Do you know what the elderly in the family should do if they are on the verge of death?

1.All the things in the living room of the house were evacuated to other rooms and turned into a mourning hall.

2.Burn incense and light a lantern. It could not be extinguished for three days, and the family took turns keeping vigil.

3.When people come to the family to mourn, the younger generation and the parents have to kneel and kowtow three times with the guests, and the guests have to burn paper in the brazier.

4.The wreath is sent too, depending on personal wishes. There are also those who deliver accounts. Ask someone to blow suona or something.

5.When you finally go out to the funeral home, you have to scatter coins at home, and you have to scatter paper money and coins in the car all the time on the way.

6.After cremation, go home and cross the brazier, drink sugar water, and eat safe dry.

7.At noon, I will have a banquet for relatives and friends who go to the funeral home together. At the end, give each of them a bowl of longevity.

8.From the death of the old man to the cremation into the earth for three whole days, and then it is all over

Life and death are a major event in the world, and when an elderly person in the family dies, you need to avoid doing some taboo things.

First: Don't touch the body of the elderly

Many family members, after learning the news of the death of the elderly, will become extremely excited, and it is easy to fall into bed and cry bitterly at this time, which is actually not good. After learning that the old man has died, it is not allowed to touch the old man's body for 8-16 hours, at this time, the old man's consciousness is detached from the body, and if he touches it, it is easy for the old man to feel pain.

Second: Don't cry and lose your normal judgment

Some people are prone to emotional crying after the death of the elderly, but in fact, it will disturb the normal judgment of the whole person at this time, which is of course not good for the elderly. After the death of the elderly, the house should be as quiet as possible, learn to say goodbye to the elderly, so that the elderly can relax with the living people and go to another world with peace of mind. Don't cry and tell the old man not to leave, this will only add to the pain of the old man.

Third: the death of the elderly needs to be filial piety

After learning the news of the old man's death, the family needs to keep filial piety. During the period of filial piety, do not go around, do not wear bright clothes, and do not go to entertainment places to have fun. During the period of filial piety, do not choose to kill, you can release the fish, which has a better effect on the deceased old man than doing things.

Fourth: Don't shave your hair

When an elderly person dies, don't shave their hair, don't call pregnant women to attend, and don't hold a happy event in the near future. Of course, there are also some families who say that they can do happy events, which can be regarded as a joyful event. In fact, human birth, old age, sickness and death are a natural phenomenon.

Don't be too sad, and don't dwell on it all the time.

For the old man who has just passed away, in fact, the customs that are passed down among the people are still different from place to place. And after the death of the elderly, the choice of clothes also needs to be specific. The clothes of the deceased are taboo clothes made of satin fabric, and the coffin is also taboo to use willow wood.

Do not attend weddings, business openings, baby celebrations, etc.

When the elderly are dying, the most important thing to pay attention to is:First of all, be mentally prepared; Second, prepare for the funeral; Finally, it is necessary to pay attention to some specific problems before, during, and after the death of the elderly

1. First of all, be mentally prepared.

Most of the elderly die of illness, such as Parkinson's disease, cerebral infarction and other geriatric diseases. As a child, we must pay attention to the condition of the elderly, if we find that the elderly are unable to eat, have difficulty swallowing, are unconscious, and express themselves unclearly, we must be prepared for the elderly to have little time and be able to leave at any time.

2. Second, prepare for the funeral.

Whether it is the elderly in the city or the elderly, after death, some farewell ceremonies or funerals will be held. As a child, you should learn more about these in advance and discuss the details of the funeral with your siblings and the surviving parent. If you wait until the people are gone to discuss, it will be too late by then, and many things will be difficult to control.

1) Discuss and determine the number of days for the funeral. The customs vary from place to place, with some places holding it for two or three days, and some places for four or five days. If the child is working in a foreign country, it is difficult to ask for leave or it is not easy to take too long leave, it is necessary to discuss and determine the number of days for the funeral.

If the number of days of the local funeral is calculated according to some eight characters, gossip, etc., and must be implemented, then it can only be determined by yourself.

2) Discuss and determine the items to be purchased for the funeral

First, it is necessary for the deceased. Such as coffins, shrouds, etc.

The second is the items required for the sacrifice. Such as paper money, incense candles, firecrackers, etc.

The third is the necessary items for white affairs. Such as tobacco and alcohol, melon seeds and peanuts, candy, meat, vegetables, etc. (the above items can be purchased during the funeral, and there are people who specialize in white affairs in various places, and they can buy according to their requirements.) ）

3) Discuss and determine the apportionment method of the funeral expenses. If there is only one child in the family, it is basically up to you to figure it out alone. If there are several siblings in the family, then go straight to the equalization method.

3. Finally, some specific questions about the elderly before, during, and after death.

If you find that the elderly are running out of time, then you must do a good job in the final care of the problem, and you must discuss the specific issues such as taking care of the elderly and taking care of them by those people. There is a tradition in China that when parents die, it is better to have children by their side, the so-called "send-off". In addition, after the old man leaves, it involves a problem such as sending him back to his hometown for burial or pulling him to the funeral home for processing, which must be considered in advance.

It is better than the vehicle that transports the dead in advance. After the funeral, there are some mountain guards and heads.

7. Returning to the funeral and other customs, which can be discussed and determined after the funeral.

People are inherently dead, and after the death of the elderly, as a junior, they should be loyal and filial to them, after all, it is the last journey for the elderly. Therefore, some specific etiquette must be understood and respected.

Taboos after the death of the elderly in rural areas: you can't say you're dead, you can say "old" if you're seventy or eighty years old, and you're "gone" if you're younger. Children are not allowed to cut their hair for 100 days, and they can only get a haircut after 100 days.

You can't visit the New Year's Day on the first year of your death, otherwise people will be unhappy and feel very unlucky. You can't paste couplets in the first year of the New Year, you can't paste blue couplets in the second year, and you can paste red couplets in three years.

In the countryside, the sacrifice is much more elaborate than the city, at the scene of the funeral, you can't laugh, you can't wear red and green, especially the younger generations have to abide by this way of sacrifice. There are those who come to mourn, to kneel and kowtow and return the salute, there are juniors in front of the mourning shed who have been waiting there, and when they come to mourn, they go to kowtow to greet, and then when others worship, they must kneel on both sides and kowtow to thank them, now in the city, there are many rules from the south to the north, there are no previous particulars, the rules of the funeral, with the different hosts, the etiquette has also changed.

In fact, after the death of a person, no matter how rich the funeral is, in fact, the deceased person, I don't know, just for the living to watch the lively, how filial our family is, the old man died, how grand we do, compare with each other, set up the stage to blow the trumpet, in fact, I think it should be buried thickly, when he is alive, he eats better, wears warmer, that is a kind of enjoyment of the dead to spend a million, two million ten is not known at all, there is no need to be so extravagant, waste this filial piety, He should be allowed to live a chic, happy, and dignified life when he is alive, which is true filial piety.

Our old man has passed away, and we are not allowed to eat noodles and vermicelli, saying that eating these things is constantly implicated with the dead, and it is not good for the living, for fear of being taken away by the dead. When eating, plates and bowls can not be stacked, saying that the dishes will be stacked up will be mourned, there is no scientific basis, just want to ask for good luck, in short, many taboos are thinking, I hope that the family will not encounter such a thing, which means that the people in the family are healthy, happy and happy, and everyone can live a long life.

After all, do it, each family's funeral is not too different, every taboo is to take into account the living to be a little better, now in this society, superstitious things are getting less and less, everyone also understands, no matter what other people's families do, it is right.

Now you can't build a spiritual shed, you can't get those feudal blows, you can't burn paper and horses, the taboo of the old people in the rural family after they die can't be said to be dead, the seventy or eighty-year-old is said to be old, and the younger ones are said to be gone, and they can't wear red and willow green clothes.

When talking about the topic of the elderly, you can't just say that the old man is dead, but rather die.

When the old man just died, the children could not get a haircut, and they could not get a haircut until a hundred days later, which was a sign of respect for the elderly.

In the first year of the old man's death, the house should not post couplets, and it is necessary to uphold filial piety and keep filial piety for the elderly.

Do not wear filial piety cloth on your head, filial piety shoes to go to other people's houses, do not make loud noises, do not wear bright clothes, do not have no one around, do not leave the things of the dead, wear longevity clothes for the deceased, and do not mask the face of the deceased.

It is important not to fall into a sad mood. Although the old man has passed away, we normal people should continue to live and live with a better attitude.

1. You need to call 120 to see if there is any help, and then notify relatives and friends to handle the funeral, try to comfort your younger brothers and sisters, or call ** to arrange matters for the funeral home, go to the hospital to apply for a death certificate, and go to the public security bureau to cancel the household registration. If you are young, you still need to rely on adults to help.

2. When encountering this kind of thing, you still need to try to be calm, so that things may be solved better. It will be easier to operate according to the process, and it will be easier to solve it with the help of adults, so it is necessary to integrate the strength of various aspects to solve it relatively perfectly.