Why am I so afraid of occasions where I need to speak my mind

Updated on psychology 2024-05-12
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Man is man! These emotions are a must! With the birth!

    No one has a way to sue them! Just go with the flow! Too much imposition will inevitably lead to bad consequences!

    If everything is too exhausted, fate will inevitably end early. "..And your condition can be seen!

    You're shy! Introverted! Actually, you don't have to worry about these or something"Fear of not being accepted by others"Target.

    Be yourself if you want to do it! Why care about others? Even if it can't be recognized by everyone!

    But that's your own! You solve it yourself through your own abilities! And who are they to laugh at you?

    They don't even have the courage to ask the most basic questions! Therefore! You don't have to care too much about what others think of you!

    You are who you are! Unique! Again, that's the same sentence"Go your own way and let others do the talking. "

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Take every opportunity to speak.

    Good luck!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't think about it next time.

    Say it directly.

    You try it once! Don't be afraid next time

    Mainly, you're thinking too much

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yin and Yang Taiji, everything has multiple levels, and any character has its good and bad.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Suggestion: Don't change it, be your true self again

    As long as you treat your friends sincerely, are you afraid of anything? Even if your friends give you feedback that you don't want, but I think they are sincere, otherwise why bother??

    Wishing you well

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Listening to the meaning of the landlord, he must be unconfident. Put the skin thicker and be generous. To be a gentleman, you have to look like a gentleman, how do you look like a girl?

    Believe me, that's right, your skin must be thick, and then thick You are in a hurry to express your thoughts, that is because you are too depressed yourself, and a lot of what you should say is in your mouth and swallowed back. Relax a little. If you can't do this, how can you step into society in the future?

    It's hard to find a girlfriend. Most girls like to chat, and when you're alone, if you don't talk, they don't know how to get to know you, right? Big brother, give it to me, I-5555555555555555555

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, the distance itself is a barrier, no matter how great love is, it also needs the most basic maintenance, if you can't even provide the most basic, there is no point in the two people suffering, you are not wrong, but she is indeed a little too much, but this is also unavoidable. Let's start over.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Long-distance relationship, she has changed her mind, you have done everything you should do, if you can't get it back, it's better to let go, don't let yourself be tired, and it's not worth it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There's only one reason!

    She's changed! Yours for yourself!

    You don't want such a woman, do you want to share a house with a man, is such a thing reasonable? Empathy, she didn't think about you at all.

    It's a good thing that you break up early, or you'll feel even more stupid when she says it!

    You have to think about it and plan for your future, as long as you have the ability, don't be afraid of not finding a girlfriend! Really buddy believe me, I've suffered too, you should be happy for yourself, because you see it better than me!

    If she loves you and hears your cry, she will immediately feel heartache for you, but she doesn't, and it proves that there is really a problem!

    Don't suffer yourself for such a person, you have to live better than her! That's the last word! Good luck!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Break up Whether she really has anything or just thinks you don't trust and breaks up You are in two places, and it is difficult to complete a relationship in itself, plus you have some concerns, her strength Rather than being so tormented, it is better for everyone to let go.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You're not wrong, it's just that she seems to be a little weak-hearted!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You're right, she's wrong, she hooks up with someone else when she has a man, and she still has to live together.

    Think about it yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The problem is not you, she should have wanted to break up with you for a long time, and the time you spent together should not be short, there is no freshness for too long, she should like that netizen....

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You're right, it's obvious that she's in love with another man and just finds an excuse to break up with you, what man or woman living together dares to say that nothing really will happen? And it's also a netizen...

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    My feeling is that you're right.

    Male and female rented houses are inherently inappropriate.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Living with a guy is probably going to fall in love for a long time, and you're not doing anything wrong.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Unable to express one's own opinions, so that they are not appreciated and recognized by friends, superiors or lovers. Thus outlawing your place in their hearts by others. This is your anger, this is your hatred....When your anger level reaches the standard, you will change yourself, see more people, socialize more, and achieve your purpose (bold)....I wish you success!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Express what you like about him or her, especially what is good about him or her, and you like it very much. Then you will boldly praise him or her

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Now every city has a city network, and there is a lot of similar information on it, but it still depends on your own ability.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    High-end bars, bathing centers, etc.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You go to the major law firms, and there are lawyers.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not in harmony, then you can only live separately from your parents, so your wife will not have conflicts with your parents, you care more about your parents.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    First of all, really, know it with affection, move it with reason, and tell her that you cherish the relationship between you very much, and secondly, every man has a limit, and some things cannot be compromised, otherwise, it is no different from a beast.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you don't see each other separately, you'll be alone with your parents.

    Then there should be nothing to complain about.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Yes, my husband is like this, let's go by slowly, and you can talk to her when you have a good relationship.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Thought determines behavior, and behavior is doomed to success or failure!

    Therefore, on some occasions, it is necessary to control one's emotions according to its importance, neither reluctantly nor indulgently. The principle is: take care of the big picture! Don't let the atmosphere be embarrassed by you, that's the most taboo thing on the occasion.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You au. gt au2。。。Or the hot dance team has too much fun.。。

    Dream on. Hip-hop is only liked by people born in the 90s...

    People who are 90 years ago will think of it as a hooligan dance.

    A dance that only the thugs can jump.

    And there is a big difference between the Internet and reality

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Although I like AU very much, but comrade, don't you find that those trumpeters in AU are not a big fight if they meet in reality?

    More and more I found that dancing was unethical, hey, ......Utterly disappointed.

    People, it's good to have ideals, but it's bad to have fantasies!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's nice to have an idea, but it's still too early to be realized

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