In married life, if you are unhappy, should you divorce? Why?

Since they are all unhappy in their marriage, it is meaningless to continue such a marriage, it will only torment each other, it is better to let go as soon as possible, so that you will find happiness.

Life is only a few short decades, even after marriage, you should remain happy, and not feeling happy in a marriage will make this marriage unnecessary. Instead of being unhappy in this relationship, it is better to choose divorce to let yourself find the lost happiness, so that it is more meaningful for yourself. If you live in an unhappy atmosphere all the time, you will only let yourself be depressed, and thus you will not feel happy.

Marriage should be double the joy and happiness of two people together, but what they get is unhappiness, which is contrary to the original goal, and should be decisively let go in the face of such an ending. Marriage is not as scary as imagined, and there is no mandatory need to go to the end with each other, and there are fluctuations in the lives of two people, and I think it is a relief for each other to leave. If you are unhappy, it will also affect the other half, so that both people will be unhappy, such a marriage will only delay the two people, it is better to let go of each other and pursue their own happiness.

Marriage should not be a constraint for anyone, it is not that you can't choose to divorce after marriage, as long as you are unhappy, you can retreat at will. An unhappy marriage will only increase the sadness of oneself, and only by living seriously for oneself will it be more exciting, will make oneself feel satisfied, and will also let the other party see the essence of life.

If you are unhappy after marriage, it means that the other party is not the person you want, and it is better to learn to let go to make yourself more comfortable, and you will not embarrass the other party. Sometimes you will only know the end until you have experienced it, but leaving does not necessarily mean a bad ending, at least you can understand what you want.

Personally, I don't think I should get a divorce; Because many people are in this situation after marriage, they should communicate well with each other, and there is no need to divorce.

I think divorce should be chosen; Because if you are not happy in your marriage, there is no need to be together again.

Then I should choose to divorce, because being unhappy will bring a lot of pain to myself, and I can't let my life end like this.

My husband was clinging to me when he first started chasing me. At that time, I didn't have feelings for him yet, so I didn't stick to him. But the longer they get along, the more they find that they can't do without him. Because he was 4 years older than me, he tolerated me and tolerated me everywhere, so I fell deeper and deeper...

Until I got married, I cried more and more, almost every day, I didn't know what was wrong, as long as he yelled at me a little and spoke loudly, I felt a lot of pain in my heart, and then I cried. A lot of things happened in between, and I felt like my relationship with him was starting to deteriorate. I've only been married for a year, and I'm already like this.

In the past, I believed him very much, and I believed everything he said. Later, I slowly found out that what he said was lying to me, and he lied to me for more than 1 year, and I finally couldn't help it, and he told me the truth.

I know that he loves me very much, and he is afraid that I will leave him and leave him. But I can't tolerate a man cheating on me all the time. Now I have lost my trust in him, even though he is all about giving for his family. I felt so tired, and I realized that I was not happy at all when I got married.

I'm still pregnant, and as long as I can't contact him, I'm going to be cranky, trying to get rid of this baby, wanting to get a divorce...I really hate that I'm so clingy to him, and I used to swear in my heart that I couldn't be too clingy. As a result, little by little the principle is lost! I wanted to go to work, but my parents wanted me to stay at home, I was looking for a job that had to face the computer, and I didn't want to have a deformed baby.

I also have psychological problems, anxiety and mild depression, and there have been many times when I want to end my life, but I can't let go of my parents and grandmother, and I feel sad when I think that I haven't honored them properly. I really want to end my life someday. I don't think I deserve to live in this world, and I really admire those independent and strong girls, who are willing to endure hardships, be independent, and have the ability to be independent.

But I couldn't. Can you give me some advice or advice? I'm really tired and out of breath...(Emotional Case).

No one's life is smooth sailing, you can't self-deny because of a momentary setback, it is completely possible to live happily after divorce, focusing on your mentality and self-regulation ability after divorce.

If you just blindly complain about others, have an extremely negative attitude towards life, and are always immersed in the sorrow of divorce and are unwilling to come out, then the possibility of you achieving happiness is too small, because your three views, that is, the world outlook and outlook on life, and the values have collapsed because of a divorce, so you will live extremely unhappy, because you have lost the pursuit of happiness, and the blow of divorce has overwhelmed you.

On the contrary, if you see this divorce as just a small episode in your life, no big deal, and a new life after the divorce, and pursue happiness with a positive and optimistic attitude, you will continue to reap happiness.

Therefore, there is no need to regard divorce as so important, do what you should do, cherish the people in front of you, cherish the things around you, and embrace life with a positive and sunny attitude, so that you will have more happiness and joy; There is no need to immerse yourself in the grief of divorce all the time, it is not worth it, whether it is because of the person you can't forget, or those things you can't forget, you shouldn't continue to dwell on it.

We should continue to stride forward with our heads held high, why are we stagnating in one place when the road of life is so long. If you have been stagnant, you will miss out on other scenery on the road of life, and there are better people and better things waiting for you ahead.

Divorce is due to various reasons, and they are not happy in life.

Life after divorce may be better, and the chances of happiness are greater.

Here's why:

First, after the divorce, the economy is independent, and there will be no more conflicts over economic issues. There are many reasons for divorce, and some of them may be due to financial problems. When the economy is independent, the financial power will be theirs.

You can use your money however you want, and you can buy whatever you want.

Second, after the divorce, his personality can be brought into full play, and his habits of life are free. I will no longer be angry because of the difference in my three views. You can do whatever you want with your lifestyle and habits, and you don't have to look at other people's eyes.

Eat as much as you want, drink as much as you want, and take a journey that you can take as soon as you go, and you can achieve it immediately.

The third is that after the divorce, if you want to love, you will love, and your feelings may have a good home. Because I once loved, because I once hated, after all, it has passed, and there is no good ending. Now is your chance, take advantage of it!

When you meet someone who is destined, love boldly! Enjoy life!

In short, after the divorce, there are many opportunities, and happiness may come to you!

If you can't continue your married life, you may need to consider several issues for the sake of your children's happiness. Divorce has already taken some toll on the children. If you can't give your child a good life, I still hope you can think about whether you want to leave or not.

If you feel that you are too tired in this marriage and are forced to divorce due to the other party's behavior and irresponsible attitude, will your life be happy after the breakup? Then think about how you will live after you leave. Some people want a divorce but feel sorry for their children.

Fear of others looking at their children through colored glasses. However, frequent quarrels due to marital discord can also have a great impact on children and are not conducive to their development. If you have the financial ability to raise your children after the divorce and can give your children a better environment and a happier life, you can consider it.

After considering divorce, you must think through a few questions and make a decision, if you can't guarantee a good life for your children in the future, don't talk about divorce easily. For the sake of the children, they should also choose this marriage. Because that way it won't hurt the child.

After many couples get married, some of each other's shortcomings will be exposed, so if you can't see any changes in each other after a while, you can consider giving up the relationship, but you tend to ignore it. There is also a certain emotional foundation between you. After the divorce, if each other's lives are unhappy all of a sudden, it is best not to choose divorce.

Because your relationship exists, when there are many problems in your married life, don't always talk about divorce, learn to treat it calmly, so that you can quickly resolve each other's contradictions. If you are always impulsive, not only will you not be able to solve things, but the feelings between you will become more and more distant.

Both women and men must recognize that marriage needs to be managed. If two people work harder and can change a little more for each other, they will definitely be able to persevere. We know that if we feel unhappy in our marriage, we can't get divorced easily.

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I will definitely choose to divorce, because I already feel unhappy, so I will not compromise, and I will not make do with the other party.

I would choose to divorce because such a marriage is unhappy, and there is no need to waste time and feelings, so it should be divorced decisively.

If my marriage is not happy, I will choose to divorce, because there is no need for two people to live anymore.

Yes, because the purpose of my marriage is to be happy, and if I am not happy, there is no need to get married.

In fact, if people are not good when they get married, many people will choose to divorce, the reason why the divorce rate is so high now is because couples often quarrel and are unhappy together, and feel that the other party brings them is not the life they want, because many things will contradict each other, and there are many cases where they will choose divorce if they feel unhappy. Because when I fell in love before, I thought it was all good, but after I got married, I would find that it was not as good as I imagined, and it was also very painful for two people to run in together, and in many cases there would be conflicts, and in the end they would break up.

Even if the marriage is unhappy, it may not be divorced because there are still children. Sometimes it's not as bad as you think, maybe marriage is like this, you have to learn to comfort yourself. What can you do if you get divorced without money, aren't you hurting each other and torturing each other, it's better to cherish each other, even if you can't do it, you must be grateful in your heart for this beautiful life that is not easy to come by, cherish the present, and live a good life.

If my marriage is unhappy, I will not blindly choose to divorce, so there is a certain loss to both parties, if the marriage is unhappy, it is best to discuss it with the other party in private, or there is no room for recovery, if there is a trace of room for recovery, it is best not to give up your marriage.

If my marriage was unhappy, I think I would choose to divorce.

After all, my personal emotions are also very important, and if I am unhappy every day, then I definitely want a divorce.

If the marriage is unhappy, I will choose to divorce, but I will also have some scruples, because especially if I have children, even if the marriage is unhappy, I will maintain it for a period of time, try not to cause harm to the children, and hope that the children can grow up a little bit, so that they will divorce.

If my marriage is not happy, I will choose to continue, try harder, and then decide whether to divorce or not. Because marriage is not easy to come by, the fate of two people is not easy to come by. If you feel unhappy, you can make some changes to your marriage.

If you feel unhappy in your marriage and feel that two people don't have the courage to live, you will really choose to divorce at this time, after all, you can find your own happiness after divorce, and that is the happiness of your life.

If your married life is unhappy after marriage, and the two parties have great differences, and they are always contradictory and quarrelsome, for such a married life, they will definitely choose to divorce

If the marriage is unhappy, it depends on what the reason is, if it is a matter of principle, the other party does not want to repent, and can choose to divorce.

If my marriage is not happy, I think I will wait until the child is older and then independent, and I will file for divorce from him.

In life, there are many people whose marriages are in such a state.

Before we start a family, most of us look forward to marriage. We want to be able to find someone with whom we can grow old and spend our lives with them.

However, in life, we find that after getting married, marriage is not as good as we imagined. After getting married, you have to face trivial matters. After getting married, some people's hearts are no longer in each other.

However, in the face of such a marriage, some people still don't want to leave or can't leave, but they can't live with each other.

Children are the heart and soul of parents, and most parents want their children to live well. They don't want their children to grow up in single-parent families, they are worried that if they get divorced, their children will be discriminated against by others in the future. They are worried that after their divorce, their children will not be taken care of.

Therefore, some people swallow their anger for the sake of their children. Even though he and his object can't get along anymore, they still live together for the sake of the child.

But when two people live together, they still don't like each other more and more. In such a marriage, there will be a state where you want to live badly, and you can't leave if you want to leave.

Some people have lived with each other for a long time, and the other party's material conditions are also better, and he himself has not gone out to work for a long time. In such a state, he does not want to change his current state of life.

Because he was worried that after the divorce, he would not be as good as he is now. But living with each other, he is unwilling and unwilling to be good to each other.

There are some couples who love and kill each other, although they love each other, but when they see each other, they will quarrel, they want to separate but are reluctant.