A boyfriend who has been dating for more than two years, should I break up if something goes wrong?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-07
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Unreconciled contradictions, or unforgivable mistakes, it's better to break up, it's hard to get around, it's not a matter of principle, you can forgive him, or don't tell him, silently give him a deadline in your heart, and give yourself a time to consider, during this time, what he does can't satisfy you, or isn't good enough for you, it's just separation.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The key depends on what you think, personally.

    If the question doesn't involve the bottom line of what you expect from him, you can try to change and persuade to reach a situation where reconciliation comes from.

    If the problem has involved your bottom line, I think it is better to separate as soon as possible, because you tolerate serious problems, and it is inevitable that there will be times when you are sad

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There are big and small problems, if it is a matter of principle, I will personally break up, a person who is so close to you, can't even figure out his own principles, can't understand, then what's the point of the two being together?

    Of course, your own interpretation is also very important, you consider your own feelings and see for yourself, here I can only give you some advice, and the final decision is still yours. Girls have their own ideas, I think this is essential, it is the charm of the individual, oh, good luck!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm mm, I'm 1 year older than you, and I know your mood very well.

    I'm 16 years old, and I've been with my first love for 2 years, and I feel the same mood as you.

    My first love started to treat me badly when I was dating for more than 1 year.

    I don't know if you usually think he's not good, so you relax your love and care for him.

    Causing you to lose your temper all the time and make him think that you are vexatious.

    Or you always tell him that your parents have opinions about him, and the female friend around him has found a boyfriend with good conditions, which causes him to be very stressed and unhappy.

    My advice is for you to break up for half a year or a year.

    You know, after my first love and I made up our minds to break up, in less than half a year, he began to be very kind to me, buying me this and that, just hoping that I could go back, until now, it has lasted for 3 or 4 years...

    You're going to have to give him something to look at!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If it's not a disagreement, it's just a minor problem, then it's not necessary. What couple doesn't quarrel! If it's substantial, it's good for each other to break up, if not, it's good to manage it! Finally, I wish the landlord happiness....

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let's see what your problem is, it's not a matter of principle, who wouldn't have it, the most important thing for the two to interact is understanding and tolerance, give each other more time and opportunities.

    Good luck.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Look at the severity of the problem, lz don't make it clear, how can people give you advice

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Two years can see whether the two parties are compatible and whether the relationship can continue. If after two years, you recall more pain than joy, it is better to give up and not waste more time. If you cherish it very much, it is better to improve yourself and live a good talk with him, talk about the future, and plan your future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Breaking up isn't necessarily the only way out. But if you can't even get along with each other anymore, maybe breaking up is a relief for everyone.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Look at yourself, look at him... Mainly on both sides... Let's see who is Zhou Yu and who is Huang Gai...

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It depends on what is wrong, if it is not a serious problem, or don't break up so easily

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you feel pain, you lose the meaning of being together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If it's really irretrievable, just divide it, there's no point in forcing it to stay.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    That's going to see what's wrong, but if you're sure you love him very much, don't break up, I don't think there's any problem that can't be solved, if he loves you too, you'll be happy, if he doesn't love you, no matter how long you've been dating, you should let go.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Having a history of miscarriage will not affect your future, it doesn't matter, the key is whether you are nostalgic for the current relationship, in fact, love will slowly transform into family affection, there is no eternal love, only eternal affection.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's up to you, the weight of his heart in you, in addition to how serious the problem is, whether this problem is beyond your bottom line and can it be recovered? You'll find the answer.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If something goes wrong, don't bring it into your marriage.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Definitely, then don't break up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Find out where the problem is and decide if it should be divided. It's really hard to find a true love, cherish the one you really like. Of course, if you really decide to break up, then be decisive, don't go to see him again, stop hitting him, stop thinking about him, and hang out with friends more.

    It's hard to forget someone, and if there's no love between you, then it's not particularly hard, isn't it?

    Feel tired of love and let go, let go is a kind of relief, but also a new beginning and have, some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the time of the years, occasionally pick up the memory, it will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of reminiscence of the past romantic feelings, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

    When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way like this, but let go and realized that everything was just two parallel lines.

    Accidental intersection, when everything disappears parallel lines but still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on the heart is like water, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After getting along with your boyfriend for nearly two years and wanting to break up completely, you should choose to tell him alone that after two years of getting along, you find that you are not a boyfriend, a suitable person, and the personalities of the two people are difficult to get along, and bless your boyfriend.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After two years with your boyfriend, then you still have a lot of feelings for each other and want to break up completely, generally because there are some fundamental reasons for the principle of the bottom line of the problem will choose to break up, if you touch some bottom lines, then you must be decisive, don't cut and mess up. Block the other person and stay away from the other person decisively.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you have been with your boyfriend for two years and want to break up completely, you can block him directly, don't pick him up**, don't bother with him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you feel that you are not suitable for marriage, you will propose to your boyfriend to break up, no matter what he says, you should not be soft-hearted, and you will break up completely.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, and the world of getting along is really not short, and it should be said that they understand each other, and they should say that they have certain feelings. Since you want to break up completely, you have to find out its own shortcomings, and family shortcomings, and then propose to break up with her, and you must let the other party realize that you will not change your mind.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Boyfriends have been together for nearly two years, and if they want to break up completely, they have to go to a strange place, or they should say decisively, don't break up so much.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, and if I want to break up completely, I can talk about it between the two of you, and then I don't get along with each other in different cities.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Straight to the point, he said to him, don't get entangled, the more tangled it is, the harder it is to say, and in the end, when you have to say, both of you are even more uncomfortable, and the cut is messy.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, and if I want to break up completely, then pay attention to it, decisively break up with him, and then don't have any contact with them, otherwise, he will have some illusions and will be entangled here.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you want to break up, you must be resolute, speak as tactfully as possible, and try to make the insurmountable gap between you clear.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I've been with my boyfriend for two years, and if I want to break up completely, I should talk to my boyfriend openly and honestly.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    A peaceful breakup can achieve the goal of a complete breakup, and the more peaceful the breakup, the less entanglement the two people will be with each other, so that they can completely break up, never come and go, like a stranger.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you want to break up, then show a more ruthless attitude.

    Because the truest thought in your heart is that you don't want to continue to entangle with him, and you want to solve it completely and once and for all.

    Therefore, your breakup mentality must be ruthless, and don't leave any room and hope for the other party.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    After two years with your boyfriend, and you find that you are not suitable to be together, then you should respect your psychological state with your boyfriend, I believe that if he understands, he will also understand this truth, and it is best not to be hurt more seriously in both aspects.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I've been with your boyfriend for nearly two years, how to break up completely, I think you've been with your boyfriend for two years, if you want to break up completely, then you should tell him directly, if you don't want to break up, then you should get along with him.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's very simple: if you continue to be in touch, if you don't care, it won't matter so much if you live apart for a long time.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Why did you break up after two years? Is there no other choice after a breakup?

    If you are sure that you want to break up, it is actually very good to want to break up completely.

    As long as both of you delete each other, delete mutual friends, and don't take the initiative to contact each other.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you feel that two people are together, they don't have a common language with each other, they can't tolerate and understand each other, and they feel tired, then there is no need to continue, just bring it up and break up.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    This is mainly together, there will be a low tide and cold period. Because he's used to it. Slowly, you just slack off, and you just have to leave him alone for a while.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Because you and your boyfriend have been together for almost two years, two years must have made the relationship between the two of you very deep, so don't solve the problem by breaking up, you can discuss it with your boyfriend if there is a problem.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you really don't have feelings, then break up with dignity, it's boring to consume each other, and it makes you feel bad.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you find that there are a lot of problems between the two of you after two years of getting along, then I think you can also run in and communicate with each other, because everyone has their own characteristics, and everyone's personality is different, which is normal!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years, so why should I choose to break up? If he shouts at you well, are you sure you won't regret it later? Are you sure you can find someone better than him?

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you want to break up with your boyfriend for nearly two years, then you can talk to him calmly and tell him your decision, otherwise you have been together for two years, well, if the relationship is gone, there is no need to continue.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Why break up at every turn? Do you communicate more? Doesn't understanding solve the problem?

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    There's no need, since they've broken up, let's move forward, and you'll meet the right person in the future.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    There is no need to redeem. Because if the other party proposes to break up, it can be seen that the other party is already determined to break up, so there is no need to redeem it, and the chance of redemption is not great.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Two years of love is not a long time. It's not too short, but it's enough time for you to get used to breaking up. It's not just a joke, and it doesn't prove that he loves you or not.

    After you don't care about you, when your relationship ends with a breakup that you want to prove, you will feel regret and regret that you have never had before. From your narrative, you can feel that he loves you very much, just because you have been unreasonable for a long time, and his heart is tired because of hard work.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    In my opinion, if my boyfriend who has been dating for a long time suddenly proposes to break up, it may be that he has a new love, or his love for me has slowly decreased, and he wants to get rid of me and break up with me.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It should be that he has found a new ambiguous partner and is ready to start a new relationship, and the other party wants to confirm the relationship as soon as possible, so he will suddenly propose to break up.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Personally, I think that if a boyfriend who has been dating for many years suddenly proposes to break up, it is because the parents do not agree, or a new candidate has been found.

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