My husband is not happy at work, and my life is in control, so how do I deal with it?

Everybody has their own freedom, and he is in this way, and you are actually imposing your will on others, which is also not allowed by law.

I don't like government affairs at work, what should I do, you should communicate with him well? Say you. I want to work hard, you work hard, do personal work, as long as you can manage your income and money well, and manage your money in the family. Destroy it on it.

If you are not happy at work, you can change jobs, your husband controls your life, and you can choose to take control of your own life.

If you don't like work, then you should first list what kind of job you like, and then try to find such a job, and at the same time, you must work hard to enhance your ability for such a job and match your ideal job.

For your husband to control your life, it means that you have given the initiative to your husband, you have to think clearly about what you want to have the initiative in, and then communicate with your husband, that will be these initiatives. If you don't want to be controlled by others, then you must first be a person who has the ability to control your own life, will not depend on others, and can make your own decisions.

Your destiny is in your hands, and all decisions are yours.

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's not wrong to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

People who enter the workplace will have such an experience, that is, sometimes the work is not smooth, and they are in a very bad mood, which is human nature. Although it is human nature, sometimes a bad attitude will affect your work, and then a bad job will make your mood worse. This invisibly creates a vicious circle.

Therefore, it is very important to maintain a good attitude at work.

First, take a correct view of the difficulties encountered in the work.

In fact, not only work, but also our whole life, we will encounter all kinds of difficulties. When difficulties come, it depends on what kind of mentality you have to face them. If you face it with a positive attitude, then you will be positive in your actions and things will work out for the better.

On the contrary, if your mindset is too negative, then things will always go in a bad direction.

Second: Calm yourself when you have a bad attitude.

Sometimes what we lack is a sense of quiet, and when the outside world disturbs our mentality, we might as well let ourselves be quiet. Listen to it, watch a movie, or go for a run, and do whatever you want, because what you love can adjust your mindset to a certain extent.

Third: If the adjustment is really bad, let it go first.

When you are faced with a difficult situation that you can't solve in a short period of time, you might as well put it aside for a while. When you're in a good mood, doing the same thing again may result in twice the result with half the effort.

Fourth: Take a trip that says go.

There's nothing more relaxing than traveling, and if you can, get out and feel the beauty of nature, which will naturally put you in a good mood.

Fifth: Read a book.

The great philosopher Goethe once said, "Reading a good book is like talking to a noble person." "Reading can purify people's hearts, and at the same time, it can also eliminate distractions in your hearts to a certain extent, so when you are in a bad mood and can't calm down, when you enter work, you can find a book you like to read.

Not only can you purify your mind, but you will also learn in the process of reading.

It's about feeling really good, and telling yourself that this is a kind of experience for yourself, so that you can overcome these disappointments.

Allow yourself to take a break for a while, even for a few hours, to take stock of your mood, get out for a walk, and start again.

No matter what happens, we should face it with an optimistic attitude, don't put too much pressure on ourselves, and don't care too much about other people's opinions, just do our best in everything.

People can't always be smooth sailing, and there will always be a little twists and turns. A person who is more psychologically mature is often not without unsatisfactory things, but a person who is good at regulating and controlling his own emotions. The first thing to do is to calm down and calm down.

At this time, you might as well let go of your work, go out of the house, take a walk in a place where there are few people outside, quietly think carefully, you have no mistakes, and then perform those unsatisfactory things, analyze them, and make solutions. In this way, you will not be immersed in a bad mood that will affect your work and health. Impulsiveness is the devil, and a good attitude will make everything disappear and return to "must be happy.""Circumstances.

You can live without anyone, and independence is what you need most right now.

It's a bit of an exaggeration to think about what a little thing is worth it for you to sigh so much that you even think of death.

I recommend a book to you, you can take this time at home to watch it, or watch TV movies, the name is "Alive", you can go and see the protagonist in it, see what kind of life he has, see how he came step by step, you are really too small to be small.

I quit my job, I can find it again, there are many jobs in the world, the objects can't be done, you can do it slowly, there are many objects in the world, these things are all daily trivialities, and you can't even carry these things, how should you live in the second half of your life? Wouldn't it be even more painful?

Cheer up, there's nothing you can't get over, persevere, work hard, and everything will be fine.

I hope you are doing it yourself.

Fool, don't move and want to die! Take a trip to the hospital and see those patients, I guess you don't want to die! If the work is not smooth, you can find it again, there is no place to stay here, there is a place to keep the master. Try to fight for this thing of feelings, if it is really not suitable, let it go, this thing of feelings depends on fate!

Whether life goes well or not depends on yourself, depending on the degree of your efforts.

My husband is also divorced, he and his ex-wife have a child, they will occasionally contact me behind my back, I think of the scene when they were together, my heart really hurts, but I love him and don't want to lose him, so every time I quarrel because of this even if it is his fault, I compromise, no matter what, he will not take the initiative to coax me.

I feel very tired, so I know your current situation very well, and I know that you are also very painful in your heart, in fact, we all know in our hearts that if we continue like this, we will lose ourselves, and we will not get the love of our husbands at all.

So, let's just try to do our part, don't complain too much, if you are really tired and don't want to live one day, we will leave.

You don't like to hear my words, and I don't expect you to take them, but I'm going to tell you the truth.

Your husband is an irresponsible, domineering person.

Irresponsible performance: Your flash marriage is irresponsible, you don't understand each other clearly at all, and he hasn't even decided to fall in love with you. After marriage, he also had affairs with other women. The most odious thing is not to admit mistakes.

Domineering and inconsistent: he can't say that others are bullying you, but it is he who hurts you the most!

In my eyes, he is not a man at all! is also immature and doesn't know how to get along with his lover.

A man can have no looks, no money, no house, but he must not be without a sense of responsibility! Is such a man still worthy of your love? Divorce it, or you'll be constantly hurt!

Be brave enough to say no to unbearable life situations. Your happiness is in your own hands, not someone else's.

Whenever you build your emotional life on the weaknesses of another person, it means that you are completely in the hands of that person, which means that you are empowering the other person to continue to mess up your own life in this way. You have allowed your past to hold your future hostage.

In fact, we are not victims, and we are always free to make choices about the actions of others and choose our own way of responding. Our society has always placed too much emphasis on the victim mentality and the mindset of condemning others, when in fact we all have an innate ability to be the masters of our own lives.

You are such a kind person, and in my opinion, your husband is very cunning. He knows you, he knows that you love him, and you can even tolerate him and other women, so he chooses to marry you, so that he may enjoy: "The red chess pieces at home do not fall, and the colorful chess pieces are fluttering outside".

You're so stupid. But I don't deny that your husband loves you, and he plays tricks on other women. You're overindulgent to him.

No way. I don't have to worry about anything else, I'm worried that one day your husband and another woman will infect you with a disease that shouldn't be there. Think for yourself, if you can tolerate him like this, then the marriage continues, and if one day you can't stand it, maybe your departure can wake him up.

He doesn't love you at all, you're too self-inflicted, a smart woman wants to find a man who loves her as a husband, and only a stupid woman will find a man who loves him and he doesn't love himself as a husband. You are really a very stupid person, he treats you like this, it only proves that he is a rather selfish man, he was hurt by his ex-wife, and he came to you to make amends, he must be a thousand times better than you for his ex-wife, ten thousand times, don't you feel sad? He is a cow and a horse in others, showing off his power in front of you, yes, what do you say, one word is cheap, two words, too cheap.

Like you said: "Every time he changes his face, I am not wrong, but every time I compromise, including every time, he and a certain girl's affairs, let me find out, and finally let him make it as if I was wrong, I always keep the fire on the fire and don't quarrel with him, I am afraid that he is under pressure, because other things do not go well, it becomes like this."

Remember, as long as you've been with him, he'll always do this to you, because you don't have any place in his heart, you're just there to make a fool of yourself. If you don't leave him, you'll never be happy.

I love him very much, I don't want to lose him, I think this is what I owe him in my last life, I just want to know who understands his mentality, can tell me how I can get along with him, and slowly let him get rid of these bad habits. You owe him a favor in your last life, and you should pay it back in this life. I studied psychology, but I believe in causal cycles...

In real life, you have to rely on your own ability to control love, and if you make the other party feel that you can live by him, it will be a cup. To prove that you have the ability to have a better lover, you will let the other person cherish it. Not for the sake of points.

Please don't ask.