What to pay attention to when getting along with the opposite sex

What should be paid attention to when getting along with friends of the opposite sex.

1. Maintain a degree of contact with friends of the opposite sex. No matter what you have to do, you like to contact each other, and you like to talk to each other emotionally in life, such a behavior is easy to make the other party feel a kind of affection for you, if you are a girl, you will also be pity, men are born with a possessive desire for women, protective nature. So don't create illusions for friends of the opposite sex.

Second, pay attention to the way you speak.

Talking to friends of the opposite sex must have a degree, not big or small, say anything nonsense, let friends of the opposite sex feel that you are very casual, and naturally there will be disrespectful behavior towards you in behavior, and every sentence must be said after thinking twice, the other party will think that you are a serious person, and naturally will not be easy to nonsense to you.

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Don't accept gifts from friends of the opposite sex. If a friend of the opposite sex sends some more expensive gifts, don't accept it easily, your acceptance will make the other party feel that you are interesting to him, and it is easy to cause misunderstanding of the other party.

What should be paid attention to when getting along with friends of the opposite sex.

Don't challenge the other person's "no" lightly

Even if you are a familiar friend, you still need a degree, otherwise your other half will make them quarrel when you see it. So my opinion is that you should get along with the opposite sex in a certain way.

Otherwise, your friendship may turn sour!!

The secret of our marriage and love.

Among many single friends, except for some of them who have delayed lifelong events because of work and career, there are also many people who don't know what kind of relationship and what kind of person is suitable for them. Many people have never seen what a very harmonious marriage is like, nor have they experienced what a truly close relationship is like. Whenever I think about "what a truly intimate relationship looks like" or "what kind of relationship do I want most", I feel a little overwhelmed.

Due to the lack of a blueprint and a role model, I was confused in my relationship, made a lot of wrong choices, and experienced a lot of setbacks because of this.

When it comes to the daily relationship between lovers, many people's subconscious reaction is how warm and romantic the two parties are, accompanied by all kinds of sweet and small details. But this is only on the surface, and the relatively simple show of affection does not intuitively reflect the state that lovers should have. Here are 13 tips for your useful reference ---

1. Your partner is your best friend;

2. You can talk, not because you want to be in love, but because you want to be together, you want to be together;

3. Being with each other can effectively reduce anxiety;

4.Staying in the same room and doing things separately will not feel disturbed or cold;

5. Both parties can be honest about their various habits;

6. The three views are compatible, and when encountering different opinions, they can seek common ground while reserving differences;

7. Mutual appreciation, common learning and progress, mutual respect;

8. There is space, there is secret, but there is no deception, honesty at this moment;

9. There is no violence;

10. Important matters must be decided after discussion between the two parties;

11. Will not bring any "shackles" to the other party, and will not carry out "emotional kidnapping";

12. Respect each other's parents and friends;

13. Have your own independent circle.

Summary: Equality with each other, mutual admiration, mutual respect, mutual gratitude. This is the state that lovers should have; Both parties appreciate each other, love each other, respect each other, and are grateful to be able to have each other and work together to overcome difficulties, which is what a beautiful and healthy love should look like.

I think we should pay attention to it, don't be too stingy, you must be generous, you must not be humble or arrogant, and the distance should be appropriate, not too intimate.

I think what we should pay attention to is our own bottom line, if the relationship is not particularly intimate when getting along with the opposite sex, don't have some intimate actions to misunderstand the other party, and don't take the initiative to contact the other party online.

I think we should pay attention to proportion, because we are of the opposite sex, so we must have a certain distance, which is conducive to the maintenance of the relationship, and it will go in the long run.

I think we should pay attention to proportion, because we are the opposite sex, so there should be a certain spacing, so that the bad luck is in the maintenance of the relationship, and this goes far-reaching.

Don't deceive each other, even if it's a white lie.

What is false can't be true, what is really can't be wrong, often a lie is told, and a hundred or even a thousand lies need to be used afterwards to fulfill the lie. People get along with each other, trust is always fundamental, two people who have lost trust, the middle seems to be separated by thousands of miles, even if they are in the same bed, even if they share a pillow, they still can't cover up the strangeness and distance between you.

A lie is a lie after all, and sooner or later it will be exposed, it is only a matter of time. Trust is accumulated little by little, but also dissipated little by little, the feeling of losing trust, vulnerable, crumbling, every time you lie, every time you deceive, it is tantamount to cutting off a way out.

1. Don't interact too often: Between couples, we all know that we should not be too tired of being together, and give each other independent space to keep love fresh. Then, if you are just friends of the opposite sex, you should pay more attention to a certain distance.

Getting along too much will not only make the people around you misunderstand, but also may make the other party disgusted. After all, everyone has their own things to do, goals to accomplish, and consuming each other's time too much will not only not make the friendship last long, but the boat of friendship may capsize.

2. Be generous and avoid getting along alone: The friendship between the opposite sex does not exist in love, and it should be generous when you meet. Your own shyness will also put the other party in an embarrassing situation.

Not only will it not deepen your friendship, but it will give the other party a reason to stay away from you.

3. Avoid being too close and pay attention to language and body: intimate movements and ambiguous words should exist between couples. In the interaction between the opposite sex, you should pay attention to proportion, casually hug your shoulders, and say intimate words, which will make this friendship sour.

Perhaps, a joke you inadvertently will make the other person fall into thought, so as to seriously consider your relationship.

4. Avoid relying too much on each other and learn to refuse: After many years of life, everyone should also have the ability to independently judge and solve problems. When you encounter a problem, try to rely on your own ability to face and solve it.

Relying on others for everything will make us more and more timid and more afraid of problems. Friends are not the ones who solve the problem of Bi Ranhui's defeat for you, but the people who can pull you when you encounter hardship.

When getting along with the opposite sex, you should pay special attention to the two people to keep a certain distance, if you don't have the idea to be with the other person, don't have an affair with him, because the spark between the two people may be inadvertently rubbed out, if one party likes the other party, but the other party doesn't like him, then this situation will be very embarrassing.

1 Tactfully refuse.

If you don't like the other person, then after others have confessed to themselves, you should politely refuse, don't use excessive words to hurt him, after all, there is nothing wrong with liking someone, but you must make your position clear, don't let the other party have hope and blindly entangle yourself.

Don't engage in ambiguity.

If the other party has expressed his meaning to you, and you have rejected the other party, then don't be ambiguous at this time, otherwise the other party will think that you have a good impression of him, and he will still have hope that it is still possible to be with you, which may make him fall deeper and deeper.

3 Don't show it all around.

If a person expresses love to himself, but the two people are not together, this situation must not be publicized, because it is very likely that the other party will feel that he is discouraged by the success of his confession, and if everyone knows, he may feel particularly faceless, which is also indirectly hurting him.

4 Talk to the other person if necessary.

If the other party is depressed because of the breakup of love, and completely forgets about his work and study, at this time you should talk to him, encourage him to get back on his feet, and leak it to him to explain that everyone will experience countless setbacks in their lives, the most important thing is to see how we deal with it, we must learn to dare to overcome difficulties.

5 Give your reasons.

If the other party still doesn't give up, then you must say your reasons, but don't hurt the other party, after Yuan Oak says his reasons, maybe the other party will be able to understand himself, and he will no longer be stalking himself, so that the troubles of two people can be solved.

6 Encourage him to make himself better.

Many people may fall out of love and feel that they have lost the whole world, and at the same time they have lost their fighting spirit for various things. At this time, you should encourage him to make himself better, so that he will not be rejected again in the future, and you will have more choices.

Two people try to be friends.

Many people may feel that two people are strangers from now on if they are not together. But I don't think that's right, two people can't be together but can still be friends, after all, friends are a rare wealth in life, and usually the people who can confess to themselves are also people who know themselves better.