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I can't see any good relatives of you!
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My in-laws' nest appeared except when we wanted us to send two dollars, and the rest of the time it was like a dead man who had disappeared.
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There was an uncle of the governor who ignored him every time he went to his house, for fear that we would go to him to borrow money.
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I hate and don't be filial to my parents' relatives. There are also relatives who don't know gratitude. I'll look for you whenever there's something, it's okay, I'll put you aside. There is also borrowing money and not paying it back, not even a good word. It seems like it should be.
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The food on the table, the food you have to bring before leaving, the service and care like an uncle, turn your back and don't recognize people, and stab you in the back with your kindness.
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Grandchildren and relatives of the in-laws. It's really chilling, and it's unreasonable to protect yourself and others.
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cheating money under the guise of family affection, she is not happy if she is not fooled, she deserves to be deceived.
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Usually don't contact, there must be something to do when I look for you, and if I don't do it for him, I will ruin you everywhere.
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In addition to the title, I really feel that I have no friends and relatives I was unemployed for a few months when I was unemployed for a few months in addition to looking for my own friends to help me run before and after I inquired about my relatives coming to the door to ask for help and ignored them, that is, I wanted to go in and be a small warehouse manager.
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All day long, people talk about the world, to put it bluntly, they just want to take advantage.
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Basically, I don't like them all.,Except for the cultured.,It's more indifferent.。 The most afraid of being uneducated and blindly enthusiastic.
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If you have money, you will be dealing, but if you don't have money, you will not be a person.
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Some relatives have long claws, and she has to meddle in everything in your family.
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These relatives today can no longer offer you anything other than that layer of kinship.
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For a bowl of rice, I have to quarrel with your family to hurt my relatives, I don't know how to be related to you in this life.
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treats you as a money printing machine, only looking for you when there is something, only borrowing and not repaying, Tian shamelessly thinks that he should pay endlessly for him, and he doesn't know how to be grateful.
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Relatives in today's society, except for a little blood relationship, are not as good as friends in other aspects! I am deeply touched!
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Relatives who go to the teahouse every day, don't care about anything at home, and borrow money when they lose.
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The husband earns money outside, and he lives a very chic life at home, and he is really tired of being a man.
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It has always been you and their family, but they look down on our financial, snobbish relatives.
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I always look down on the elderly, and say that when the old man is old, it will be very troublesome for relatives who don't do this or that.
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If you have money at home, and you borrow money from him but say that you don't have any money, you don't have such relatives.
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Any little things are taken care of, very good things I wish you could take it all in, and you will all resist the bad things.
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Relatives who look down on people talk about how good we are in the city, and you people from the countryside are very rubbish.
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It is possible to refuse tactfully, expressing one's difficulties while remaining polite, such as:
1.He said that he was sorry that the time schedule was tight and he was unable to receive relatives.
2.Tell a relative that he is busy with work or other things and cannot arrange a time to receive them.
3.Identify yourself as not being able to provide accommodation, or suggest that they choose a hotel or other type of accommodation.
4.If you can't refuse, tell your relatives about your schedule and ask for their forgiveness, while reminding them that you need to handle some details of your trip.
The point is to express your situation and difficulties in a gentle tone, rather than directly rejecting them or making them feel unwelcome. At the same time, you should also provide other help as much as possible after refusing, such as recommending some good tourist attractions or recommending good accommodation, to show your sincerity and concern.
Dealing with unreasonable relatives can be challenging, and here are some suggestions:
1.Stay calm: When confronted with unreasonable relatives, it is important to remain calm and sensible. Don't let emotions control you, try to understand the other person's position and avoid escalating the argument.
2.Be resolute: Be clear about your position and opinions, but avoid using offensive language. Tell your bottom line and your opinion on things so that relatives understand where you stand.
3.Set boundaries: If your relatives' behavior is more and more scum than your bottom line, you have the right to set boundaries and protect yourself. This can be done by directly expressing one's feelings and needs, or by suggesting possible solutions.
4.Avoid arguing with them: If relatives tend to quarrel and argue, it is best to avoid entering a quarrelsome environment. Stay calm and try to maintain a peaceful atmosphere.
5.Seek support: If the problem persists and is bothering you, it is important to seek support. Seek advice and help from other family members, friends, or professionals.
6.Keep your distance: If you can't have a healthy relationship with an unreasonable relative, consider keeping your distance. Avoid too much contact and look for the bare minimum of communication with it.
The most important thing to remember is that the relationship with relatives is mutual. As unreasonable as they may be, communicate with them in a kind and respectful manner as much as possible, maintaining your bottom line and dignity.
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In the face of unreasonable relatives, you can deal with it in this way: Shoufeng Tan first faces unreasonable relatives, you can treat them with courtesy, and you must do your own high duty in etiquette. Secondly, you can stay away from such relatives and do not contact unless necessary.
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For unreasonable relatives, you can't be him, the only way is to have less contact and avoid some contradictions.
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Of course there is, I think my aunt is the most terrible, she is simply synonymous with hypocritical walking in my heart.
In fact, at first, I thought my aunt and uncle were beautiful and temperamental, but later I realized that she was actually a hypocritical and stingy person. Relatives are supposed to care for each other and support each other, but she always only cares about her own interests and does not care about the feelings of others. Treat relatives and family members like this, not to mention relatives.
I don't want to go to her house every year because I don't want to see such relatives. But etiquette still has to be there, so the representative still has to go to the New Year's greetings, the New Year to visit relatives is actually a custom, in order to maintain etiquette, we can't tear face. Every year, my dad and my brother went, because I didn't think she wanted me to go, and I never went to her house to avoid being disgusted, and I really couldn't get along with this kind of person, even if it was just a walk.
One year, my brother and my father went to visit the New Year, of course, the New Year's greeting is indispensable for red envelopes, her family has four more children, and my father has each sealed a red envelope. And when my uncle wanted to seal 200 yuan to my brother, he was scolded by my aunt in person. Such a small thing is so careful, so picky, the current lai see money is basically a hundred yuan, and my dad gave four, it is reasonable to say that you will be a little bigger, and it is normal.
And I have to say it in front of my dad, it's really unbearable. So needless to say, you can know how much my dad held his breath when he came back.
There's another thing that I really dislike as well. My grandmother has died, and my grandfather only has one son, my uncle, but my aunt does not approve of my grandfather's living in their house, and thinks that my grandfather is in the way. Because she had many children, she didn't let my grandfather live with me as a matter of course, and when I heard such news, I really felt chilled by such a relative.
It's horrible.
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Hello, please stay true to yourself.
There are few hurdles in life that cannot be overcome, and you must face them bravely. In fact, death is not terrible, what is terrible is that death is worthless; In the face of some things in life, we should not care too deliberately about some things and words, just understand them lightly.
The difference between dying early and dying late is the process of living, and what a beautiful thing it is to live for those who want to survive. Don't be stupid, kid, a few words from others can make you even want your life; You should also think about your own parents, who raised you so big and you reciprocated them with a kind of death, what a sad thing it is for them.
Child, there is still a long way to go, go on strongly!
After reading your supplementary questions, I feel a little sad for you in my heart, and I sympathize with you.
Since you said that men are a pile of, not everyone in the world is as you say, and there are still some men who are very responsible (when it comes to responsibility, I want to ask you if you are responsible), I can understand that you are angry.
Don't think about the impossible things tomorrow when you live now, and silently say to yourself: If things are not what I imagined, then my worries are not superfluous.
There are not a few hurdles in the world that cannot be passed, and everyone must face them bravely, as for the people from the police station to sentence you like this, you can also consider the issue of prosecution, after all, this involves dignity and the reputation of your parents (if you have evidence to prove your innocence, you can sue the court again).
I was a little indignant when I saw you say that China is very backward, and this has nothing to do with China's backwardness and development, and it is completely a growth problem in which family education is in a different situation from others. It has to be said that your train of thought is not a general distortion.
You say that death can solve the problem and end everything, I don't say that you run away, please don't build your own affairs on the pain of others. You are not responsible, even if it is passed to your parents, you can choose to move out as a family.
still adhere to that sentence: there are few hurdles in the world that cannot be passed, and we must go on bravely.
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Yes. When I was young, our family was in a very bad condition. Uncle read a lot of books, and went to be a soldier, their family was in the city, and the conditions of their family at that time were already a little better than ours.
Actually, my father was married twice, I was my father's first child, and I was born when my father got married for the first time, and my younger brother was born when my father got married for the second time.
At that time, my father married two daughters-in-law and some of the expenses of the wedding banquet were all paid by the uncle, and the most important thing was that the uncle helped my father raise me.
Therefore, our family has always felt that we owe too much to our uncle, because he has paid too much for our family, and our family did not have much ability to repay him at that time.
Every year, the pigs fed by my father are divided in half during the New Year, and the food I grow will be cleaned up and made into finished products for the uncle.
It's been the same until now, but my aunt doesn't know what's going on, she always can't get along with our family, she is very unreasonable, and deliberately embarrasses us, we know that we owe our uncle, but we are also trying to reciprocate, she is a typical snob, looking down on our family.
I remember that when I took the college entrance examination, it was far away from the school, so I discussed that I would live in their house, and I would stay for the three-day test, and the result was good, she never gave me a good face from beginning to end, and she also specifically looked for opportunities to ridicule me, thinking that I was not good like this, and it was not good like that. They don't even bother with me as if I don't exist.
In fact, it affects people's mood very much, not to mention that I went to the exam, not specifically to find anger. I went back to school the next afternoon. I left early every day because I didn't feel the need to look at her face.
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I never like to go to my aunt's house, because my aunt is a very terrible person, every time my mother asks us to go to my aunt's house during the New Year's holidays, but we never go, maybe we haven't seen anything in the world, so we think my aunt is terrible, but her impression on us can no longer be changed, so there is no way.
I have a lot of aunts, a lot of relatives at home, and my parents don't care about some things, so they always get along with my aunt very well. I remember that when there was a happy event in my family, many relatives would come to eat, usually about six or seven tables of relatives, sitting full, and then generally holding a banquet, our custom there was that relatives ate first at noon, and then those friends and people in the village that my father invited were eaten in the afternoon, and then the relatives were finished at noon and stayed until the afternoon, helping to do some work, every time my aunt left after eating at noon, and she also packed some of the leftover dishes from those relatives, Not only that, but also some of the dishes that have not yet been served for the afternoon guests to eat are also packed, because generally some meat is according to how many tables there are plates of meat, the number of tables is basically set according to the invited guests, every time she goes to pack my parents and embarrassed to say, so once it is very embarrassing that the guests who come behind have some meat and it is gone, and my aunt's family is quite rich, I really can't figure it out.
Another time was when my grandmother was sick, and then my mother and other aunts discussed pooling some money to see my grandmother, and then my aunt said that she had no money, so let my mother and them make it up by themselves, in fact, my aunt's family is the richest, and several houses have been built, and it is really terrible to get to this point.
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My aunt is short of oxygen in her brain, and she comes to my house like a thief, and she looks at each house, and her nephew doesn't come to work at the full moon! Go to work in a chicken factory! I don't like to invite her!
My family all called ** notice, there was a happy event before, and I specially called her ** to say that I would invite her! People lock the door and don't see anyone! Watch you take a vacation at home.
Always a questioning tone! Why don't you go to my house to play! Say that several times!
You don't feel like you're looking down on people! I went to stir-fry and didn't see the meat, and it was not cooked! Later I deliberately said, I want to eat sheep!
Kill one! Around the Mid-Autumn Festival! It's time to buy thick clothes, saying that I am optimistic about a windbreaker of several hundred, and my face is green with fright!
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