What do you say when you get along with the opposite sex that makes it easy to become estranged?

When the opposite sex gets along, if you say something that the other person doesn't like to hear, it will definitely be easy to alienate the relationship between the two people, and the relationship between the two people will definitely not be as good as the original. Another is to talk about the shortcomings of the other party, and when the other party feels that it hurts his dignity, he will be easily alienated.

always compares his ex-friend to him. Words hurt someone close to the other person. Like sarcastic people. Say things you shouldn't say, such as hurting the other person's self-esteem. And lies. will alienate people.

Exposing the shortcomings of the other party, not believing in their words, etc. Don't expose the other person's shortcomings just because the relationship is good, but keep your word.

The first is to often talk about other people's shortcomings, if you often say such words, it will definitely be easy to make the other party very disgusted, and then always inquire about the other party's privacy or the other party's income, which is also very bad for the relationship between two people.

Ambiguous words, hurtful words, etc. Ambiguous words will make the other party feel pressure; Hurtful words will make the other person disappointed in you.

Let's go out together, let's go to eat food, let's go on a date, let's go to the Ferris wheel, these words can't be said casually, it is especially easy to cause misunderstandings.

I can't live without you; We look like a couple; We're just going to make a match.

Don't easily say the word love, don't say the word kiss, don't say I can't do without you, and don't just say that you're so good.

Say something ambiguous, something about feelings and the like, don't say something about sex If you say it casually, it will cause misunderstandings.

In fact, for everyone, in their hearts, they have fantasized about having a person of the opposite sex who can dig their hearts out, not this kind of couple, but only the opposite sex who has a particularly good relationship. But in reality, I think this small request is difficult to achieve, because now people always regard the good-looking of friends of the opposite sex as a good impression of you, and everyone will have such a plot to a greater or lesser extent. But among the opposite sex, ordinary relationships are very easy to develop into emotional problems, and when the opposite sex can say the next two or three sentences at will, then the relationship between you is not ordinary!

"Actually, it's good to find someone who looks like you."

Regardless of whether the boy or the girl says this to him, it is already a reflection of the fact that the relationship between you has quietly changed, and it may not even be known to you. If you say this, it proves that the other party in your heart is likely to be no longer just ordinary friends, because the relationship between you has become more complicated than ordinary friends.

"I found out as if I was in love with you."

When our opposite sex inadvertently says this sentence to themselves, it proves that in each other's hearts, your position has already quietly changed from friends to lovers. Because when two people say this, it proves that your relationship is very unusual, and it is very likely that you will become lovers if you develop further.

"I want to take our relationship one step further".

When you are with a friend of the opposite sex, the other person will say this when they feel that your relationship can go further. In fact, this has shown that in each other's hearts, the relationship between you can change, and it is very likely that the other party has already fallen in love with you, so they will say this.

"I'd love to have you as my object."

When the sentence "I really want you to be my object" happens between two people, it is actually no different from confession. Because in most cases, there is a high probability that ordinary people of the opposite sex will become a couple, so when this sentence occurs between two people, it proves that the relationship between you is no longer ordinary.

Generally speaking, when the opposite sex can say the above two or three sentences at will, it means that the relationship between you has quietly changed, and your relationship is no longer ordinary.

Actually, it's good to find someone like you.、I want to make the relationship between us go one step further.、I dream of you when I sleep at night.、I want to fall in love with you so much.、The Kalachakra of eating something is ready to think of you and bring a little bit.。

I want to go to your house, you come to my house, or we will make do with it, which shows that the relationship between the two people is no longer ordinary.

Did you miss me? How are you doing? I want to meet you and laugh when you say these things between the opposite sex, it means that the relationship between two people is not ordinary.

The first point is don't say some particularly frivolous words, which will make the other party feel that you are particularly dishonest, the second point is don't say some stingy words, which will make the other party feel that you are not moral, and the third point is not to scold people, saying these words when getting along will make the opposite sex feel that you are very classless.

His own love history and too cowardly, etc. Because of his love history, he will make a man have a stalk in his heart; And being too cowardly means that you are not satisfied with men.

When getting along, don't talk about the family situation and amount of two people, so it will seem that the two people are very angry, and you must talk about some good memories.

The first sentence is not to mention other men, otherwise it will make others think that you do not respect him, the second is not to say some other people's gossip, which has nothing to do with the two of you, and the third is not to inquire about other people's family backgrounds, for example, do you have a garage? How much money you have in the deposit or something like that, it seems that you are very materialistic.

When the opposite sex gets along, first of all, don't mention money at every turn, as the saying goes, mentioning money hurts feelings, and secondly, don't say bad things about each other's parents and friends, you don't talk about the problem of not supporting the elderly in the future, which will only end the relationship.

And willing to chat with you. Good night, will miss you. It's okay, you still have me. How important I really am. Don't be sad, I'll be with you. I hope you're always there.

When getting along with the opposite sex, there are four kinds of messages that women hate most from men, have you ever sent them?

The interaction between the opposite sex must pay attention to the scale and size, otherwise, even if the relationship is good, it is easy to bring estrangement, mainly because:

1.Everyone likes to praise themselves by listening to good things being said, and they don't like to be belittled by saying bad things about others.

2.Interactions between the opposite sex, if not careful, can easily develop into a relationship between men and women, and it is easy to bring intimacy.

3.We should pay attention to protecting the psychological feelings of others, and we should not only focus on our own words and ignore the feelings of others.

Because I think these words are hurtful. Everyone will give themselves unreservedly in the relationship, and show the softest part of their heart, at this time he is often vulnerable, and these words will cause the other party to be sad.

First sentence: Can I hug you? Sentence 2: It's too much for you to treat you like this! Sentence 3: If only I had someone like you! Whether or not you believe in true friendship between men and women, you have to be measured.

Language is an art, and saying good things can make people feel good, but once you say things badly, you may be directly blacklisted, especially between people of the opposite sex. When some friends have a good impression of their friends, they want to get closer to them, but some friends just want to keep their friends. This is when the ability to speak is crucial.

1. Ambiguous relationships between the opposite sex need communication to maintain the need for communication No matter what the occasion is, once you speak badly, it may not only make others feel bad, but may even lead to the end of a relationship. There should be more communication between the opposite sex in order to maintain the relationship between each other. When you don't know each other that well, you generally get to know each other by talking, and even judge each other's views on yourself and whether they want to develop further from the communication with each other.

Second, once some words are spoken, they will make the other party have no good feelings, and many words need to be said depending on the occasion, and some words are said in unsuitable occasions or scenes, which may not only not add points to themselves, but also reduce their good feelings in the other party's hearts. For example, if a man exposes his vulnerability to you, and you not only do not comfort him, but also directly question or joke about him, this will make the boy feel frustrated and make him feel that you have no thoughts about him. There are also perfunctory words that can also be offensive, such as "whatever", "whatever you want", "whatever you want", "all right" and so on, try to say as little as possible.

3. Learn to communicate with each otherTwo people must learn to communicate well with each other, and think from each other's point of view. With good speaking skills, you can make the relationship between each other closer, the relationship between lovers more stable, and the relationship between relatives more harmonious. This shows the importance of the art of speaking.

Saying something that is not realistic and ethereal, some people of the opposite sex will also tell lies, and a lie requires thousands of lies to cover up. Slowly, let the opposite sex lose interest in it.

1.If the other party doesn't like it, there is no possibility of ambiguity.

2.The words of the conversation are related to the other party, but the other party is extremely resistant, it will be embarrassing, and how can it be ambiguous if it is embarrassing?

It is not clear that the words of ambiguous talk between the opposite sex are not very clear, the best friend is a friend, and a lover is a lover, so let's talk a little more openly.

1. First of all, when chatting, find out if you have a girlfriend? Do you have a boyfriend?

2. Secondly, when chatting, you should ask for some ambiguous words.

3. Finally, when chatting, you must keep a distance, and you can't hook your shoulders and back, and get too close.

Who is better, me or your other half, such words cannot be said, and it is not easy to misunderstand the other party by saying such things. In the future, I will also find someone with similar conditions to you, and if I say this, it will be a hint to the other party.

Some ambiguous things can't be said, otherwise it may affect the relationship between friends, and jokes about private parts of the body can't be said, such as talking about the girl's figure, appearance, etc., which are impolite.

Dialogue between the sexes. If the relationship does not reach the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, do not talk about the conversation between the sexes, which may cause the other party to resent it.

I think it's best not to make some ambiguous jokes with friends of the opposite sex, sometimes you may feel that the relationship is good, and it doesn't matter if you talk about it, but maybe the other person will take it to heart.

When it is said that "mine is yours", it means that the relationship is not simple, after all, brothers have to settle accounts, and the relationship between the opposite sex and the opposite sex is often a lover to say so, such people are generally recommended to get married on the spot.

Inadvertent words between the opposite sex are easy to reveal that the relationship between the two parties is not simple, 1. What is mine is yours; 2. Remember to find me for this kind of thing, and I will help you solve it; 3. Fool, I've been doing it all the time; 4. I often dream of you, and it's not strange for you to say it; 5. It turns out that you are the one who has been by my side to accompany you.

You tell me what to do, it's okay and I am. There is also a pure friendship between the opposite sex, and I want to ask for her opinion as soon as I encounter something; When encountering difficulties, the friends who will try their best to help each other are beyond the feelings of lovers and close relatives.