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You don't even have to be afraid of death, but you are still afraid of troubles? I can only say that there is something wrong with your head, and before you die, you think about what else you can do, I estimate that you will have countless things that you have not done yet, but why do you choose to die! Death is the most incompetent manifestation.
Slowly adjust your mentality and look at everything indifferently. The troubles are naturally gone. Don't get along with yourself anymore.
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The Buddha said, "Have you really let go?" Do you really want to escape into the void?
You're not a Buddha, you're just trying to escape from the state that is bothering you right now. Everything is empty is the essence of my Buddha, and entering my Buddha door may not be free of troubles according to your current state, you have too many thoughts in your heart, too much attachment. So live well.
My Buddha is merciful and will protect you.
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It is recommended to go to a psychological counseling first, some psychological problems may never get better by relying on self-regulation, and they also need professional medical assistance.
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Go to the address that appears below, and there's the answer you're looking for!
By the way, you're so good! I never thought anyone would think like this! It's cool, but I hope you can make it through! I don't know what your big troubles are, but I still wish you a lot of hard work!
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If I were you, I wouldn't have the ridiculous idea of becoming a monk.
I will pack up and go to a strange city, give myself a chance to start again, and adjust to the return.
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Q: After becoming a monk, will there be no worries?
Venerable Jiqun replied: If there are no afflictions, then you will become a Buddha. But for people in the world, everyone's lifestyle and cultivation are different, and their troubles are naturally different.
As the saying goes, there is nothing in the world, mediocre people disturb themselves, and troubles come from **? I found it myself. A person who is detached from things will naturally have a lot less troubles, and the more we demand, the more troubles we will have.
We want to get married and start a family, but we don't know that getting married and starting a family is the beginning of troubles, and having children is the beginning of worry; We want to have a successful career, but the bigger the career, the deeper we will fall, and we will have an unfinished heart and endless work.
I have been a monk for more than 20 years, and I have never worried about family or work, so none of these worries are for me. Personally, I've always been propagating the Dharma with fate, doing my best to do something when the conditions are ripe, and I don't have a particularly clear goal or something that I have to accomplish, so I don't have any attachments, and my troubles are not obvious.
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Summary. Hello, glad to answer for you. It is true that becoming a monk can escape some problems in reality, but if you choose to become a monk, you will also miss out on the scenery and beauty that you could have experienced in life.
First of all, the motive for becoming a monk must be pure, and there must be a determination to renounce the greed of the world and to be able to endure hardships and hard work. To develop great bodhichitta, one must have a certain amount of talent, so that one can bear the burden of the family business and become a human and heavenly teacher for all beings in the world. For monks, it doesn't matter if you have a diploma, you don't care about your wealth, you don't care about your status, you don't have a culture or not, it doesn't matter if you don't even know how to read, the most important thing is to have a heart, to have a compassionate wish of "not tolerating the suffering of sentient beings, not tolerating the decline of the Holy Religion, not seeking happiness for yourself, and only wishing sentient beings to be free from suffering", which is the most important thing.
I'm tired and want to become a monk?
Hello, glad to answer for you. It is true that becoming a monk can escape some problems in reality, but if you choose to become a monk, you will also miss out on the scenery and beauty that you could have experienced in life. First of all, the motive for becoming a monk must be pure, and there must be a determination to renounce the greed of the world and to be able to endure hardships and hard work.
To develop great bodhichitta, one must have a certain amount of talent, so that one can bear the burden of the family business and become a human and heavenly teacher for all beings in the world. For monks, it doesn't matter if you have a diploma, you don't care about your wealth, you don't care about your status, you don't have a culture or not, it doesn't matter if you don't even know how to read, the most important thing is to have a heart, to have a compassionate wish of "not tolerating the suffering of sentient beings, not tolerating the decline of the Holy Religion, not seeking happiness for yourself, and only wishing sentient beings to be free from suffering", which is the most important thing.
I was alive and collapsed, so I wanted to be alone.
Hello, when you are in a bad mood, you can choose to travel or relax.
Is there a Buddhist temple to take me in, and I don't want to go home for the rest of my life.
Dear: I'm going to ask about this at the temple.
Don't know where there is a temple?
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