As soon as he mentioned marrying me, I was scared.

If it were me, I would consider the actual situation, after all, marriage is not a ...... built by loveAt the moment, he is neither a potential stock nor a top performer ......I can't imagine your future ......

Look at the dwelling, and you'll understand.

And living together also has the problem of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law......It's not that simple.

Money is a particularly sensitive topic.

If he doesn't earn as much as you don't earn now, give up as soon as possible......

1. I am also a child of a single-parent family. It is precisely because of the single parents that they attach more importance to their future family and do not want to repeat the mistakes of their parents.

2. As long as you truly love each other. Even if the days are a little harder, they can go on.

3. The value of a person is constantly improved through experience, and I believe that he can achieve the best by working hard.

4. If you can save it, you will save it.

5. Just like it.

6. Is it you who get married or who they get married. Live for yourself.

7. Filial piety comes first.

The question is indeed a bit complicated. I think it's up to you. Start by looking at your own feelings.

How do you feel with him? If you really love each other, take this opportunity. After all, he wasn't his dad, and maybe he wasn't like his dad.

The second is to be economically independent. Even if it happens in the future, you can take care of yourself and not rely on him. Finally, I would like to ask if I can live with his parents without it.

It's better to have your own nest. You can talk to him. No one can ** in the future, so let's move forward boldly!

Wishing you happiness!

First of all, you don't like him.

If you like it, together.

If you don't like it, pull it up.

After 4 years of dating, my boyfriend is very afraid of getting married, and if you want to know what the other party thinks at this time, you need to have a good chat with the other party. Sometimes girls will be cranky, thinking that their boyfriend doesn't like them if they don't marry them, and that the other party just wants to play with the relationship. This kind of thinking will make the girl very uncomfortable, and fall into this sad mood in advance, and over time the boy may really feel that the girl makes him feel very tired.

So smart girls will not feel sorry for themselves at this time, but will take the initiative to talk to their boyfriends and ask them what they think. Because sometimes boys also have premarital phobia, if the boyfriend has premarital phobia, then you can choose to alleviate this problem with your boyfriend, so that both parties can be better together. Premarital phobia is not only reflected in girls, many boys also have this symptom, because after the boy gets married, he becomes an adult completely.

Before getting married, the boy was a child in the family, and with the help of his parents, he could live the life he liked. However, once the marriage is chosen, then the boy may be under a lot of pressure, and in the process, he will gradually lose himself. After getting married, boys bear a lot of burden on their shoulders, which is understandable.

Maybe the boyfriend is afraid of such a living situation, so he doesn't want to get married. <>

At this time, the girl can choose to tell her boyfriend that although the responsibilities of both parties have become greater after marriage, but after getting married, she can choose to work together with the other party and slowly make life better. Explain your boyfriend little by little, so that your boyfriend slowly realizes the benefits of marriage. But if the boy really doesn't want to marry him, then the girl can also choose to stop the loss in time and never abandon her dignity.

I think he doesn't want to marry you, and he doesn't take his relationship seriously, he just has a playful mentality, so when we meet this kind of boyfriend, we must break up with the other party.

This situation may be due to premarital phobia, as some people may experience a state of anxiety and confusion when facing marriage, and you should communicate with your boyfriend.

You can communicate with the other party, understand the specific thoughts of the other party, determine the real thoughts of the other party according to the behavior of the other party, or you can use some friends to knock on the side.

I don't really want to marry you, because he has been in love for 4 years, and he must have made a corresponding preparation.

<> if you want to get married, don't live in his house, and I don't even recommend that you live together before you get married. In fact, the biggest beneficiary of cohabitation is the man, and the biggest victim is the woman.

Some men will quickly abandon their long-term girlfriend in marriage and marry a woman who has not been married for a long time. A man said, who would spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to marry a woman who is tired of playing, let alone that she has feelings for me and should not talk about money.

And to marry a new woman, without feelings, without money, how can she marry willingly? This example may seem a bit absolute, but in fact a lot of men have done it.

If your parents dissuade you from living in their home, they don't actually want you to be looked down upon by your boyfriend's family. In China, unmarried women who live in the man's house before marriage are looked down upon by relatives and friends.

A woman's reputation is still very important, even if you don't care about it, what about men? They will think that even if there is no key money and no RV in the future, you will get married and you will all live together!

They will think that a woman longs to be with his son, so they look down on you from the bottom of their hearts, and that's a fact. The mother-in-law herself wears mostly colored glasses for her future daughter-in-law, and you have already left a tongue before you enter the door.

Mom is the person who loves you the most in the world, and what they say must be carefully considered, and many experiences have proven it. For the sake of your future happiness, don't go your own way.

Girls, love and marriage are important, but most sentimental women in this world have a bad life. Around me, many women who attach great importance to affection and justice are being betrayed and forced to leave.

I hope that a lover will eventually become a family member and be happy. I also hope that my humble opinion can help those in need!

Premarital phobia. It's okay to relax, just relax.

What are you afraid of? How long have we been talking?

It's normal to be afraid of getting married, as it means changing your existing lifestyle, taking on more responsibilities, and spending the rest of your life with another person. However, you can alleviate your fears by getting to know yourself, getting to know your partner, and better understanding what it means to get married. You can discuss your expectations with your partner and how you will cope with the challenges.

You can also consult a professional about the legal and economic implications of marriage and how to maintain a healthy marriage. The most important thing is to believe in yourself, believe in your decisions, and be confident that you will make the right choice.

Don't be afraid, since you have been in love for eight years and are about to enter marriage, it means that you are determined to be happy forever, otherwise you will not run for eight years. In the past eight years, you must have gone through a lot of hardship, and you have experienced too much. If you can be together, it is really a blessing for Sansheng, after all, you have been together for so many years, it is really difficult to be friends and play a valuable companionship.

So it's a great honor for you to be married.

Don't hesitate, you must be afraid to get married right now, and you're afraid that in the end it won't be what you want it to be. Be calm, since you choose to marry him, he will definitely not let you down. He will use his sincerity to impress you, let you play a princess in marriage, I believe that time can make you know each other well enough, you should also know what kind of person he is, otherwise you will not marry him.

Since you choose him, believe in him, and believe that your marriage will definitely go to a lifetime.

Don't always suffer from gains and losses, you are together this is the greatest luck, even if one day you can't be together, don't feel disappointed, everything goes naturally, since you are not suitable together, then, you can choose to divorce, it's not that you can't turn back if you get married Now the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, if it's not suitable, you can really consider divorce, most of the people who divorce now are in pursuit of their own happiness, so when you are unhappy in your marriage, you can also choose to divorce, It's nothing at all.

In short, you must remain calm in marriage, when you are about to enter marriage, don't be afraid, you will be at peace when you come, and believe that he can exchange this half a year for your life. Trust that your trust in him is worth it. You can come together for a lifetime, in fact, you can't be together well, you can also have a way back, it's not that you have to be together for a lifetime when you get married, if two people are not suitable, don't settle, divorce is good for you.

Therefore, you should be calm when you are about to enter marriage, and don't always feel that you are afraid of gaining and losing, which will make you very tired.