-
It's easiest to do something, it's easiest to give advice to others; The hardest thing to do is to manage yourself well. It has been said that "greatness is not to lead others but to manage oneself".
From ripe melons to young and middle-aged people, have you experienced a lot of unexpected gains along the way? Yes, everyone has their own story, and the story often starts with a good one, but what about the ending? Will it really have such a perfect ending like in the TV series?
The virtual is always beautiful, and reality is reality. There is no such thing as easy in the adult world!
We are deep in this bustling city, we all have our own troubles: unsatisfactory work, unsatisfactory love, family trivialities, conflicts between friends, everything bothers everyone, so are we going to fall? We should adjust our mentality, tell ourselves that we have to think of ways to solve difficulties when we encounter difficulties, and we must cheer ourselves up and manage our emotions well.
When I stood on the busy street and watched the people coming and going, there was a hurried step towards his home after work, there should be a wife who loved him and his children, and his parents were looking forward to his coming home, he was happy. There are also old people who stroll hand in the sunset after dinner, watching them so happy, hand in hand to Baitou and their lover by their side, they are happy. There is also a family of three playing outside, looking at the young children's smiles on their faces, without a trace of sorrow, they are also happy...I looked at them with envy in my heart, where should I go now?
And which one is mine? My heart was full of fear and helplessness. I'm afraid that my parents will need me when I can't achieve anything, and I'm afraid that my children will need me when I can't achieve anything.
I want to be mentally independent, I want to be financially independent, I want to live the way I want to be. So what about the people behind me who need me? I'm afraid that I won't have time to accompany them, but my children have grown up, and I'm afraid that I won't have time to fulfill my filial piety, but my parents are old.
Looking back, it turns out that I am the only one fighting alone. How I wish someone stood in front of me and said, "Don't be afraid, I'm here".
Am I asking too much?
A person's growth is often in an instant, seeing the world is cold, feeling the indifference of people, when I am in the abyss, I see a vine I have hope. When I tried to reach out and grab the only vine that could escape the abyss, the only vine was taken. I froze in frustration again, a bitter chill enveloping me.
I tried my best to climb up, but no matter how hard I tried, it didn't help. I wish someone would show up at this time and stretch out his hands to take me out of this terrible abyss!
When I got through the hardest days alone, I no longer wanted to find anything to rely on. Silence is not because of poor words, but because of an empty heart, no resentment or hatred, and calmly facing everything.
The lonely soul in my heart no longer has the luxury of finding sustenance, and it will be sealed forever and no longer exposed!
Mo Xiaomo.
-
My friend asked me, what are you doing at home, why don't you talk to me.
There was a hint of complaint in his tone. During this period of closure, we can move around a hundred square meters. The confined space restricts our movement too much. An agreed party, a soul-cleansing pilgrimage, a high-minded ideal, a romantic travel ......
The irritability after the plan was shattered, the depression in one place for a long time, the habit of day after day, and the loneliness buried deep in the heart.
When we are busy, we always want to be free and have a good rest, in exchange for rare tranquility. Now that our wish has been granted, we are again left in the loneliness of having nothing to do.
In the past, I always felt that I was too busy, lived in a different place for a long time, and had no time to spend with my family. Now, the opportunity has come and it should be cherished. In the past, I always thought that time was too fast, and I didn't have time to read those favorite stories. Now, the opportunity has come and it should be seized.
In the past, I was always busy with miscellaneous things, and I didn't have the energy to enjoy loneliness and think about the future. Now, the opportunity has come, and it is time to stop.
The busyness and idleness brought by time are the cornerstones of our growth, stepping past them to chase the loneliness in the depths of our souls. It is only when people are faced with loneliness that they can appreciate the clarity of their hearts.
Loneliness is a realm.
The so-called: no distractions, selflessness and forgetfulness. It doesn't matter the size of the space, you are intoxicated in your own world, obsessed with thinking. Fang De is always the best feedback for a period of time.
Pick up your phone and send a text message back to a friend. With what you want to accomplish, even if you are alone, there is no such thing as loneliness.
Loneliness, as most people understand it, is unaccompanied, idle, and boring. What I think of as loneliness is the emptiness of the mind without impurities, the torture of the soul under the quiet space, and the tranquility under the deep night sky.
The Buddha said: Loneliness is the helplessness of the soul and the confusion without a goal.
Therefore, even if you are stable for a lifetime and poor for a lifetime, do not associate with confusion. Because you never know when the satisfaction in your hands will leave.
In the end, only loneliness accompanied me through loneliness, walked the rivers, cooled the sleet and frost, went far away from the mountains and rivers, lost the autumn wind, and disappeared the autumn dream. >>>More
Not afraid of bloodshed but not daring to shed tears, afraid of loneliness but better than heartbreak. >>>More
1. Silently go to the BAI West Building, the moon is like a hook, and the lonely Wutong Deep Courtyard locks Du Qingqiu. ——Zhi Nantang Li Yu "Seeing Huan". >>>More
1. No one likes to be lonely, it's just that they're fed up with disappointment. >>>More
The mood of going to work is heavier than going to the grave.