It s getting tiring with my girlfriend. Been talking about it for more than 1 year

You have written so much, I feel your confusion, but as the same male compatriot, what I want to say is, first, are you doing a good job, in fact, women are arguing, just want you to comfort, or want to turn your attention to her, do you feel that you are in a group to the point where you don't have to care too much about the other party's thoughts? Second, why did she get worse like this, do you have to find out the reason? Is it that the two of you can't do anything to satisfy each other, since you're together, if there's something that is not easy to solve, if you're annoying, it means that your feelings for her are really light, and you can't even be interested!!

Thirdly, you must not be mature enough in terms of what you have said, so why bother yourself? If you really can't quit, it's not a big deal, brother, don't keep putting yourself too low, know how to grasp the scale.

In fact, I also feel that the best way to deal with vexatious trouble is to ignore it, but after all, she is a girlfriend, and she should coax it, and for girls who are inconsiderate, I personally feel really tired.

It should be that she is still young, she has not experienced many things, and she has not experienced many precipitated feelings, and she always feels that your doting on her is endless and deserved, and then she doesn't know how to cherish you, and only cares about enjoyment.

You have to talk about your girlfriend on the one hand, and you have to study hard at the same time, which is hard enough.

After talking for more than a year, I really can't bear it anymore and I should still be a little reluctant when I want to break up, I really hope she can learn to cherish you and then be happy.

I'm sad to say that I feel the same way as you. But I'm a girl: > I don't know what he thinks, I'm so nice to him. It was because he was angry and quarreled, and he said that every time he finished a fight, he missed his ex-girlfriend.

I laughed. Now both of them are quiet.

My attitude is that it doesn't matter if it takes its course.

If you don't love, why are you together? It's just that I don't want to.

I wish you happiness.

If you think you can still accommodate her, it means that you still love him, and then communicate with her more; If you can't stand it anymore, just break up with her.

Women are like this, and I think men should lift up their pathetic dignity.

I think what you said is not unreasonable.,But girls.,Sometimes it's understandable to make trouble.、It's understandable.,It depends on whether you love her.。。

Alas, personal mentality, know what you want.

In love life, the happiest moment is when you find the right person, the other party spoils you, indulges your habits, can accept your shortcomings, loves everything about yourself, and two people really love each other, so you can expect the relationship to continue. In this world, we will meet many people, but there is only one who can go on happily with each other, so we must learn to cherish the person around us. So now let's look at such a question, I have been in love with my girlfriend for more than a year, I love her very much but I feel tired with her, what should I do?

If you feel tired with each other, then the relationship has come to a more tired period, maybe you don't love it anymore, it's better to try to let go of this relationship. <>

One. I feel tired in the relationship, maybe it's because I'm tired of the relationship.

Everyone knows that real feelings need to go through many periods, acquaintances, love, and love.

There is also the lull period, when two people slowly lose their enthusiasm for each other, and these passions may turn into some love in life. If two people no longer have love, then there is no need to maintain this relationship, being together for more than a year is enough to let yourself know each other, you feel tired, maybe you are tired, you don't want to love, it's better to try to let go of this relationship. <>

Two. To love someone is to say what you think in time.

When we fall in love with someone, we will take the initiative to confess to each other, when we don't love, we also have to find something to say to each other, some people are very serious about feelings, if it drags on slowly, it will only make two people bruised all over the body, completely ruining the beauty of this love. Love needs to go both ways, as long as a person loses his love for the other person in love, then, in the later life, he can't feel the existence of love at all, it is better to let go early, sometimes letting go is also a kind of love. <>

The above is just a personal opinion, how do you think to solve such a situation?

I think you should talk to your girlfriend about why you're feeling so tired, and then the two of you can work it out together.

You should calm yourself down first, and then find an appropriate time to communicate with her and listen to the other person's thoughts first.

First, understand the root cause of the other party's tiredness through any meansIf you have been talking about the relationship with your girlfriend for more than two years, and she says that she is tired and tired and separates for a period of time, no matter what way she does, you must really understand the root cause of the other party's tiredness and tiredness, rather than the other party saying that he is tired and wants to rest and want to be separated for a while, so he really doesn't care about letting the other party go. Nothing happens for no reason, there is a cause and effect, and since something happens, there must always be a reason. Whether you are tired or tired is simply tired or mentally tired, so you must make this point clear.

Second, after being separated for a period of time, you must remember the care and greetings you should have, don't really wait for a straight man, otherwise you will only have to wait for a breakup, even if you really choose to separate for a period of time, then as a man, you must remember that during the time when the two are separated, there should be care and greetings. Although it can't be said that it is completely undisturbed, after all, if the love of two people greeting each other and caring for each other has become a kind of disturbance, then this is no longer called love. Therefore, if the woman says such words, she must do a good job of daily care and greetings, but not 24 hours a day.

But don't wait straight men, otherwise you wait until the end, and the other party is gone.

Third, think about the problem from yourself, whether it is related to yourself, if there is a third situation to correct in time, if you are sure that the other party has nothing unhappy and unsatisfactory in life and work, but inexplicably said such things and has such thoughts, then you must figure it out,You must learn to think about the problem from your own point of view, whether the other party is tired and tired is related to the way you get along, whether you have done anything to hurt the other party, and consider these aspects. If it is indeed your own problem, then correct it in time to avoid further bad development.

Two people should be separated for a while, think calmly, so that it is good for both people, and at the same time, the emotional development of two people should be thought through.

First of all, you should communicate well with your girlfriend, try your best to keep it, if your girlfriend has made up her mind, then separate for a period of time and calm down with each other.

I don't think I should agree to her, because once the two people are separated, there will be a gap, and it will be difficult to continue the front edge.

You should have a good talk with your girlfriend first, see what the problem of the two people is, and then make appropriate adjustments, you must not separate, once separated, it is difficult to get back together.

1. Don't have too much hope and expectation for this relationship, because the greater the expectation of another person, the greater the disappointment. And I don't have to express my feelings to her with particularly warm and energetic feelings, because it may also be a kind of pressure for the other party.

2, keep your distance, don't know anything after being together, Weibo let others know, and Q doesn't need to be associated. Because sometimes there are some unnecessary suspicions and suspicions. And once this happens, it's hard to dissipate.

3. Don't focus on falling in love, there are more important things to do in college. A girl won't change her heart because of how much you love her. She needs to see that you have advantages that others don't have, which can be appearance, experience, and grades.

4. Don't have too many lies, paper can't contain fire. Lies can silence the other person again and again, but this is only a stopgap measure after all. The most important thing for couples to get along with each other is trust, so you don't want to consume this trust again and again.

5. Love is unfair, the more you give, the less you may gain, the less you will be valued, and the less you will be cherished. What you can't get is always in turmoil, but what is favored has no fear. Personal experience, when you fall in love in college, don't devote yourself to it, but also allocate a considerable part of your energy and time to study, otherwise you may lose your wife and lose your soldiers in the end.

6. Don't share all the stories as soon as you come up. During a relationship, the most important thing is the common language, which is the so-called topic. If you finish all the words in your heart at the beginning because you are too excited and excited, you will definitely have nothing to say in the end.

And once there is no common topic between the two, they can only stare at each other with wide eyes, and they are not far from breaking up.