How can you forget someone you really like?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-06
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I understand your feelings, and I just let go of a relationship that I am very serious and deep. Although I let go, I know that it will take a long time to let go of him in my heart. Perhaps, there is no need to deliberately forget, deliberate forgetting can only deepen the memory of him.

    Although I can't finally get together with the person I really like, I think that along the way, I have cried, laughed, been happy, and sad for him, so that I have a little understanding of the true meaning of love.

    It may not be too difficult to give up behaviorally, but it really takes a long time to let go in the heart, maybe. We should keep ourselves busy and live our lives to the fullest.

    It has been said well that life goes on. We don't want to miss a lot of other scenery. Giving up is helpless, but it's also an option.

    I wish you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's been 4 years since we broke up, in fact, you don't have to feel sorry for her, you can just think like this, maybe she may be in the arms of others now, she has forgotten all about you, and lives a happy life with other men, throw away the things she gave you, as long as they have something to do with her, and have a good relationship.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I can't forget it, and if you say forget it, it's self-deception. He will always be in your heart, see how you grasp it, and treat him in a position.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Start a new relationship.

    Or a change of environment is a very effective approach.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's impossible to forget, but isn't it good to be a good memory, why do you have to forget.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't think about forgetting anything.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Damn, what kind of woman can influence you for so long.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't deliberately forget, deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, let everything tend to be flat, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget, and forgetting is not something that can be forgotten by talking about it, but also to see what type of person you belong to, If you are emotional, it is best to find something or activity that can attract your attention to distract your emotional fluctuations; Or go crazy with your best friends and forget about your play. It's best not to listen to any love songs, otherwise you will backfire. You have to face everything by yourself, no one can help you in it, go your own way.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello, you are unlikely to forget. Because this person is already ingrained in your mind, it may be that something is bothering you and you can't let go, and you don't want to face it, but do you think it's possible? In fact, many people have encountered such things, but most people have come over, it often depends on your perception and understanding of this kind of thing, and time is the best medicine for pain.

    I'm sure you'll come over too. Whoever lives in this world is not everything going well, it is possible that during this period of time you encounter more unpleasant things, just like a thread, you always have to pull out a thread, things are solved one by one, and when you are in a good mood to look back at these things, you will also feel that you are mature again, I hope my answer will be helpful and enlightening to you, I wish you a happy and happy (*

    Open your heart and be original.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love can be produced in a second, but love takes a lifetime to complete. Love: to understand, but also to unravel; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate, accept, not endure, be tolerant, not conniving; It is support, not domination; It is a condolence rather than a question; It is to pour, not to accuse, to be memorable rather than to forget; It's about communicating with each other, not about everything:

    It is to pray silently for each other, not to ask for many from each other, it can be romantic, but don't waste it; It's okay to hold hands at any time, but don't break up casually If you do it all, even if you don't love someone anymore, you will only miss it, not hold grudges.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Actually, don't forget anything. That would only backfire. Those are also your precious memories.

    The best way to forget something is not to think about it. Go do something you love! Listen to **, sing k, read the book ......Make yourself happy and you won't remember the unhappy things anymore.

    Or, you go and start a new relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she once left in your heart should be relatively deep, let everything tend to be flat, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Dear landlord.

    There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not. When you can't be together anymore, it's not that she didn't choose you, it's not that you abandoned her, it's that happiness didn't choose you, happiness didn't choose you, and love didn't choose you. So don't be troubled, don't be sad, you should bless each other and hope that each of you will find your true love.

    If you feel pain when you lose the other person, then it proves that you don't love her at all, you just want to possess her, and you will only suffer when your possessiveness cannot be satisfied. When you love someone, what you should think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her, can you give her the affection she needs? Can you give her joy and happiness?

    Can you be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness? Only this kind of love is true love, and only this kind of love is happiness!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't think about deliberately forgetting yourself, because it won't be easy to forget. It's not so easy to forget a person in your heart, and it's impossible to forget it completely, at most, it's just to reduce the number of times you think about it, so when you think about it, you can miss it to your heart's content, and tell yourself that you can remember it happily now, and you don't feel sad anymore.

    Slowly, the feeling faded.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Immediately like another person, or find a confidant to talk to, enlighten yourself to try to relax, do something according to your own pleasure and forget about her.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Actually, you said you want to completely forget that the only thing I think is a disease. What a selective frustration.

    People are born to keep some sensitive things in mind, so I want to say, what would you do if I said you must not be like a pink cow? Most people think about this cow in their minds, right? It's very clear, don't mention it if you want to forget, after a long time, you will find that those things that you didn't want to think about suddenly become blurry, and then you can divert your attention.

    That's what I did, and I hope you can too.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Everybody will have you like this one day. There is such a true love with you. But a lot of people will lose.

    Memory is the source of pain, if you really love her, it is impossible to forget her, what you have to forget is the pain she left you, it takes time to dilute the pain to forget, to forget the pain as soon as possible, you can find a new love to replace it, and slowly you will forget your pain.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    How can you completely forget the person you once loved?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

    But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now, in trouble, in pain.

    I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

    I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to abandon a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

    I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

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