What should I do if I break up with my boyfriend for seven years and am urged by my family to have a

Updated on psychology 2024-06-26
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Seven years of affection is said to let go of it, that is simply impossible. You need time to heal the wounds, but time will not wait for you, and fate will not wait for you. In these seven years, because of him, you have missed many opportunities; And now, he has failed you for his own chance.

    You don't have a second seven years to waste, what you need to do is to come out of the pain and confusion as soon as possible, throw away the illusions about him, and wipe away your tears while looking for your new happy life. Whether you believe it or not, love still exists. Just because a tree has withered doesn't mean there are vast forests in the world.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Then hand it over, contact it first, as for whether it's hot or not, it's not up to you. Not to mention that there are no expectations for love, there are still good men, and love is still there. Love is not only sweet, if you have to think so beautifully, you must be disappointed.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Seven years of relationship, said to be divided, in fact, it is also more sad, at this time I think I should not go to greedy friends, I should first let myself cultivate well, you can tell your family about this situation, there is no need to make a boyfriend at this time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Brother, you tell the family that I'll slow down first. Bring a baby to you this time next year.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You broke up and your family knew about it. , 7 years of love in the name of breaking up, is to let both parties calm down for a period of time, as the saying goes, the lotus root is broken. You still have a little concern for him!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Calm down for a while, and don't deliberately contact your ex-boyfriend. Remember, it's yours that can't fly, and it's not yours that can't stay, you know. People are valuable in self-awareness, not to bow their heads, and not to be domineering

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Then tell the family directly.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Sit down and ask your boyfriend if it's because you're not doing well or because you're doing something else, if it's something you're not doing well, then you're going to try to correct it, and if it's something else without going against your will, then break up,

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Tell your boyfriend that you have to give yourself a formal reason, and if the man is a scumbag, then you don't have to care about him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If it were me, I would definitely break up as soon as possible, because I felt that since the two of us had been living together for three years, the man was still unwilling to marry me, and he still said such things, which showed that there was no me in his mind at all.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After being in love for such a long time, feelings are very rare, if you like your boyfriend very much, you have to take the initiative to redeem him and see if you can turn back.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm sorry to be honest, but your situation is not optimistic.

    Boyfriend doesn't take you home there.

    1 And his family is against the two of you being together.

    2. Your boyfriend doesn't care about you and doesn't want you to see your parents to formalize the relationship. When you're young, your heart still can't settle down.

    3 Various reasons for dog blood in TV series.

    I can only say that you have been with him for 2 years, and you are reluctant to let you leave him.

    You can only prepare for the worst, keep a good attitude every day, and hope that he will cherish you.

    As for continuing to urge him, it will only make him more tired of you, the man has been two years, and he is no longer the one who was obsessed with you back then. Now you can only be tolerant of him every day, hoping to make him feel your warmth and feel comfortable by your side. Maybe one day he won't dump you.

    Of course, I hope you can talk to him openly and honestly about your future plans. (This must be with a determination to die, if you don't make a good decision, continue to drag it) explain your thoughts and frankly say that you are all adults, there is no need to force each other, a woman's youth is very important, there is no time to waste, if it is true that both parties can have a better choice. Although it hurts me a little now, I can find my happiness sooner.

    Hopefully, he's not a selfish beast and will let go.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It is very likely that you are secretly married or do not want to marry you, and the choice is very simple.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Now that you've known each other for more than two years, he hasn't taken you home. It shows that he is still a little half-hearted about you and is not sure to marry you in the future. You can give him an ultimatum for stupid cars.

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