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The Internet is not the same as life! Let's take a look at the following analysis.
For the sake of intuitiveness, generosity, avoid talking about personal assets)
In the network: 1. Generosity: It may not really pay anything, of course, it can be beyond the 'generosity' of life.
2. Text: Since it is the Internet, it generally appears in text, and you have enough time to think about your text organization, the ornificence of your vocabulary, etc.
3. Humor: Since it is a 'net worm', then you should have seen a lot of humor**, sketches, and small jokes, and it is natural that you can easily 'quiet a silence', even if you can't be humorous in time, use ''' as soon as you receive it, the answer will come out.
4. Conduct: Anyway, in the network, if there is no **, you can brag about how handsome (beautiful) you are, how neat and tidy you are (maybe there is a mess in the house, and the clothes on your body will not be changed for a week), of course, if you have **, it will be much more convergent.
In life: A certain friend borrows something from you, especially money, once or twice may be okay, come a few more times, can you still be 'generous', friends of three or four parties, you pay every time, can you still be 'generous'?
Speech in life is very immediate, how your writing is, how eloquence you are, it is easy to know, because the conversation in life will not wait for you to have 1-2 minutes to consider, right?
Personal humor and conduct are also easy to know, do people in your life circle need to know from others whether you have a sense of humor and whether you have a good character?
Well, since there are differences in the above aspects, how much credibility is there in online romance? People who are obsessed with online romance are mostly frustrated people in life, who avoid real life and look for illusory feelings, and don't have to be innocent and self-inflicted to think "how much he (she) loves me!" There have been many such negative cases in society, and of course, most of them are young women who have been victimized.
Therefore, the Internet is a tool for self-promotion, access to information, entertainment, games, appreciation, and ......communicationPlace, don't overinvest your personal emotions, it will hurt.
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Most of them are, so you have to be wary.
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Not necessarily. The gap between the Internet and reality is actually quite big, if two people are in the same city, maybe there will be real feelings, but time, distance these are all affecting feelings, and many are unrealistic. I don't believe in online dating anyway.
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Not necessarily, it depends on your distance ...
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There may be, but beware of being scammed. Most of the network is fake!
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If you're lucky, you'll be lucky.
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I'm really sympathetic, if LZ is just asking if virtual love is reliable, I want to ask LZ, what is virtual and what is reliable?
Something that is simple and reliable can only be called reliable if it is real. If virtual beings are really to be reliable, they should be mentally reliable.
If LZ wants to ask if today's online dating is reliable, it's really a bit complicated. You say it's unreliable, and a friend of mine found her love through it. You say it's reliable, but you'll hear a lot of endings like your close friends.
Therefore, I really can't make an absolute judgment on whether online dating is reliable.
However, my personal opinion is that since we live in this reality, there will always be some differences between the virtual and the real, and I think if you like romance and are not afraid of getting hurt, you may be able to try it. But as a more popular person, I still think that reality is more reliable, although I think it will be a little less romantic and a little trendy, but it is solid and reliable.
Of course, the reality is also cruel, not everyone can find a wishful love. What is needed is that we can have sufficient life experience, be able to live a better life, learn to live, and see life clearly. Although this does not guarantee a reliable love, at least the chances will be a little higher.
Well, in the end, I wish you to find true love and be happy for a lifetime.
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Yes, I have met a lot of sand sculpture netizens on the Internet.
Although the network is very virtual, our emotions in the space are real, it is like an invisible but very huge net, bringing together many of our netizens, so that many mediocre and unwilling mediocre people are willingly trapped in it, and they are never tired of it, immersed in a kind of joy and satisfaction.
In the virtual world, there is no status, no money to measure the high and low, no discrimination, everyone is equal, hide in the Internet This is a more realistic environment, to vent, to heal, in short, friends who are unwilling to face the real world, hide in!
No one will exclude you, no one will drive you away, and no one will laugh at you for being childish. Ignorance, no one will be sarcastic about your failures. Here you can talk freely, without scruples, in a good mood, friends, indeed, the virtual space is beautiful.
Let's work together to make the virtual world a better place.
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It is not excluded that it may be encountered.
And "heart-to-heart" with a person is a result, and as for the way to achieve that result, just like whether you go through normal school or homeschooling is just a way to acquire knowledge, I don't think there is a fixed or high or low level.
But I would like to warn that the virtual world based on the network tends to be flat, the cost of communication is low, and the cost of big waves is too high.
If you just want to find an ordinary friend to talk to, you can, but seeing that the subject's label is "love", I think there is a lot of opportunity cost mixed with "online dating", and the unstable factors that transform the feelings projected by the virtual world into real output are also very high.
And in fact, the difference between many people's image (not just the surface image) on the Internet is very large, and it needs to be carefully weighed.
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Of course, there are people who are not naturally good at communicating with people in the real world, but in the virtual world, he will open his heart.
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Yes. Some people prefer to give real affection and connect with others in the virtual world.
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Some. In the virtual world, in fact, there are the most heart-to-heart feelings and friends.
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You can have a heart-to-heart relationship in **, as long as you have a heart-to-heart, others will naturally have a heart-to-heart with you when they feel it.
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Yes, some people hate the real world, and they will show their real selves in the virtual world.
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Yes, there is no distinction between virtual and real feelings, as long as they are the right person.
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Probably so. In the virtual world, no one knows anyone, and they will be more willing to say what is in their hearts.
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Of course there will be, you see that there are so many successful examples of online dating, so there are many times it depends on fate.
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Yes, but very few, most people are still based on reality, after all, reality is more reliable, more know-it-all.
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Yes, many people disguise themselves in reality, and they will let go of themselves in the virtual world, and if there is no interest relationship, they are generally sincere.
There are true feelings, because most people think that the Internet is hypocritical, but just ignore that in the network is sometimes more real than in life, in life, life is like a big stage, everyone is playing their own role, inevitably with a bit of performance components, wearing masks in life There are many people, but on the Internet they show their true true colors, in the virtual network world but wandering sincere hearts and figures, so, we sometimes meet some friends on the Internet, we communicate with each other, communicate with each other, because I always feel like everyone is performing behind the scenes, so my sincere emotions are unconsciously vented! But sincerity is not equal to reality, some people just vent on the Internet, or look for what is missing in life, really from the Internet to reality, but become hypocritical, it is true that some people do get acquainted on the Internet, and in the end they both hold hands, but most of the cases are contrary to reality, so some twists and turns and tragedies of life continue to be staged, leading many people to think that the Internet is very hypocritical, and even hate the Internet! So, to sum up, I think there are a lot of true feelings in the network, but it has become a bit hypocritical when it is really implemented in real life, if you want to seek true love in the network, I hope you sober up your brain, open your eyes a little wider, and use a rational mind to look at and analyze some of the things in front of you, finally, I sincerely hope that you can get real feelings and spend your life perfectly, thank you!
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