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What do you mean by three from four virtues? "Three subordinate" refers to: unmarried from the father, married from the husband, and the husband from the son. The four virtues are: morality, grooming, rhetoric, and female workers.
In feudal etiquette and religious bondage, oppression, women's behavior, one of the moral standards.
What era is it now, the 21st century, the era of equality between men and women. If women want to abide by the three obedience and four virtues of the feudal era, then you men must also abide by the three obedience and four virtues of the new era:
My girlfriend has to go out with me"from"
Girlfriend ordered to serve"from"
My girlfriend is blind when she makes mistakes"from"
Girlfriend makeup has to wait"Yes"
Girlfriend spends money and gives up"Yes"
The girlfriend is angry and has to endure it"Yes"
Girlfriend's birthday to remember"Yes"
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I don't think it matters.
It's good to be able to, but you can't and can't force it.
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As you like, it sounds like a feudal product that is extremely evil and poisonous to women, but someone is the contemporary Yamato Nadeshiko, and I have a lot of love for gentle and virtuous people, huh.
It depends on the environment and personal wishes.
As for men, you are not qualified to ask for it, well, if you must be a woman, you must try three from four virtues.
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My girlfriend has to go out with me"from"
Girlfriend ordered to serve"from"
My girlfriend is blind when she makes mistakes"from"
Girlfriend makeup has to wait"Yes"
Girlfriend spends money and gives up"Yes"
The girlfriend is angry and has to endure it"Yes"
Girlfriend's birthday to remember"Yes
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Now a woman's three from four virtues, three from: never gentle, never considerate, never reasonable. Fourth: you can't say, you can't beat, you can't scold, you can't provoke.
Three from four virtues. Three slaves: "If you are not married to your father, you will marry your husband, and your husband will die with your son."
Four virtues": "women's morality, women's words, women's appearance, women's skills."
New Edition: Three from Four Virtues.
My wife's "three from": never laundry, never cook, never mop the floor.
The husband has "four things": the wife has to wait for makeup, the wife has to be willing to spend money, the wife has to endure the tantrum, and the wife has to be coaxed when she is angry.
Evolution of the Four Virtues: The "Four Virtues" were originally the training and cultivation of the four necessary cultivation of court women - virtue (virtue), speech (speech), appearance (appearance), and skill (gong), including the four educational contents of traditional "women's science", so Confucianism called "four teachings", also known as "four elements". Originating from the education of court women, it belonged to the "yin ceremony" (the etiquette that women observed) and the "yin office" (the duties of women), and soon extended to the cultivation of women in the upper class families.
At the age of ten, the girl received education from a female teacher at home - teaching "graceful obedience" (virtue, speech, tolerance, suppleness and obedience), holding hemp (spinning and rubbing twine, ancient clothes mostly used hemp, arrowroot, and silk as raw materials), treating silk cocoons, weaving cloth and making clothes, and learning a series of work to prepare for sacrifices and auxiliary sacrifices (gong, weaving, sewing, preparing meals, wine, etc.). Three months before the marriage, the clan invited female teachers to train women, "teaching women's virtues, women's words, women's appearance, and women's skills"; After the completion of the training, a sacrificial ceremony will be held to become a "woman".
It can be seen that the "four virtues" serve the "three observances" morality. The "Four Virtues" were later generalized to the requirements for all women. According to Zheng Xuan's explanation, it is:
Women's virtue is chastity, women's words are rhetoric, women's appearance is graceful, and women's merit is silk. "Future generations are constantly coming up with new interpretations.
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Reveal the original "three from four virtues" and solve the misunderstandings of thousands of years.
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Three from: never gentle, never considerate, never unreasonable Four virtues: can't provoke, can't fight, can't speak, can't scold.
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If you are not married to your father, you are married to your husband, and your husband is dead to your son.
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A woman's three obedience and four virtues refer to a woman's unmarried obedience to her father, her married obedience to her husband, and her husband's death to her son; The four virtues refer to women's virtues, women's words, women's appearance, and women's skills.
Three from the four virtues is the ancient Chinese feudal society.
The code of conduct and moral norms used to bind women are collectively referred to as "three obedience" and "four virtues". According to the principle of "distinction between inside and outside (i.e., the social division of labor between men and women)", by Confucianism.
Etiquette regulates women's life in morality, behavior, and cultivation.
The term "three subordinates" was first seen in the Confucian classics of the Zhou and Han dynasties "Rituals, Mourning Clothes, and Zixia Biography", when discussing the number of years of mourning for a married woman as a husband and for a father (three years for the husband and one year for the father), it was said that the woman had the meaning of three subordinates, and there was no special way, so she did not marry her father, but married her husband and died from her son.
The term "Four Virtues" is found in "Zhou Li, Tianguan, Neizai", Neizai is the official position of teaching harem women, responsible for teaching harem women Yin etiquette and women's duties step by step, among which the nine concubines in higher positions are in charge of the law of women's learning, in order to teach the nine royal women's virtues, women's words, women's appearance, and women's skills. Originally, it was a category of court women's education, and later it was called the three subordinates and became the standard for women's morality, behavior, ability and cultivation, that is, the three subordinates and four virtues.
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Reveal the original "three from four virtues" and solve the misunderstandings of thousands of years.
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Three from four virtues of modern women:
Three from: never gentle, never considerate, never reasonable.
Four virtues: can't beat, can't scold, can't speak, can't provoke.
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Reveal the original "three from four virtues" and solve the misunderstandings of thousands of years.
The new three subordinates refer to from the world, from love, and from oneself; The new four virtues refer to Wende and Wude, Yan Xian Shude, character and learning, and self-cultivation and morality. >>>More
Three from the four virtues: "three from" and "four virtues" together. "Three subordination" refers to the young from the father, the marriage from the husband, and the husband from the son; The "four virtues" refer to women's virtues, women's words, women's appearance, and women's skills. >>>More
The three obedience and four virtues are the codes of conduct and moral norms used to restrain women in ancient Chinese feudal society, and the combined name of "three obedience" and "four virtues". Three obedience and four virtues is one of the ancient customs, so what exactly does the three obedience and four virtues refer to? >>>More
In order to meet the needs of the stability of the patriarchal family and the maintenance of the interests of the patriarchal-patriarchal family (clan), according to the principles of "distinction between inside and outside" and "male superiority and inferiority of women", Confucian etiquette and religion are the normative requirements for women's morality, behavior and cultivation throughout their lives. The three virtues are the unmarried father, the married husband, and the husband and the son, and the four virtues are women's virtues, women's words, women's appearance, and women's merits.
In ancient times, there must have been women who could not do three things and four virtues. For example, Yang Dalang's wife, Pan Jinlian, is a typical example.