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It doesn't matter. Because, if you are not married, you can't call it a new house. Fathers can live temporarily. When you want to get married, you can redecorate the new house and use it as a wedding room.
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It probably doesn't matter. In fact, during the renovation process, it is possible that the renovation worker has used your toilet, but you don't know it. In some places, the custom is to make beds and sleep for the elderly.
And if it's your own loved ones, then there will be no taboos.
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You're not married, and your father slept in your new house, so what's there? for he is your father. Don't worry so much, just sleep in your room.
If you're still calculating, you can put yourself in their shoes. What are your family afraid of when they sleep? How can there be so much to say, everything is up to you, in fact, there is not so much to say in the world.
You're tired of thinking too much. Then you have to be healthy and happy.
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Good! The flesh and blood are all given by the parents, what's wrong with the father sleeping in the marriage room, don't believe those superstitious things.
Happy to you!
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It's nothing. As long as you don't go, don't care about anything. It's something you know if you don't know, then.
Time. Is it in the past? Even if there is a new house, there is nothing to worry about.
If you drill hard, you will be sharpened. Think of him. This will only.
Make yourself unhappy, as long as you don't think about him. Nothing. It's going to be fine.
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Although it is your new house, you have not moved in yet, and there is nothing wrong with your loved ones sleeping in the new house.
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What's this, it's a big deal to change the bed sheets, and in some places there seems to be a custom that the father-in-law sleeps on the wedding night before.
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If you don't pay so much attention to it, it should be okay for your family to sleep temporarily.
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Nothing. own father. Clean up from scratch.
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The new house is for newlyweds, why is this father so ignorant, and now it can only be like this, what can I do with him.
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I'm not married yet, my father is asleep, is my heart good?
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There is nothing taboo about this.
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To be honest, after listening to that, my heart stopped for a while. Nowadays, many sensible old people do not want to live with their wives and children, and they say that it is reasonable to want happiness. Just like her family, that's really a minority.
However, all families have difficult experiences, and the elderly want to live with their children, so they have to think for themselves for fear of loneliness. The increase in the number of people who do not want to live with the elderly after marriage is actually just these reasons, and it has nothing to do with honoring their parents. If there is a contradiction between two ideas and concepts, try to communicate as much as possible.
Because the elderly do not want to be too strong, they can reduce the burden on their parents through an independent portal**. In fact, many young people want to live alone after marriage and do not want to cause trouble to their parents. As a result, if you continue to live with them, your parents will have to cook for them, clean their clothes, buy food, etc., and do chores all day long.
When you're late from work, it's necessary for your parents to worry about that. In short, as long as the parents are under their eyes, they still treat themselves as children.
But after separation, the elderly simply take care of themselves. You don't have to work hard to do household chores. In addition, there is no need to buy groceries and cook on time every day.
Occasionally, I want to go shopping, square dance, and when I get home, I don't have to worry about no one at home. Avoid mother-daughter conflicts and keep the peace with your family (root cause). Especially after the birth of a child, various conflicts may arise between the mother-in-law and the mother-in-law.
This is directly related to the unstable family and can even threaten the marriage relationship of the two.
But after living apart, distance can sometimes produce beauty, not living together day by day, but becoming closer. Moreover, there is no need to change each other's habits in order to adapt to this new life. Parents don't have to change decades of cooking and lifestyle habits.
In addition, young people feel satisfied with themselves and do not have to grieve for becoming tolerant.
Because they are different, a lot of conflicts and frictions can be avoided, which will further promote harmony and peace in the family. In this way, young people who live alone will become more comfortable.
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I'm the same as you, I used to hate very much, complaining about why it's his son, don't listen to the mother's ** question, when you why do you want to look for him, so many rich people, the official is not chosen, so I am now like a field, and then after moving out, there is no daily relative, the contradiction fades over time, and will look at the problem from another angle, in fact, he also has advantages, although stingy, but always cares about us, but will not express, although often deceived by women, but the concern for us has not changed, there is only one father, old, We can't change anything about him, as long as it's not a big matter of principle, let him live according to his own life pattern, have time to meet, everyone is less estranged, and care about each other more, each family has a difficult scripture, I don't dare to preach you, just with my experience, it's good to see each other, it's difficult to live together, it's a good way to move out for a minute, the contradiction will not deepen every day, the old contradiction has not disappeared, the new one is coming again, getting deeper and deeper, and when everyone is calm, they will empathize, yes, try, I hope you can reconcile with your father, It's just this time in my life, I can't say in the next life, the tree wants to move and the wind continues, the son wants to raise but the relatives are not there, I feel guilty and helpless about my mother.
Personally, I think that since you haven't thought about marrying your boyfriend, first of all, you shouldn't go to your boyfriend's house easily, which is also not good, because then your boyfriend's parents know that you are their daughter-in-law, and you will come in the future, so this is the first point, pay attention to the place, not a special thing, don't go to your parents easily, if you don't decide to get married. Secondly, if you have already gone, then the man's parents give you money, which is also a custom and etiquette. If you don't accept it, it doesn't seem to be particularly good, so you can accept it, but remember the money you accepted, and if you don't marry your boyfriend in the future, then you can return the money to your boyfriend, which is an option.
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