind of ungraceful man.

It's all nonsense to say anything to help you learn to be self-reliant. Which man who loves you will do this to you?

True love is about being realistic. But it can't always be like him, right?

I speak directly. But that's what I thought. Think for yourself.

But I advise you. Let's find another good man who is more reliable. There are more good men in the world.

Don't worry about him like this.

He's not a big deal either. Why do you ask your wife to do this?

Besides. No matter how stingy the man. To the woman you love. A little gift is always given, right? Even if my girlfriend can't afford such an expensive gift. If he loves you... He can save money and give it to you.

Men can not be romantic. But don't be too stingy ... Especially the hypocrisy with which he turned around like this. Stingy..

You still think he's good to you. Actually, it's not what you think. He just doesn't want to feed you. You've got to be his wife. That's it.. He's just having fun. Don't be too serious, he takes it seriously. Otherwise, you will regret it.

Addendum: Won't the Northeasterners pretend?? You're too naïve.

Landlord. Since you have your own ideas, what are you asking?

You just do what you think. Anyway, whether the consequences are good or bad is not something we can decide.

If you continue to lie to yourself, then it is useless for us to say more.

A man like him. False!. I really look down on him in my heart.

There are so many winds and snows in life, most of which are trivial matters of oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

There is nothing wrong with a realistic man, at least plan for your future, do you want to find a man who says he loves you every day, only talks sweetly, but has nothing in his head?

Sometimes、It's better to be a man who is more realistic。

After all, it won't make you have any infinite life reverie about him

The premise is that you are a person who loves to fantasize about how to live a romantic and comfortable life

If you don't like to fantasize about nothingness, then, it's better to be realistic.

If you love fantasy very much, then just urge to find a man who can make you fantasize, a man who makes you can't guess

However, I think it's better to be a man who wants to live together, after all, such a man will live!

A man who honestly makes you unpredictable and doesn't tell you anything will give you a lot of surprises that you didn't expect at first, but after a long time, those you don't expect, I'm afraid you will become suspicious or guess!

Women are so weird, like my boyfriend is just like you

He wants to tell you something, and you feel that you owe something in your heart, or something that you feel uncomfortable

After a long time, if he doesn't want to tell you anything, you are old and guessing

I always doubt him in my heart, and I feel even more uncomfortable!

Therefore, it is better to be a practical man, a man who doesn't like to spend money indiscriminately, a man who knows how to keep a family in order, and better, so that he will take care of himself a lot!

However, you also have to observe whether what he says and does is really true, and don't be deceived by all the illusions on the surface!

Also, I carefully read the things you wrote again, and I have a feeling that I guess for you, that man, it seems to be true or false about you, the Internet, unreal, and even more unrealistic, although there will be a few people holding hands together into reality, are you sure that you are one of those few parts? I'm sorry, maybe these words will make you a little depressed, or sad, but really, if it's my boyfriend, even if he has no money, I just returned to Yunnan from Shanghai, he will still pay my salary to buy me a gift, of course, I don't mean that I can receive gifts, my boyfriend is very good, I want to say to you realistically, to see whether a man really loves you, then it depends on how much he is willing to pay for you? He dislikes expensive clothes for more than 80 yuan, which is still good?

More than 80 yuan, how many times did he lose this in business? 80 yuan is too expensive, it's incredible! When I went to Shanghai to find him, he asked how much money you bring?

You can't go with very little money? Do you have to pay the fare back? If you really like you, a man who is really in business, will he not even be able to afford this little money?

This man is worth thinking about ..

A realistic man is good, responsible, self-motivated, and will live life, and you will be very happy with him. But be sure to see him for what he really is, and if he pretends to be like this in front of you, you will regret it.

To be honest, I think you're making me feel excessive.

Originally, the economic consciousness of the north and the south is very different, and you are always talking about the fact that he didn't buy you gifts.

Even if he is rich, he is fully capable of supporting you, but if you don't make money or consider the possibility of making money, then he will be very depressed.

The economic pressure in the south is always very high, and the work state will be very intense.

I think what he said makes sense.

Personally, I feel that he can treat you well.

You don't want to listen to other people say this, that, even if your cousin says it. Does your boyfriend have to give you a gift???

Your boyfriend is already good, work hard to improve yourself, why do you say that raising a family and raising children and the elderly is a man's business, and women are not responsible???

It depends on your mentality.

This kind of people live together, and every day is like drinking plain water, but it is very real.

The disadvantage is that you don't understand romance, if you are a romantic, romantic person will regret it sooner or later.

It's okay, real men are really real, and it's much better than men who play romance, and romantic men are more likely to be attentive, and I'm talking about men who are often romantic, not men who are occasionally romantic.

Realistic boyfriends should also have romantic times.,A person who is too realistic will live a very tired life.,Too realistic people or don't want it.。。。 Purely personal opinion.

He's not reality, he's the most basic social method, and he's doing it so it's clear that you're not the kind she wants. But you're really outrageous, netizens, you dare to see it like this, just because of that ticket. It can be seen that you are still very simple.

You're both realistic, it's okay to be friends, it's not romantic to be a miss, but if you're bored, you can waste two years!

Such a man is good, Shanghai man has a good personality and is realistic enough.

You're all too realistic. Do you know each other? Love each other? To love someone, you must put each other in the right position, tolerate and understand each other.

Reality can. But that's also too stingy.

After all, a man will not be stingy with the woman he likes to this extent.

I convince you, you really dare to bring 1,000 yuan to Shanghai!

Your boyfriend is a good person, he is cultivating something for you, otherwise, you simply won't be able to gain a foothold in Shanghai!

The sign of a good man ( - but the lack of romance in life (*) is up to you.

I didn't look too closely because it was too long.

Excuse me.

It depends on your mentality.

The boyfriend is too realistic for the girl to accept, and she will feel very insecure and feel that the other party may break up with her at any time. Because you have become dependent on him and have become sticky, now from the perspective of the relationship between two people, you are passive. But in fact, you don't have to be too serious, accept his social style and accept his rationality, and it is very important to be able to trust each other, and at the same time reduce your own demands and give more.

Of course, this is my suggestion based on your dependence on him to a certain extent, and on the basis of ensuring that your relationship is stable. The girl can't worry about life, and I think you can try to talk to him about these topics, and I feel that there is a good chance that your conversation will turn into hypocrisy, or even end with you having a fight. But it is still necessary, and we must talk calmly.

Why are men becoming more and more realistic now?

It's not that men have become realistic now, but that men have always been pragmatic, but his pragmatic focus is different. The hard value of women in today's society is the house, car and ticket, as well as the social relationship that the father-in-law and mother-in-law can provide, while the old society focuses on whether women are virtuous and virtuous, and it is enough to continue the incense for themselves and help them take care of their parents.

There is no right or wrong in this, because life is far from being as sweet as falling in love, and it requires a planned and pragmatic heart, but in the future relationship between the sexes, it is really not necessary to label who worships money and who is realistic, because everyone who has the wisdom of life will and should plan for themselves.

This is not called reality, it should be called rationality.

I can understand the boy's mind from the subject's expression, probably because I can't give you a definite answer in my heart, I won't lie to you.

At first, you want him to say that he loves you, but he refuses, because when you are just together, he may indeed feel that you like each other to be together, and it has not yet reached the level of understanding of love in his heart.

Later, he was willing to say it, proving that your relationship has warmed up, but if he refuses, will he love more, because he also has no idea about this problem, and your current situation cannot meet the connotation of this.

He's a very rational boy who probably won't deceive.

I can understand that girls find it difficult to accept this kind of overly rational and emotionless answer, and they will feel very insecure, feeling that the other party may break up with them at any time.

Because you have become sticky to the dependence on the instructor, you are now passive from the perspective of the relationship between two people. But in fact, you don't have to be too serious, simply put, if he is indeed as you imagined, then he should be a man who will not be with each other for a long time, but your two years is not a short time, you are already a special one for his social habits, then you can calm down, accept his social style and accept his rationality, and it is very important to be able to trust each other, and at the same time reduce your own demands and pay more.

Of course, this is based on your dependence on him to a certain extent, and the advice on the basis of ensuring that your relationship is solid.

Money-wise, calculating and stingy.

He said that it is a fact that he loves you, and it is the truth that he is not willing to spend money and pay for you, so how to judge whether he is worthy of companionship and choice?

In daily life, there are indeed men who love you and are stingy, but they also make you have to learn to be distant and distanced, not because he is not good, but because his realistic side makes you dare not accept and recognize.

The attitude towards money, every person has a set of principles and order, but love will make people feel confused, and love will also make people unable to do things in peace.

When money and feelings tear people's souls, there are probably few people who want to be quiet all the time, and more people will choose to be sober or, after all, reality makes people see through the truth and coldness of people's hearts, so that sincerity has always stayed in life, and let hypocrisy alienate from the field of vision.

Too realistic men, in getting along, not willing to spend money, unwilling to pay, encounter anything related to interests, will escape and perfunctory, but also easy to give women some disappointment and grievances, meet such a man, the best attitude is not to expect him to be generous and willing, if you accept his shortcomings, then tolerate the love, if you can't recognize, it's better to get together and disperse, don't force him to change or reflect.

The personality, guidance and advice that people don't want to change are a kind of superfluous worry and seriousness, not only without the beauty of love, but also make the other party disgusted with your enthusiasm and initiative.

I don't see a rabbit arguing and don't scatter an eagle.

The more you expect him to treat each other sincerely, the less likely it is to see his efforts and inputs, because they always stand on the scales and refuse any impulsiveness and gamble.

Sensibility is impossible, reason is the truth.

The real man is selfish, based on his acquisition and stability, once he does not feel the advance and investment, he will maintain a stalemate attitude with you, in his expectations and planning, he hopes that you can take the first step to bear the material pay, or the security of money, or the physical and mental dedication, etc., he will give you some kindness, otherwise he will only lose your dignity and decency, so that many people tell you all kinds of unbearable, although this is not the case.

A man can't be pampered casually, he has the ability to take responsibility and be responsible, and he doesn't need a woman's excessive spoiling and care, if a woman does too much for him, a man is easy to pamper and be arrogant, and even don't know how to be good, so women would rather be passive and reserved, and don't be the love madman who pays all for men.

If a man loves you, he will always be more active and positive than you think, if a man treats you sincerely, he will be serious and focused on some things, and he doesn't need your manipulation and worry at all.