Will I not be in love, why am I not in love now?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-17
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Love always comes inadvertently ... There will be your love, it just takes time to wait.

    If you feel slow, you might as well try to take the initiative The success rate of women chasing men is scary Close to 100% Don't believe it You can find someone to try Hehe, you can try to talk about it first Find the feeling of being in love This thing is not a one-time success.

    You are a person who loves to learn, in fact, falling in love is not a learning process, and every end of a relationship gives you different feelings.

    The figure of the person you really want will become clearer and clearer, guiding you step by step towards him.

    And you have some prejudices in your psychology and some inferiority complex, you have to try to break these prejudices, put away your inferiority complex, and be brave enough to contact him when you see him, and it's okay if you don't dare to confess to him, try to find opportunities to approach him, let him do this and that for you, and slowly become familiar with it.

    Maybe one day he will take the initiative to confess to you, hehe.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    After you get hurt, you will know what love is. Let me tell you, it is often the humorous and naughty ones who mix well, their insight is much more flexible, and falling in love with them is called enjoyment. It's very bookish to learn well. It's not that interesting.

    Because you just want to fall in love, you don't think about marriage.

    Of course, there are some things that you will slowly understand. You're going to want a lot. Who is not vulgar without tens of millions?

    Ordinary love will work miracles.

    If any boy likes you and calls you, take it to the test and feel the feeling of being chased. Hehe. It's beautiful.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No, many girls are like this, that's just a little girl complex, I'm sorry, a little cheerful, people have to look forward, feel that the past is not good, then from this moment on, do it well, do what you like every day, see the people you like, try to chase, and strive to discover the advantages of no one, don't always look at their shortcomings, everyone is equal, live happily, you see those boys with poor grades not because they don't study, but their ambition is not here, Everyone's path is different, there is no need to measure others by their own standards, it is too tiring, try to accept others, open your heart, you will feel that the world is very beautiful, and your friends will increase.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No, naturally, live your current life first, maybe you haven't met speculative people yet, you have a lot of free time in college, you can do a lot of things, it's better to read more books, you can improve your temperament, this is very important. If you don't have same-sex friends, maybe you're too anxious, take your time, what should come will always come, if you don't come, you won't show up if you die, learn that you can live well alone, try not to let yourself be idle, you will think about things when you are idle. Don't ask for more in love, rather lack than indiscriminate, love without nutrition is not interesting, and it will hurt yourself unintentionally.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Do you know. In fact, every girl is the same.

    When you hear people who are uglier than you praise you for being beautiful, you will feel very unconvinced.

    Of course, you can act as if those people don't have vision and go their own way.

    I saw your description, and a sentence suddenly came to my mind.

    It's just that if you don't get something, you hate it and pretend to be disdainful.

    Actually, it's not that you really hate it, it's that you feel it's out of reach.

    Because the more things you can't get, the more people want to get them.

    So there's no need to pursue something too far away and too beautiful.

    Look at everyone with the usual new.

    Then you'll find that everyone will have a sparkle of brilliance.

    Then find a sincere, reliable, and honest man to fall in love with.

    Don't force it, chase what you like!

    Don't think it's a shame for a woman to chase a man.

    Sometimes at the beginning, the woman loves the man more, and later the man will love the woman more and more.

    You have to give your sincerity, and you also need to endure humiliation.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't believe that love comes by itself!! When you like someone, you can pretend to get to know them casually. Pretending to be in a daze, he is actually looking at him, which makes him feel a little ambiguous, and he is not sure!

    Then it is possible that he will start to pay attention to you, and then you can be cheerful when you get rid of your "bad habits" as before. When he is there, you have to play a little more with 1 or 2 girls around him, so that you can get his attention, make him feel that you are a confident and cheerful girl, and make him have a good impression of you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You're only a freshman, and it's normal that you're not in love. Don't worry, you can start with friends to meet more like-minded people, and then slowly develop...

    And also. If you only look at the past, it will have a bad effect on you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, your situation is a bit similar to mine, it's okay, I haven't been in a relationship either, I'm a sophomore, and I also appreciate boys who study well. Remember,Don't fall in love for loneliness.,Fate will go with the flow.,What's more, I'm not as good as you.,Be happy.。。。

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, you haven't met someone like this that you think is the right fit.

    When you meet you, you will understand that your love cells still exist.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, college is the beginning.

    As long as the grades are average, many people don't want to get high scores, but they don't want to get them, such as me, boys are mainly self-motivated, humorous, and responsible.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Everyone is different, I am also a junior high school student, male, but I am poor in reading to a dozen people, but I don't think those top students dislike and despise me, because I have always been quiet to others. Not every college student can have a good future, now some college students are doing handymen, on the contrary, those who study poorly, rely on blind technology, but can stand tall, I suggest you don't just look at the grades, to look at the attitude of others, in-depth understanding of others can be a little promising, so you have to make friends, anyway, don't suffer, you just don't treat all as bosom friends, ordinary friends can also, intimate friends even those you know best, RP good people.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Every step in your destiny pushes you to the destined person who suits you, so there's no need to rush.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't always use grades as a criterion, love has nothing to do with those Try to change your opinion, there is merit.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's a personal character, and it's good when you meet someone who loves you and the people you love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Just follow the fate, just follow the fate. You will find your happiness.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Communicate more with people, don't despise people casually, maybe they also have a good side.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Try to communicate more with others.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When he still dresses up and goes to work every day, he looks like a chic and happy young man.

    You will gradually find that "going home" is becoming more and more a terrible thing, and the originally reasonable parents will not listen to you say "I can live happily alone", but will turn into a demon with a mace and force marriage. used to be a refuge, but since he reached the marriageable age and was still single, his father's urging to marry began, urging him to make himself afraid to go home. As long as parents don't mention this topic, they can laugh and laugh, and the mention of it has turned into a constant quarrel, and as long as this topic is mentioned, it is impossible to communicate well.

    My parents don't understand or accept it, even if you don't like it, you can leave in the end, but I don't want to decide my life because of my understanding of you. I think that's moral kidnapping.

    I have my own selfishness, and I don't want to fulfill their wishes.

    My own defense has always been very heavy, never completely opened, and it is difficult to open, outsiders think I am so cold, so it is difficult for me to have a boyfriend, and of course I also hope that someone will accompany me in times of difficulty in addition to my parents. But it's hard for me to be tempted by myself, and I'm so rational that I can't do it.

    Some people told me that it was not good to be too sensible, but it was hard for me to change this kind of bones. I want to be confused, but I really can't do it at the moment

    But no one cares what you think, those who care for you "for you."

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't think so, first of all, there are many reasons for not falling in love: it may be because the individual pursues other goals, such as career, study, travel, creativity, etc.; It may also be because you haven't met the person you like, or you have someone you like but don't have the courage to express your emotions; It is also possible that your previous relationship experience has made you lose confidence in love.

    Whatever the reason, not being in a relationship is not good or bad in itself, and it doesn't necessarily mean waiting for a particular person.

    Everyone has their own way of life and values, and it is everyone's right to freely choose the way they want.

    However, if you are slow to express your emotions or are haunted by past emotional experiences, it can affect your emotional growth and well-being. In this case, it is recommended that you communicate with family and friends, or consider seeking professional psychological counseling.

    Also, for people who want to fall in love, the best thing to do is to take the initiative. Participating in social activities, joining interest groups, and using social networking to expand your social circle** are all ways to help you reach more people. And, when you find out that you like someone, be brave enough to express your feelings and don't miss out on possible opportunities for fear of rejection.

    In the end, good people do not appear in a vacuum, but we need to work hard to find and operate. Not falling in love does not mean that you can wait for a good person, on the contrary, only through positive actions and experience accumulation, can you better identify and grasp the opportunity to find the person who is really suitable for Changliang.

    In short, whether or not to fall in love is a free choice for individuals, but if there is a need for emotional and well-being, you should take the initiative to seek help and action, and maintain a positive attitude and optimistic attitude in order to move towards a happy life.

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