How to help a friend? How can I treat my friends to help him?

It should be a family factor. The warmth is not enough, and the heart is empty. He might be a little unambitious, right?

If it goes on like this, it's really not going to make any difference. Depraved. Internal factors are the driving force.

He should reflect on himself, and he may not be able to listen to what outsiders say. You have to make him understand that it's not okay to live like this, you have to do something right, you can't run away, you have to get sunny, and you can't let yourself go astray. Alas, a child who lacks warmth is prone to depravity.

Your friends care more about him! Let him not mess around, let him understand how wasteful his life is to be a gangster, let him learn to be strong, grateful, and responsible for himself!

In fact he did not want to fall like this ... But I can't extricate myself ... Gotta a woman help him... Find a girl to persuade...

Give him the warmth of home.

I have a buddy who only has money, but he doesn't play with women, and I know from his words and every move that he is lonely, and I am afraid to look at his back.

I always message him, now we go to different universities, he comes back to my house for dinner once every holiday, sometimes he does, once a semester or so.

If you're good buddies, then you have to send him messages often, eat and clothe, and make him feel that he is not alone.

I don't know what your friend's personality is.

Because my brother and I are both cold personalities, I know how to treat him in moderation.

Take care of yourself, the warmth of home is very important, but don't worry too much about it.

Hope your friends will be happy.

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I think what he needs most is love, and you have to try your best to make him feel that you love him, and once he feels loved and it is real, I think he will change. Don't preach him now, love him with all your heart (can you do that?). Buy him something to eat, ask him how he's doing, etc.

When you meet him, you have to buy time to move him, make him happy, and not be lonely.

You first have to know what a friend is, what is the value that a friend can give you, is it to bring you emotional comfort, or can it give you some help when you have no money, if there is nothing, then what kind of friend is it? If you want to help him, follow your heart. I have a very good friend whose father had a failed business that led to the bankruptcy of the company, and now his family has a lot of foreign debts, and his life has become very poor.

Every time I see him eating steamed buns and mustard, I will give him my dishes, because I know that this is the only thing I can do, and I can't help him at all with the situation at home, so I can only do my best to let him eat better and help him as much as possible in life.

Do things within your means.

There are many problems that we can't solve, we have to do what we can to help, although we have no choice but to when, we should stay calm and choose a better solution.

Have your own principles.

When a friend asks you for help, we will always encounter some problems that go against our own principles, or things we don't want to do, then we must know how to refuse, and bury Lu euphemistically express that we are not willing to do these things.

Do not violate the principles.

For example, if you have just finished your homework and your friends want to "learn from it", but you value the fruits of your labor very much, then you need to keep your own principles, because even if it may make him unhappy, it is good for everyone. Sometimes we may even encounter a friend who has broken the law and wants you to help him cover it up, so we must remain principled and abide by the law.

If your friend thinks that he is useless, you seriously ask him why he has such thoughts, guide him to say all the aspects or examples that he thinks are useless, and then you take that you have the same situation as him, sigh and say, in this way, I also feel useless, and ask others if they disagree.

If your friend doesn't agree that you are useless, you ask him why, guide him according to him, let him understand that you are all about the same, he is just depressed now, and he can come out through actions and mental adjustments.

If your friend agrees that you are useless, you tell him that you also think, but you believe that you can change, and you don't feel that you are useless, but that you don't work hard enough and the method is not good, so that the effect will be more obvious by showing up and saying it yourself.

When a friend feels that he is useless, it is difficult to simply say big things and words of encouragement, you can take this matter seriously with him, talk about it carefully, and after analysis, when he himself has almost sorted out the source of this funny thought, and then prescribe the right medicine to encourage, the effect is easy to see immediate results.

It should be noted that you should always do psychological construction in advance, and you can't let your friends bring you in because they feel that they are useless and real, and finally it becomes a situation where two people complain about life together.

I will

Because as you said, everyone will encounter difficulties of all sizes, such as Maqiaoguo, and there is no one to help you when you are in trouble. Wait until you solve the problem, your friend is in trouble, and you don't go back to lend a hand. Then you are selfish.

If you help a friend this time, it is possible that you will have a good friend who knows you well, and the road will be better in the future. Don't worry about that time, be more open-minded.