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Yes, there are troubles everywhere in life, but in fact, there are a lot of troubles that urban people come up with by themselves, and I am also a very straightforward person, so generally I will tell the truth, I also hate the hypocrisy of human beings, but since I am alive, I should face all this, because all this is inescapable, no matter what, no matter what people say, my life still has to go on, happy is a day, unhappy is also a day, remember, adjusting your mentality is the most important, I hope you take care.
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Yes, life is so frustrating. But we still have to manage our lives with our hearts, manage our friends with our hearts, and try to think from the perspective of others.
Try to simplify the big problems in life as much as possible, say everything to yourself, don't be angry, don't worry, because it's not worth it! Say to yourself, none of this is enough to annoy me.
Watch more movies and TV that make you happy.
I also recommend a book to you, "The Weakness of Human Nature", which I think is very well explained. It's not enough to just listen to her, I usually read what it says when I have time, and remind myself more that I want to do this.
Hope you're happy!
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Isn't there a saying that life is like a mirror, and if you smile at it, it will smile at you. If you cry to it, it will cry to you.
Think about whether you are emotionally involved when you communicate with others, if so, you have to adjust yourself, if it is someone else's problem, then you don't have to worry, there is no need to punish yourself for other people's mistakes, right? This kind of trouble is just a small episode in life, sort out the mood, and when the sun rises tomorrow, everything will be fine!
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Hehe. Some friends feel troubled, and no friends feel lonely. Do you think so?
What a friend has to fill you, you can say it directly to him, and maybe it can solve your dissatisfaction. Right? One sentence makes people angry, and you didn't say anything wrong, it's that your friend is too stingy. Don't blame yourself.
Life is positive, and everyone knows the truth. No nonsense.
To put it mildly. Keep a good mindset. Be open-minded. It can eliminate a lot of worries.
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While you think about what others are bothering you, think about whether you are bothering others. Actually, empathy is a very simple truth, but the authorities are obsessed, and most people don't think about this, try to think from other people's perspectives, maybe you will think differently. You feel that others are annoying you, to a large extent, it may be caused by yourself, sometimes life is very simple to learn to empathize, calmly and objectively face things, maybe you will have gains.
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Like me, I just say what I want, but try not to say anything about myself, and if someone comes to me and says something insignificant, I scold, hehe.
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Seeing people talking about people is not people talking about fooling people.
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Life is multifaceted, and there is no absolute happiness. The same kind of environment, depending on what kind of mentality you use to face it. Mindset determines your life. You may be a straightforward person. Then in your later life, try to express your meaning tactfully.
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Not everything in life is annoying, annoying things are to make you feel happier and cherish more when you are happy.
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Hello! I think it's because we're doing everything on our shoulders! And with heavy burdens, we have to keep moving forward!
So sometimes we have to learn to give up something, something that may have been ours and is or will no longer be ours! Maybe that's going to make it a little easier.
Anyone will have problems, some people have problems solved, and some people don't. A good attitude is destined for a person's success or not. No matter what we encounter, we should have a good attitude, actively forge ahead, be strong and unyielding.
In life, we will encounter such and such problems, the only person who can change these things is himself, only if he has confidence in himself, you can calmly complete your life road, the road ahead is very long, on the way we have walked in our life, there will be an oasis, there will be wind and sand. Bumpiness and flatness exist at the same time. When encountering setbacks, you must show your own courage and face them bravely.
When you try to face difficulties and pressures, I believe that these difficulties will one day succumb to your feet and face life with a new attitude. Believing in yourself is equivalent to having infinite power.
Also, please think carefully about what is bothering you the most now, and then try to solve them one by one, and finally when everything is solved, you will not be as annoyed as you are now, you will think, "Oh! It turns out that life can be so easy and so beautiful! ”
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People always have to live in reality, and it is not wrong to have dreams.
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I'm from Boyang Town, Huazhou, Guangdong. There are 25 acres of fish ponds, 25 acres of grain fields, 50 acres of mountains, water and electricity, network cables are going to pull hundreds of megabytes, there are no people nearby, five kilometers away from the town, convenient transportation, want to make this place a place that wants to live a quiet life, now recruiting volunteers, bring the seeds of the most beautiful flowers and trees you think to come, let us create a beautiful garden!
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You're not in a good state of mind.
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** All tired, life always feels like somewhere else
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Me too, I really want to live alone.
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If you feel tired and tired, because your heart has been loaded, you have experienced too many ups and downs, and your mind is overdrawn, so stop and rest, breathe a deep sigh of relief, close your eyes and recuperate, meditate on a scene, cultivate your mind, release your mind, adjust your mood, adjust your mentality, reduce some pressure, let go of the burden in your heart, change your way, and seek some happiness, so that it will be better. If you are injured, let yourself hide in the corner and use time to heal slowly, waiting for the wound to heal.
When you are tired, please put your heart on the shore; If you're wrong, please don't regret it; Only when you are bitter do you know how to be satisfied; When you are hurt, you understand that you are strong; When you are drunk, you know that it is unforgettable;
Laugh and experience happiness; When you're bored, talk to a friend.
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Is it for affection, or for work? People are like this sometimes, and that's because they've been hurt, or don't let the sadness continue, but don't think about it, it's good to think about something happy.
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What do I want to say about this......
Isn't it too long since I've been in love?
Or something sad?
Anyway. Such a state is not good for the body.
You have to adjust quickly.
Try to do something that you've been interested in before.
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When you are tired, you should be unwilling to think about anything, unwilling to make choices and judgments, and at this time you may want to give up something
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If you're feeling stressed, it's not bad to indulge yourself once, such as traveling aimlessly. It would be much better to go out for a walk.
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Look at everything openly, work hard to do it, admit the reality if you can't do it, and don't force it. The life of a person is nothing more than doing three things, one is what he is willing to do, the second is what he is unwilling to do, and the third is what he must do. When you have to do what you don't want to do, it's a pain in life, but what you have to do is what you're willing to do, and it's a joy in life.
Everyone is working hard to make their lives happy. In fact, happiness is a kind of perspective, from this side it is pain, and the other side may be happiness. When you have nothing, your happiness is that you still have a healthy body; When you don't enjoy a healthy body, you are happy because you still have a healthy heart; When your heart doesn't exist, your happiness is that you've lived.
I once read an article that said, "There is a proverb in the West that is said to come from ancient China," but I have never heard of it in China. "If you want a few hours of happiness, go for a drink; If you want three years of happiness, go for marriage; If you want a lifetime of happiness, go to the gardener.
Their explanation for the gardener's lifelong happiness is: doing useful things, being in harmony with nature, exercising the body and having new joy every day. I read a study on "happiness" by a university in the United States, and they defined happiness as:
The degree to which it is subjectively perceived as appropriate. Specifically, it is: a positive state of feeling meaningful, satisfied, and fit for one's life.
In the end, they came to the conclusion that the chant was: ".
Happy people are challenging people who have high goals while not forgetting their talents and potential.
A person who is proud of his achievements and social recognition.
A person with self-respect, self-love, freedom and self-confidence.
A person who is helpful and receptive to help.
A person who knows they can handle pain and frustration.
A person who can shine through the small things of daily life and be happy Writing this, I really feel that I am very close to a happy person.
Happiness is a day and unhappiness is also a day, so we have to live each day happily. Every day, you have to say to yourself: "I am so happy, just like the hieroglyphic word "music", a person with both hands dancing on his musical instrument.
Everyone decides whether they are happy or not. Remember that happiness is not a thing, but a mood. As long as you do what you want to do, what you like to do, and what you are good at, you can be happy.
But you have to warn yourself: "If you practice other people's happy life, you are yourself."
Having said all this, happiness in general is: knowing yourself, affirming yourself, and practicing yourself. If you find these difficult to understand, then remember the 8 words "need very little, satisfy very easy".
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yes, that's sometimes the case. It's boring, I don't know what to do, how to work hard, how to live. ,
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Summary. Yes, I understand this feeling of yours very much, I have a great experience, it is very normal, to understand yourself. Because the usual external life is very draining of our spirit, it is necessary to properly calm down and return to our own calm state, which will help to restore energy and energy.
Sometimes I want to be alone. It's just annoying. There's nothing unpleasant about it. I just want to be alone.
Yes, I understand this feeling of yours very much, I have a great experience, it is very normal, to understand yourself. Because the usual external life is very draining of our spirit, it is necessary to properly calm down and return to our own calm state, which will help to restore energy and energy.
Why sometimes I want to be alone and quiet. But there's nothing to worry about lately. I just want to be alone.
Even if life goes well, there will usually be some emotional backlog, there will be pressure, and there will always be times when you are tired. Being quiet and self-contained is conducive to the recovery of energy, or the recovery of vitality, so you will feel very comfortable and at ease. <>
The ancients said that concentrating and concentrating is when a person quietly retracts his energy to himself, which is a kind of energy repair, which can repair the essence and energy that we consume in the noisy environment during the day, so it is a good habit to do so.
When there is no problem, if you want to be quiet, you can be quiet, and the calmer your mind is, the easier it is to think through a lot of problems and give birth to wisdom. It means that stillness gives birth to wisdom.
How can this comfort others?
What is the relationship between the other party and you, is this what she said?
If it's your friend, you can tell him what troubles you are willing to listen to. In fact, he doesn't need much comfort, it's good that you can accompany and listen. He needs to regulate his emotions and mentality.
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