My boyfriend is going to work far away and I don t want him to go?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let him choose for himself, and he won't regret it later.

    You have to keep him around, maybe he will complain about you if you don't have a good time together in the future.

    Also, I think that women should not interfere with men's choices when it comes to work and career, especially when they are in love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There are certain risks associated with long-distance relationships, but if you are both platonic lovers, that's fine, and if you are not, then you'll have to deal with the emptiness of not being together for a long time, the annoyance of having no one to rely on when you're not around, and the anxiety of having different topics as you get farther and farther away.

    All you have to do is either go with him, stay with him, be prepared to accept this, or break up (which is the least wise and wisest option, of course).

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If the distance is far, it will be far away.

    I think it's okay to stick to it if you really care, and persistence is also a process, a process of maturity.

    If you really can't do it, you can divide it, and feelings are very tangled, so there's no need to think so much, no matter which step you take, I hope you understand.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Anthracene, if you work in the field for a long time, it is really difficult for the future of the two of you, even if you are in constant contact with each other, but you will not know what he is like there, if you can go there it is the best, so try to keep it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Little sister, it's really not good to be far away, don't listen to them tell fairy tales, it's best to stop him from staying by your side.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not good if the two of you are far away, you can consider going with him, and it's not bad for young people to go outside!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are many reasons,1

    He works very hard and doesn't want you to see it, he doesn't want you to worry about him. 2

    He talks and laughs with his friends of the opposite sex, afraid that you will be jealous when you see it. 3 He doesn't want to admit to his colleagues or friends that you are his girlfriend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait for a while Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while The first possibility is that I miss you and want to be with you.

    The second situation is to look at you and not let you have contact with other boys.

    He said it several times. Today I said that we will work in one unit.

    It mainly depends on your own wishes.

    Because we used to work together, but then we went to work separately. He said he wanted to work in the same unit as me.

    If you think it's good to work together, go to work together, and if you think it's good to work alone, you're not together.

    It feels like you don't trust me. Check your phone every time you meet.

    You can talk to your boyfriend.

    It's useless. There is no room for negotiation. When we met, I said that I would bring my mobile phone.

    When he's done, you can sit down with her and talk.

    If you feel that you can't accept him looking at his phone.

    and refused to give it to him.

    If you don't give it, you can't do it! And he robbed it.

    Then hit him. Let him remember it for a long time.

    He said he wouldn't show him if there was a ghost in his heart.

    You can break up once to let him know that you are angry about it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, after my analysis, your boyfriend actually wants to have a further relationship with you, you are always good in front of him, he likes you, wants to contact you more, meet more.

    Why does my boyfriend always want me to work in the same place with him?

    Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, after my analysis, your boyfriend actually wants to have a further relationship with you, you are always good in front of him, he likes you, wants to contact you more, meet more.

    But we've been together for half a year. He said again today that he would do a good job in working in one unit.

    This does not affect him to want to see you more, he wants to get along with you day and night, and couples don't like to live apart.

    We are in one city. It's just not in a unit.

    You think about what men want to do.

    But we were boyfriend and girlfriend in the first place.

    He just wants you to be more intimate, don't think too much, and don't worry.

    He said I wasn't at work and was a little lost. I went to see him and he was much better. Then it was said that it was better to work in one unit.

    Yes, I just want you to be by his side, the closer the better.

    But I know that there was a woman in our former unit who liked him. He kept saying that there was no thing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It depends on your specific situation, why doesn't he come to the city where you work, if it's me, I won't go, unless we get married together, I will go, because it's not good to separate after marriage.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Gotta see your wishes, we'll just du

    It's a suggestion for you, the most important thing is your heart. First of all, you have to ask yourself if you love him enough, go to another strange city for him, leave your parents, give up your job; Secondly, you have to have a long-term plan, whether the two of them have the intention to get married, if the two of you are just in love, it is not necessary, after all, it is useless if you go with him in the end without a good result. Finally, since you have to ask someone, it means that your heart is wavering, and you are not unhesitating, so you may regret it after you go, so it is better to think carefully.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The amount of specific information is too small... Anyway, it depends.

    Du how your boyfriend is

    people, if you still go yourself.

    DAO is relatively unfamiliar.

    If you are born and don't have the appearance of other acquaintances, it will be more dangerous to be a woman. Even if your boyfriend can't beat you, he may call a helper or something. Please forgive me for making up my brain in the direction of abduction.,Because you're asking this question a little hanging.,It looks like I didn't have a long relationship and said I was going to take you out to live together.。。。

    Did he say what he was doing with you? What are you going to do over there? Can you say don't want the work here?

    Or did you take the initiative to ask him to introduce him to work or something? Hawkers, anyway, if you don't know your boyfriend's year, it's better to pass.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I should go.

    The place where your boyfriend works is about to be your place of residence, if you don't go before you get married, it will be easy to separate the two places later, how many young people can endure separation, if your boyfriend is the object of your marriage, then you should go.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Go, as long as you love Him, go.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You shouldn't go because you will face a lot of difficulties when you go to his city. e5a48de588b662616964757a686964616f31333433646436

    1. Away from parents, it is difficult to meet with parents.

    After you go to his city, you can't accompany your parents to fulfill your filial piety, and you can only say a few words of greeting when your parents are sick; I didn't dare to say anything if I was wronged, for fear that they would be worried. It is difficult to go home far from home, and even if the transportation is convenient, there are many practical reasons that will affect the trip. Your parents raised you to grow up, but in fact, what they want most is that you can live this life happily and securely.

    They worry that you are not used to living in a foreign country, that you are being bullied by your boyfriend, that you are not able to take care of yourself, so it is difficult for them to settle down.

    2. You have difficulty fitting into a new environment.

    If you promise him, it means starting everything over again in a strange city. It is difficult to adapt to the unfamiliar environment, language and food in all aspects. Many people find it difficult to adapt to a city.

    If you are a person from the south to the north, you will not understand the northern accent, and you will not be used to eating pasta and flatbread, and you will see your boyfriend's family talking and laughing, but you can only watch silently. Your loneliness is intense, and only you know the sadness in it.

    3. Friends gradually drift apart.

    Away from the familiar city, old friends are gradually moving away, and they rarely see each other. Everyone is busy with their respective families, and when you confide in her, she doesn't know how to comfort you, so your relationship slowly drifts apart. In a new city, it's hard to meet friends who treat each other with sincerity and affection as before.

    4. Isolated and helpless when wronged.

    In a place close to home, if you are wronged, your family and friends will support you; But once you go to your friend's city, you will feel more lonely when you are wronged, and you have nowhere to go, so you can only swallow your anger. In a strange city, you can only put all your emotions on your boyfriend, and if he is no longer on your side, you will feel that the whole world has collapsed.

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