Is it okay to bring nothing to the relatives of the woman s family to the grave of the deceased wife

Updated on society 2024-06-11
53 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This situation is definitely not good, it will make people feel particularly uneducated and polite, as for the impact of other aspects, you can rest assured.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Relatives of the woman's family. Come to the grave of your deceased wife. You should bring some paper money offerings or something.

    Bring nothing. This is a bad performance. Maybe it's for you.

    Or your deceased wife. There have been opinions and contradictions. In this it may be.

    It's just stingy. Reluctance to bring things.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Give you a wooden person to the grave, don't bring anything, it's a little not good, at least you should, send flowers to the old people, so that a kind of respect for the dead and the living, if you don't bring anything, it's too rude, and it's better for such relatives to have less contact in the future, so that they can't get along well in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Relatives of the woman's family should bring some paper money. This is also a kind of respect and sustenance for the people of the past. Bringing nothing is certainly unjustifiable. It's like when we go to relatives to bring gifts.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course it's not good, the woman's relatives are the woman's mother's family, if the mother's family doesn't value their daughter, do they still expect the man to take a fancy to it?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think it's good to bring anything with me. It is better to donate a steamed bun to a blood supply.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you go to the grave of your deceased wife, the relatives of the woman's family will not bring anything, which is not good, how can they not bring something? But they don't want to bring it if they think you bring it, and they can't help it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It stands to reason that you must bring something, but people don't want to bring it, as long as you come to the grave, it can be understood, after all, it's your own family, so this doesn't matter much.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think it's better to bring a bouquet of flowers or something, but it doesn't seem good to bring nothing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Whether it's good or not, this can only be their own wishes, their own practices, and you can't force them, so you can only rely on them to improve some quality and be able to think of these things.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It doesn't matter if the woman's relatives bring it or not, the key is that you bring some sacrifices, this is your family's grave.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It also depends on personal feelings to give points to people who have passed, and it doesn't matter to you if they don't bring anything, as long as you bring what you should bring.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's just a memorial ceremony for the deceased, and whether or not to bring something is a kind of mind and attitude, and there is nothing good or bad to say.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, what's so good or bad, people are paying tribute to the deceased.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It doesn't matter what you bring or not, you should be civilized and sacrificed. It's okay to bring nothing. Anyway, the dead couldn't eat it, so they all fed and took down the magpies and crows.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You're not good, because it will seem rude, and at the same time, it will make people feel that you don't have them in your heart.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It doesn't matter, it's just to pay tribute, take a look, that is, send sorrows.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If the people come, invite them to a meal and disperse.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Generally speaking, when you go to the grave, you should burn paper. If you don't bring anything, you can't justify etiquette.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The person is gone, don't worry about this, do your best for the deceased wife, that's it, I'm really looking forward to it

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In fact, there is no reason for this, it should be decided according to local customs.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This situation should be fine, we go to the grave just to sacrifice, and nothing else.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think it is voluntary to go to the grave and burn paper for the deceased.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's possible that the other party is in too much of a hurry and didn't buy anything, just make up for it next time, don't put it in your heart, they can come over because they have their minds.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In fact, if the relatives of the woman's family don't bring anything, it will definitely be bad, and it will be rude.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You can go to the grave of your deceased wife, and the relatives of the woman's family don't bring anything, and it has nothing to do with you, just do your own responsibility.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you go to the grave, you can do it for a month before and after Qingming. On the 15th Ghost Day of the seventh month of the lunar calendar, you can burn some paper.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There's nothing wrong with this, it's taboo to go yourself, just go once, and you can let your relatives go by themselves.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Going to the grave is just our longing for our loved ones and comforting our psychology, so there is no distinction between good and bad how many times we go, it's just that you think too much.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I've also heard of the saying that you can't go to the grave twice in a month, but if you believe it, you don't believe it, and if you don't believe it, you don't have to go, depending on the actual situation, if you don't have someone else to accompany you, then you have to go, and it's nothing.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's nothing. It is normal to accompany your relatives to the grave after going to the grave of your parents, so I don't talk about it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Many people are not to blame, and many ghosts are not to blame.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In this way, it depends on whether there is such a custom over there, some places can be some places and some places are not, but I personally think that it is okay to go to the grave of relatives or anything.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It seems to be particular, ask the old man, they know more.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Burning the fifth period to go to the grave of other relatives by the way is allowed in our place, and there is no saying or taboo.

    It is recommended that you do it according to local customs and ask the elderly in the family. But if it's really taboo, you can choose to do it separately.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    As long as it is during the Qingming Festival, it is convenient to see yourself. Of course, there are some local customs everywhere that we have to respect. Also, for some customs, there is a difference in time between visiting the grave of a loved one within one year of death and visiting a loved one who has been deceased for more than a year.

    The specific time of departure on the day of tomb sweeping needs to be based on your own situation, and it is best to be at 5 or 7 o'clock, that is, the hour. In the ancient calendar, it is one. Of course, it's usually not that early, but it's better to remind friends that it's best to finish the Qingming worship before 3 p.m., because the yang energy has gradually subsided, and the yin energy has gradually increased.

    The usual procedure for tomb sweeping during the Qingming Festival:

    According to custom, the order of sacrifice and sweeping is to sweep the tomb first, that is, to clean the cemetery.

    The second is the sacrifice, this procedure is very critical, one is to send sorrow, the other is to feel with the ancestors, because the mountains have spirits and no owners, the ancestors have masters and no spirits, and the ancestors can better get the aura of the mountains and rivers. Remind friends that this is Feng Shui.

    When sweeping the tomb, people bring wine, food, fruits, paper money and other items to the cemetery, offer food to the grave of their relatives, and then incinerate the paper money, cultivate new soil for the tomb, trim the tomb, fold a few tender green new branches and insert them on the grave, and press some paper money on the top to let others see it, know that there are still descendants in this tomb, and then kowtow and worship.

    That is: correct the cemetery - incense - meat - toast - worship - farewell with cannons...

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    In the first year of the death of a loved one, should I go to sweep the tomb before the Qingming Festival, or on the day of the Qingming Festival? Is there any folklore saying that there is not? Can anyone give an answer.

    --It's better to go to the tomb on the day of Qingming Festival!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It is generally customary to go to the tomb before Qingming in the first year of the death of a loved one.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    The customs are different in various places, my hometown is from Hebei, and the custom of my hometown is that Zhengqing (that is, the day of Qingming) does not sweep the tomb, not only in the first year, but every year, so it is best to sweep the tomb before Qingming

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It is best to send some money to the deceased in advance before Qingming, which is beneficial to him.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Generally speaking, it is okay before and after Qingming, but not on the day of Qingming.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Qingming tomb sweeping is necessary, we should go in advance once!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Dreaming of going to the grave of a deceased loved one means that good things are coming. In the subtlety, you have been in a mood for a long time lately, or you can't make up your mind about some things, but you have recently had unsolvable troubles in your life, and you want to find someone you can trust to talk to or break through yourself. Dreams, discourse also.

    Dreaming of going to the grave of your deceased mother is the beginning of a happy event, marriage, childbirth, or promotion, and you will have good luck in the near future!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's nothing good, if you miss your mother, you can go and sweep her grave.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It's nothing, I think about it day and dream about it night.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    There's nothing special about this, you can just sweep the grave like your classmates.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Going to sweep the graves of relatives from your own good buddies is actually equivalent to going to your brothers' buddies and brothers, and you can only go to sweep the graves, which is to become a sincere heart, and then don't say the wrong thing.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Dude, go to his house to clean the grave, do we pay attention to anything? Be sure to wear black clothes, and then go there to talk as little as possible, and then you can lose the person to bow.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Don't pay much attention to it, take your sincere heart and go over to visit the grave with them, they will be very happy.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    What about buddies, for the family? Sweeping the grave, what do we pay attention to? It would be OK to have a meal with respect for our workers.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    There are no contraindications ... Don't make offerings to deceased loved ones with meat!

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    With a longing heart. You can go at any time What are you superstitious about what age is it still talking about this.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Believe it, don't believe it!

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