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I think it is necessary to judge whether there will be hidden dangers to see what kind of person your boyfriend is, if your boyfriend is a mature, steady, positive and reasonable young man. Then there's nothing wrong with you listening to him. So you don't have to use your own brain, you can sit back and enjoy it.
And your listening to him is enough to show that you trust him, and I believe that he can also feel your love for him, which will also make him more confident. <>
But if your boyfriend is a relatively naïve person who is immature in speaking and acting, then it is not good for you to listen to him all the time, which will only make him worse and worse. It's like an idiom - aiding and abusive, if he says the wrong thing or does the wrong thing, and you keep following his will, he will feel that he has done nothing wrong, because you approve of his behavior. Maybe the first and second time you can turn a blind eye and let him please, but what about the fourth, fifth, or even more times?
Blind obedience to him is harming him and making him develop very bad habits. So I think if he does something wrong, or something wrong, you have to point it out to him, give him reasonable advice, and let him know that he is wrong, so that he can grow up slowly. <>
If you've been listening to your boyfriend, there's still a hidden danger that he'll slowly ignore your feelings. Because you have always listened to him very much, he makes decisions about everything, and you have no opinion. Over time, he will feel that you and his ideas are on the same page, and when he decides something later, he will even confuse you to make your own decisions.
So, I think you can also make your own suggestions appropriately afterwards, of course, under reasonable circumstances, and if what he says is completely fine, you don't have to force the advice, which will only backfire. <>
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I think it's a possibility! It depends on what your boyfriend will do then, but I also think that you can't follow one person in everything in love, so you will love until you blindly lose yourself.
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Of course, this will become a hidden danger, men are in control of desires, if you are so obedient, his desires will be stronger, strong enough to beat and scold you, it is better to have your own opinions.
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It's possible. If you are too pampered and pampered, he will think that you are not important. It's just that I'm going to take care of you, so I may become less and less interested in you. So I think it's right to listen to him, but there are some things that he says wrong that shouldn't be indulged in him.
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Listen more and more to your boyfriend's words, then you will definitely be slowly tamed by your boyfriend in the future, and you will become a special bird, very well-behaved, and you have no right to speak.
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It depends on the individual, I think even if you are good with your boyfriend, you should maintain your independence and thoughts, not as good as later, getting along with your boyfriend will become very embarrassing, after all, your boyfriend is because he likes you before.
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Women have a negative IQ in love, and women should not be men's accessories in love, but should pay attention to maintaining themselves, not too obedient to their boyfriends, and must remain sober and have their own personality.
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Yes, you have been relying on him to listen to him, which is equivalent to losing the initiative in your relationship, you also have to have your own ideas, you can't be obedient, otherwise your boyfriend will easily make decisions for you regardless of your feelings in the future.
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I think it will, so that you will become more and more unassertive and easy to be bullied in the future, so I think you should change yourself appropriately and have a little bit of your own opinion.
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Women must have their own independent way of thinking and economy**, which is very important before and after marriage, which will make two people really in a relationship of equal communicationLet two people negotiate to solve some problems in the course of the relationship, rather than one party's serious dependence on the other.
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Yes, this will reduce your own logical thinking ability, so try to have your own prediction in everything and pay more attention to social information
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What you listen to means that you trust him and you think his words are very reasonable, and you still have to have your own independent thinking about your boyfriend's words, and you can't form dependence.
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Yes, the relationship should be equal and respectful to each other, and everything should be done in consultation with each other, and if your boyfriend has always said it, then it may fix this pattern in the future, and you will lose yourself more and more, so that over time, it will make him feel that he should listen to him, and you will not be allowed to raise any objections.
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It will indeed become a hidden danger in the future, it is not good to rely too much on one person, you should have your own ideas in life, you should learn to be independent, and realize your self-worth.
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I think you can have a good talk with your boyfriend, tell him that the relationship between you has not reached the point of openness now, and hope that your boyfriend can give him a little time.