What about a cold war with the boy sitting behind me?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-17
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Actually, the boy you're talking about is better than me. I'm also a more self-egoistic boy, Scorpio, I'm about the same as this boy, but I don't like to play tricks on people so much, I'm a liberal arts student. Let's dissect him from my point of view, first of all, he is only playing tricks on you, right?

    That's because he likes you, generally boys with a character like us are more proud, and they won't like someone easily, and if they like it, they will always remember it, but they won't say it directly, so it's a side knock. Secondly, his attitude towards you is a lukewarm attitude, which shows that you are still very important in his heart, but he wants to show "disdain" for you, he is too proud, so you need to use an attitude of looking up to him, he will be comfortable in his heart, and will be more enthusiastic about you, provided that you have to pick out each other's words. In the end, judging by his behavior, he doesn't know how to confess to you, which is why he takes such a childish action, so you have to forgive him, after all, he wants to get close to you.

    I think what you have to do now is to have a good talk with him, have a meal, have a chat, and if you want him to agree, you must put a low posture and just talk to him. If you don't agree, let the other students go out to eat together, and then talk alone.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I'm in a similar situation to you right now, in a cold war with a guy with whom I have a good relationship. I understand your feelings, I want to speak but I think he did something wrong, for the sake of face, and I want to wait for him to speak. Isn't it?

    In fact, sometimes face is not so important, as long as both of them take a step back. Maybe at this time, he is also waiting for you to speak first! Sometimes misunderstandings come about like this.

    are waiting for each other to come forward to solve it first. Just take the initiative again! It makes you look like you're measured!

    If you take the initiative to solve it, it will make him feel embarrassed. I took the initiative to talk to my friend last night, and now that the two of them have resumed their previous relationship, they don't regret it at all, and they don't feel embarrassed at all. If you think about it, is it the importance of friends or the importance of face.

    Moreover, you are also in your third year of high school now, and there is not much time left for us to be together, so don't let you have regrets when you recall your high school days in the future. It's time to be distracted by something else, is it? Hope it helps, good luck!

    If you can, so be it!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Are you a boy or a girl? If it's a girl, why do you care about him? This kind of person is like this, if he ignores you, you ignore him, apologize that you have already said it, see who has spent whom, or simply find a teacher to change seats, if he still cares about the friendship between you, he will definitely take the initiative to admit his mistakes, if he doesn't admit his mistakes, then don't pay attention to him, which shows that he doesn't care at all, it's too worthless for you to be here with a little entanglement

    If you're a boy, I'd like to say why do you want so much for a boy? It's just right to ignore him, Lao Tzu still looks at him unhappy

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Since you want your friendship to continue, you can write a small note and put it in the book you will take in the next class (note that it is sandwiched to the page that he will turn to), and you can write words about your friendship (for example, there was a sincere friendship in front of me, but I didn't cherish it, and I regretted it when I knew it was lost.) If God gives me another chance, I will say to that man, I hope our friendship lasts forever, if you want to add a deadline, I hope it is 10,000 years) to make him think that you still care about your friendship, and then pretend to borrow his things (such as pens, tutorials, etc.), then you have spoken, your problems will be solved, and after a long talk after reconciliation, your friendship will be better. Hope it will help you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't be so face-conscious, everyone is a friend, it's good to say something, don't lose a good friend because of face! In the cold war between two people, there will always be such a person who will bow his head first, and besides, you also said that you have always accommodated him before, and it is not bad this time, right? Besides, it's almost the third year of high school, don't let this little thing affect your studies, it's normal for friends to fight and make trouble!

    I think the two most important things in my student days are friends and studying, don't lose friends and grades because of the love of face! How nice it is for everyone to have a good time in high school! Hehe, I wish you all a speedy reconciliation.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I feel like you have a good relationship, and he only treats you like this, which should be regarded as a different kind of care. In fact, you can call a few of you who are good at playing and go out to play together, sing and drink, and talk about anything after drinking.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Do something that makes him jealous (from a friend, of course), such as fighting with other boys. Or maybe you don't say that you are reconciled with him on the surface, but only hint at him, for example, by asking him to borrow a pen or something. (Don't keep your face cold).

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's very simple, don't take face so seriously, besides, do good friends care so much about face, and besides, it's about to be the third year of high school, and a pimple in my heart will also affect my studies, right?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Find an opportunity to send a message in the middle of the night to chat. Let him think you're interested in him! Then take the opportunity to reconcile.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Point your mind directly ... Straightforward and happy - have a personality, if I just do things according to my own ideas, and don't be influenced by others.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Isn't friendship more important than face, should you find a chance to ease the relationship Won't it be just you Okay, do you have other good friends?? 、You can find other friends to help you cherish this friendship.。。

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Help him more in his studies and conquer him with his tolerance.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Go by with the time! I quarreled with my friends, and after a day or two, it was naturally fine.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's easy! Have a meal, drink a drink, and go crazy! We're still good friends!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you can't bear it, you don't need to endure it anymore.

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