If you want to propose a breakup, is it better to bring it up directly or let the relationship cool

Bring it up directly, if that man loves you deeply, you can't solve it with that solution.

Do you want to divide it by all means?

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I think so, hehe... Think about it before you decide. If it is brought up directly, it depends on the attitude of the other party. If you want to, it's easy to say, if you don't, you will be under a lot of psychological pressure. Naturally, there are more troubles.

Let's just say it

It's better this way

If you are eating the scales and have an iron heart、

Let's be honest

Otherwise, it will make the other party feel hopeful

If you keep procrastinating,

It will make the other party more painful

In case the other party's nerves are relatively thick and they don't realize that you are cold down, it will be very bad I think you should first reflect on whether you really want to divide and what practical reasons there are, and then write to the other party to tell them, so be tactful

Personally, I prefer to die naturally, so why say that everything is dead, and it will end slowly and naturally.

It's better to ask it directly.

This kind of thing is still direct and decisive, and it can't be dragged into the mud.

You can't always consume it.

It's better to find a quiet place, to leak out slowly, and not to let it die naturally, which will be more painful.

I should have said it earlier. Otherwise, everybody will be sad, hehe.

Breaking up is almost the same as confessing, do a good job of foreshadowing, see the right time, and be straightforward.

I have always admired that death must be understood.

I suggest that you also let the other person understand.

Otherwise you will be hated for the rest of your life.

You think about whether it's worth it or not.

It depends on what type of person you're dealing with, male or female, and you don't have to explain it clearly when you ask a question.

If you really can't accept him like this now, then you can completely ignore him and say that you want to calm down with him for a while, and no one should contact anyone during this period. This will make him think about whether he really loves you in the process of calming down.

After this period of time, you will also get the real answer: if he still takes care of you as usual, it means that he really loves you; Not the other way around.

As for how long this period is, you can decide.

In fact, it's just a tactful excuse for both parties to break up, it doesn't matter if he doesn't take the bait, anyway, no one can stop you if you have already decided.

Breaking up is not an end, just a means, as long as you clarify the main purpose, breaking up is actually very simple, after you have been with him for a while, you may find a lot of his shortcomings, and then conclude that he is not suitable as a lifelong partner, maybe he is boring, lazy, unmotivated, etc., it doesn't matter, you just need to be clear about the purpose of your breakup; There are many kinds of means, and they are also divided into upper, middle and lower, inferior, the simplest, tell him directly, break up, but this will hurt him, if he has an extreme character, you have to pay attention to your personal safety, because last time there was a news that said, after a woman proposed to break up, she was poured sulfuric acid by a man; Medium, is to give him a hint, and then do what he doesn't like to do, let him propose to break up by himself, superior, just don't say goodbye, if you live together, just say that you move away for a while, something, if you don't live together, if you are in school, don't talk for a while, let him understand what you mean, and then wait for him to find a new girlfriend, and then congratulate him, it shouldn't be difficult to be an ordinary friend;

The best thing to do in this situation is to say it directly, if you do something else, maybe it will make him hate you. Just sit down and say calmly, if it were me, I would accept it.

If you don't contact you directly, he asks you out, but you refuse; After a while, they naturally separated.

It should be made clear as soon as possible and cannot be delayed

Tell us the truth, only if you treat each other sincerely, you can be friends even if you are not a couple.

It's best to tell him in person why you broke up with him and become friends, if he just has fun or loves you very much, or he doesn't like you at all to be friends with you, and breaking up doesn't feel the slightest feeling.

To tell the truth, the more it drags on, the more sad the other party becomes.

When I get along with him, I have opposite opinions on most things.

It's okay to just say it, but don't say hurtful things, just say it doesn't feel appropriate, you want to stop, if he's sensible, it's fine.

Ask your boyfriend how he feels about you, and then take the opportunity to say that you don't feel like you're together properly. Propose to break up.

If you feel that it is not appropriate to make it clear to him, you can send a message to make it clear if you are embarrassed in person, as for being friends after the breakup, forget it, it is unlikely.

It's not easy to get closer to others and act.

This,Let's tell him directly.,It's best to make it clear.,Provided he doesn't go to extremes.。。。

Don't be friends, if your boyfriend loves you, thank you.

You're talking about the same situation as my classmates in the upper bunk.

But she was a boyfriend and went to the army. It will take more than a year to wait.

Every day they rely on ** to contact, and because of the strict military camp, they can't talk for a long time every time, and sometimes they feel sorry for her when they see her reluctant to let go of **.

She is also the same as you, whether it is emotional or life, she has to bear her own suffering, and the most important thing to do is to complain in ** to seek comfort. But he can't be by his side--- not because he doesn't love, but because the reality is too helpless.

I believe that your boyfriend is the same, it's not that he doesn't want to share with you by your side and share it with you, it's just that he is also helpless, so he says guilty and ashamed.

You said to break up, and he accepted it silently, don't you still understand his feelings? --Because I love you, I let you fly to more happy places. He doesn't want you to suffer like this again--- even though he suffers himself.

In fact, you don't have to think about what words to redeem it, because he still likes you in his heart, otherwise he will selfishly leave you behind without considering your feelings. Maybe he was mentally prepared for a long time--- and this day really came. He can't accompany you, but he doesn't want you to leave either, so he doesn't offer to break up, but when you do, he agrees.

Give him a ** and --- everything you say here

Especially yours [ When he was in the most difficult time, I forsook him. Now I know that I shouldn't be like this, I shouldn't just know the joy of sharing, not the suffering.

Why worry about losing face? Isn't a relationship as good as the so-called face? And it's not something to be ashamed of.

Be brave!

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Hehe. I'm about the same as your boyfriend, and my current girlfriend has the same reaction as you, and now I'm really afraid of something like you happening. Did you ever think about it from your boyfriend's shoes?

It's not easy to be a man! First, you must have your own career. Second, love your home.

If he doesn't have a career, he can do it! He can be there for you every day. But who will feed you?

Little sister, have you ever thought about it?

I think your boyfriend still loves you. It's true. You go and explain it to him yourself.

At the same time, explain why you are where you are today. I want him to care more about you when he has time in the future! Hehe.

I'm sure he understands you! But don't do that in the future!

It's what I've experienced.

I'll tell you the rest of it.

At that time, I talked about breaking up, it was dark, I cried in the rain, I had a fever at night, I knew that I loved him to death, and I regretted it the next day.

But he didn't dare to say it, remembering that the last message he sent was"I'm a failure", so text and say: and sorry words to him.

Finally he said a word"Can we start over? "

So together again, I was very happy just a month, and after a month my lovesickness was bitter, and he was busy with work. It made me think about breaking up again.

Chinese New Year, we finally met, two people together, as before, make up for Valentine's Day, National Day, Labor Day (see each other once a year), one day deep talk, he said that I mentioned the breakup, said that he was like a big stone from the sky to hit his head, and then they got together but I feel that we are different from before now, because I said to break up, I cried when I listened to it, never quarreled, never said to break up (both more than two years), suddenly said to break up, so that he was inexplicably dumped ,..It's not the same as before. Even though I think it's the same, he already feels different.

After eight hours of talking, we broke up.

We really broke up, I was crying 24 hours a day, and when I woke up, my pillow was very wet, and I still had tears on my face. So I found a friend ,..With a group of friends.

Drunk, still crying. Everything must be forgotten, everything must end. Falling in love and breaking up is painful.

Now, I haven't forgotten him, I haven't seen him for two years, I have a new love, and I love him very much, only to realize that it was just an experience before. No big deal. I didn't regret breaking up with him either.

I just felt that I had broken up before, and I got together again, and then I broke up. Very bad.

If you find a friend and talk about it, you will definitely get through this period of falling out of love. It's not the right decision to make in a broken love, and you don't want to go back.

Love Baiwei, each person experience;

First love is a single thought, so as not to fall into the mystery;

Hazy love, unpredictable results;

Life is mature, and flowers bloom naturally.

In the vast sea of people, it is not easy for two hearts to meet each other!

If you love her, tell her, don't give up;

Don't leave yourself with any regrets!

People's lives are actually very short, and it is really not easy to meet a true love, you have to grasp it well! Stay the course!

My opinion:

Judging by his attitude towards you, he is not very positive. So it doesn't feel like his love for you is so deep.

As a result, forget it, because his attitude is not very sad, so why bother to redeem it...

There will be better ones in the future.

When you are a friend, you can care about him! If you miss him, you care about it! Isn't it?

But since we've broken up, I can't say anything more about loving him! Show that you are adapting! Keep in touch as often as ever, but don't think that if he's your boyfriend, there's no need to be accommodating to you, and care beyond your usual friends!

Isn't it? Let yourself think about it, is it hard for me to think about him for a day!?Is it too much to ignore him? Let yourself and him think it through!

Are you still in love? Can that kind of love resist the loneliness of being separated from two places? If it's OK yes!

Tell him! Tell him that he can't fit into life without him! I think you can still be coquettish like this often in the future, hehe

If you feel that you don't have as much pressure as him in your life during this time, you can feel much more relaxed, and you can be like a normal friend with him! Then let him go!

Don't regret it, I don't think the decision to break up was not impulsive, not to mention that he didn't mean to come back when you proposed to break up, which shows that he also thought about this problem. Right? Your future is very slim, and if you are together, one of you will have to give up his current life.

Will you give up? If you can pack your bags and get to him now, then go find him! Otherwise, don't.

Because he won't do what you expect, you have to work on your own, you know?

You're in a similar situation to me!

I think that since he can't give you any promises, even if you still love him now, maybe he still likes you, and you break up more helplessly, but sometimes we still have to be realistic.

You can't just think about the present and not think about the future!

A woman's youth is short, he can't give you happiness, and no matter how much you love him, it's in vain.

Let it be!

Some things can only be honed by time!

He loved me very much, and I don't doubt that, but because I was provincial.

My parents didn't want me to be that far away from them! I'm more ambivalent.

So just let it be!

Don't think about it, you can't bear this pain, so don't hold on.

Sooner or later, you won't be able to stand it.

But you love each other and really want you to be together.

You take advantage of it.

If you feel that you can accept this life.

And if you really love him, don't be afraid of anything.

Love it well.

Then you told him before that why you wanted to leave. But it's too late, so you have to contact him and apologize. Don't feel like you can't say it. Or find someone right next to you, as long as it suits you.

Isn't it rare to be together when you are separated, then you will gradually forget him.

You have to control yourself and leave it alone. If he calls you or sends you an email, you reply: I'm busy. If it's an email, then leave him alone.

Don't be afraid of him scolding you, and don't bother with him.

If you forget about him completely, you won't be unable to think about it.

And, please think twice in the future, and don't give up on your original purpose casually.

There is no need People who live in two places don't believe that distance produces beauty Some beauty is also the beauty of longing for it has no practical meaning, it is better for girls to find someone by their side, I am a man who just graduated from college and was assigned to work in Xinjiang I just broke up with my previous girlfriend.

It's far away, and slowly the common language is less **You don't know what to say, maybe you can say two sentences at the beginning Finally, it's basically a greeting "Are you okay" "Have you done anything lately?" "Now it's dry" and so on.

Don't be too unrealistic to do things between adults, this world is not without who will not move, now you may feel regretful and reluctant, and after a while everything will be dull, after all, time is the best antidote.

You say you love him, but is that okay? It's unfair to everyone to separate themselves, for him, for the person you still love.

It's all good to let go decisively.

Thank you for the pleading!!