As a woman, what kind of girlfriends do you think you can t have?

Some girlfriends are just very hypocritical, they will not be happy because of your happiness, and they will rob you of what you have.

I used myself as a shield, and when I encountered difficulties or difficulties, I pushed these things on me, but I was unharmed, and I was very chic. Girlfriends like this who are unwilling to take responsibility should break off as soon as possible!

Seeing the girlfriend who forgets his righteousness, he resolutely can't make friends.

Once, I had a best friend, when she hadn't broken up with her boyfriend, a man with good conditions pursued her, and she didn't make it clear to me, she took me to dinner every day, and told her boyfriend that she was with me.

I became a shield.

Later, she broke up with her boyfriend, officially fell in love with her new boyfriend, and ignored me anymore.

The kind of thing you buy, she has to buy the same girl in a day, it's better not to be a girlfriend.

Because she is likely to like the same guy as you in the future, and she is likely to steal your boyfriend in the future.

There is a kind of woman who shows that she is very enthusiastic and does what she likes everywhere, but she has other plans in her bones. So girlfriends can't be made.

I once had a friend who always had various excuses not to pay when he went out to eat and bought things, and he always wanted to take advantage of it.

The kind that likes to be cautious.,I think such a girl is disgusting.,Such a person can't have a deep relationship.。

Girlfriends who are different from the inside and the outside can't make friends, and they say one thing and do another. Sold you, and you counted the money for her.

Robbing his man's best friend behind his back. You can't make friends, this kind of person just doesn't treat you as a friend!

An open-mouthed girl, it is difficult for me to even guard against such a person, because many times even she doesn't know that she has "betrayed" me, and when she speaks smoothly, she tells others many things that should not be mentioned.

Let me tell you from my experience: some people are not very capable, have a great ability to tell right and wrong, are good at gossip, and even can't make girlfriends out of nothing.

As a person who has come over, I have had a lot of girlfriends, some of whom are very deep in the city, always greedy for your cheapness, deceive your trust, and then do things that are sorry for you and pretend to be okay girlfriends It is best to stay away!

I have a friend who just does everything in person, and then he doesn't do anything, and he has no integrity, so I suggest that he don't make friends like this.

I wouldn't be best friends with a small-minded person, and I might offend her by accidentally saying a word.

1.Jealousy is very strong.

This kind of girlfriend is generally very considerate to you on the surface, and whatever you say will satisfy you. But girlfriends usually compare each other, looks, family background, and husbands or boyfriends. If she is jealous and can't see your kindness, she will often expose your shortcomings to others and spread your little secrets behind your back.

If you find out, she will pretend to be innocent and apologize to you. If you forgive her, she will continue to hurt you one by one. If you don't forgive her, she'll spread around that you're a weird person, quite difficult to get along with, etc.

You speak ill of others behind your back. It seems harmless, but it hides an extremely dark heart. We can't hurt others, but we can't stop them either.

This kind of girlfriend must stay away.

2.Very selfish.

Girlfriends can ask each other for help and be needed by the other party, but this is based on the wishes of both parties. Instead of using you as a shield without your consent, sacrificing her own interests at will, and finally achieving her goal. If nothing big is happening between you, you can look at it from a small point of view, such as when you play together, every time you have a treat, she doesn't mention anything, etc.

These are all measures of a person's selflessness. If the girlfriend has a large economic gap and the party with a poor economy has a bit of personality and emotional intelligence, she will not accept the fact that it is you who treat you every time. Therefore, this kind of girlfriend cannot get to know each other deeply.

The Japanese killing of Jiang Ge, an international student, is the best example. Being with a selfish girlfriend who just wants to save his life will end up making him pay for his life.

3.Very negative energy.

This kind of girlfriend has several obvious characteristics, blx, and a lot of self-esteem. Maybe a little thing can make you feel bad every minute of your day. They may immediately criticize themselves for an inconsequential remark from someone else, and they are easily influenced by people or things from the outside world.

So often unhappy, self-esteem is usually strong, can't stand others being lazy, and is used to avoiding things. With such girlfriends, it is often because they are unhappy, so the whole atmosphere is very heavy and the mood is also very depressed. So remember to stay away from such negative energy girlfriends, they will make your life gray and chaotic.

A very good and sincere girlfriend should put yourself in the shoes of your friends. People who are hypocritical, ill-intentioned, or who don't really want to see the excitement are best stayed. After all, people have different understandings of different love and marriage at different points in time.

What kind of life she desires, what kind of marriage I desire, is the other party's business. If we are "good girlfriends", at least we should not say immoral things and do anything that will ruin other people's feelings.

Scheming, not righteous, and the girlfriends who covet the object of their friends can't make deep friends, otherwise they may kidnap their own objects and may be pitted.

Girlfriends who steal things can't be handed over, because some girlfriends can't see others good, once they have good things, girlfriends will take advantage of their own inattention to steal things, such girlfriends can't be delivered.

On the surface, a set of girlfriends behind the scenes can't be made, and the characteristics of these people are that they will choose to escape when they encounter things, often say some flattering things, and they will hide very far away when they encounter things, and they are not willing to tell the truth to themselves.

Girlfriends who are always calculating can't be friends, and then girlfriends with character problems can't be friends, girlfriends who don't have a common topic with themselves can't be friends, girlfriends who are very concerned about gains and losses can't be friends, girlfriends who like to say bad things about people behind their backs can't be friends, these people's character is relatively poor, they are very selfish people, and these people often do anything for their own interests.

Self-centered, put on a high-minded appearance, and tell others on the second day of what he says, talking is not a word, and he can't stabilize his emotions; These people are very irritable, very emotionally unstable, and very gossipy, and they look like good people to everyone.

People with a particularly strong sense of comparison can't be girlfriends. These people are always afraid that others are better than themselves in life, and they will be very jealous, and they will also say some particularly unpleasant things. No matter what comes across, I especially like to compare.

Double-faced, such girlfriends can't be taught, and will put themselves in a more passive situation, these people often deceive others and use others to set off themselves.

Women like to talk too much, if there is no best friend, she will be suffocated to death with a belly of words, and at the same time she likes to talk and regret being nosy and listening to gossip from all walks of life. The most important thing for girlfriends to get together is to exchange information and prove that their lives are rich and interesting.

In fact, the girlfriend is very dangerous, she is good with you, knows all your secrets, and knows all your details. You can become friends, which shows that you have a lot in common with each other, and even the trial of the male Dan betrayal is much the same.

If she has bad intentions and wants to do something to you, it's as easy as a snap, knowing herself and knowing her opponent, and she will not be defeated in a hundred battles. In the Singapore TV series "Ten Thousand Strands of Love", Fan Qin's man was snatched away by his best friend Zhong Qi. What can be close to you can hurt you.

Smart women don't have girlfriends, Wu Zetian has relied on men all the way, and Ci'an stupidly regarded Cixi as a girlfriend, and died in sisterhood.

At the most critical time, women are often unreliable - the role of girlfriends is to share the messes of life with you, but do not solve any practical problems.

There will only be one girlfriend in life, but just having a girlfriend is enough for you, you know? Friends are also very greedy for this kind of thing, the more you want to make more friends, in fact, it is also an unreliable thing for yourself, as long as there are one or two people who can really understand you, can listen to your heart at least don't step on you, and I think it's enough.

How nice it is to have girlfriends.

1.Emotional outpouring.

Everyone is lonely, longing to be surrounded by love, and this loneliness makes us yearn to interact with others and find the necessary connection with the outside world. Loneliness is a self-protection mechanism produced by the individual. Psychologists have found that loneliness is generally stronger in women than in men.

Most men prefer to be alone, while women like to be in groups because men are more likely to digest and enjoy solitude, while women always break solitude. Women very much need a narrator to listen to their inner needs, and this is the importance of the existence of girlfriends. They choose to vent their emotions to the outside world, so they will find someone to tell them.

2.Security.

It seems to be a well-established fact that women are inherently insecure, and this has a lot to do with women's physiological characteristics and innate environmental factors. As long as women have problems, they like to look to the outside world for strength, so we find that women prefer to rely on others because in this dependency relationship, women can gain security. Girlfriends can be relied on to a certain extent, and the more people who can let us down our psychological defense, the greater the group power behind us, and the stronger this sense of security will be in women's subconscious.

3.Comfort.

The presence of a girlfriend is an invisible support for a woman. There is a generation gap between us and our parents, and we seem to need to keep a delicate distance from our loved ones. Obviously, only the distance from your girlfriend is the most comfortable.

That's why women always talk about family, love, and children together. Because their relationships with others do not allow them to freely express their true thoughts. At the same time, the relationship between the best friends is equal, and the communication between the two can also understand and share each other.

There is always a shadow of girlfriends in a woman's life, and the survey found that when a pair of girlfriends are together for a long time, they will behave similarly in some places, which is due to the mutual refraction of the relationship between the two people, and the appropriate distance should be kept between them.

Hello, I think how happy I am to live with my girlfriends, only I know. Because girlfriends have nothing to talk about, and being able to be a girlfriend must be very talkative, and they know each other very well. My girlfriend and I are very happy together, we talk about the past, talk about children, talk about husband, talk about everything.

Even if you don't contact each other, you still think about each other, I haven't seen each other for a few years, and there will be no embarrassment when we meet, she is a sweet friend who grows in my heart!

Why is it more comfortable and happier to spend time with girlfriends than with partners?

Because of the difference in thinking between men and women, there will be a lot of conflicts between men and women, but girls understand girls better.

The chat between girls is more of an exchange of each other's feelings, for example, if you and your girlfriend complain that you are unhappy in the company, she will complain with you, and you feel that she is in the same camp as you, and your emotions will resonate, and in the process of chatting with her, you feel that she understands you very well.

But when you complain to your partner, your partner may feel that you are confiding in him about negative energy, and he can't understand why you care so much about a small thing, when it is not worth mentioning.

A man's thinking is linear, he pays more attention to the result and ignores the feelings; Girls, on the other hand, pay more attention to feelings, are more sensitive to emotions, and have a more delicate heart. Because of the difference in thinking between men and women, it will lead to men and women not understanding each other in the process of getting along, resulting in spears and shields, which will eventually lead to breakups.

Therefore, understanding the way of thinking of the opposite sex will effectively help us resolve the conflicts we encounter in our relationships.

Good luck. <>

I was in college and had 3 very good male friends. They were all my classmates. Actually, at the beginning, there were 4, and later because of various emotional factors, such as love (you) and hate, entanglement (understanding) and entanglement, the Gang of Five became a Gang of Four.

First of all, let me introduce three of my male friends. A is more handsome, the figure and height are good, and he is more good at playing, and the peach blossom luck is better. B is a fat big brother, according to her, he has countless spare tires, and he is considered too much of a type among boys.

C is a thin bamboo pole, easy to talk to, and humorous. The relationship between us is that four people get together for one or two good meals a month, and we can usually eat alone with one of them without feeling embarrassed.

I thought about the reasons for this: First, I felt like a girl. First you have to make up your mind:

I can only be friends with this person. Then in the next relationship, you can avoid a lot of ambiguous things. For example, even if A is very handsome, but I really don't have any thoughts about him, and I will feel pitiful who will be his girlfriend.

When you don't have any ambiguous thoughts about your male friends, you will be able to communicate and complain to them very openly.

Second, as a boy, I want to maintain a long-term friendship with a girl. I think it's the easiest! Don't think of her as a woman!

That's how my three big brothers see my = = and then we tease and taunt each other, within the acceptable range, of course.

In the end, I would like to say that being friends really requires more affection than falling in love. To be friends, you must be willing to be both parties, so that you can really be rich and do not forget each other

ps.A word of advice for girls: Don't have the idea of wanting to talk to male friends around you, I have a female college classmate, almost all the male friends around her want to get involved, it turns out that the sensitivity of male compatriots is not low, A big brother also complained to us about the behavior of that female classmate.

So no matter who you associate with, you have to be honest