Can a pregnant woman go to the grave of the elderly

Generally speaking, it is not recommended for pregnant women to go to the grave, not to mention the hard work of the journey, and then the environmental air pollution caused by burning paper and setting off guns, which is fatal to the unborn child, and it is said that the unborn child will die when walking around in the graveyard with extremely heavy yin qi, and the elderly in the family will generally prevent the pregnant woman from going to the grave. If you really want to worship your ancestors, you can burn paper and incense at home to give your ancestors, but you must make it clear to your ancestors, and your ancestors will be considerate. In traditional customs, it is very important to burn incense for sacrifices, because incense plays a pivotal role in worship, because a good incense is a medium that can communicate with all saints, and can send sorrow to the netherworld and talk about filial piety.

And the feelings of longing, so you must be attentive to the incense, you can go to the phaseless copper furnace one-to-one custom a blessing incense to convey your feelings of missing, since it is customized, then you can make a unique incense according to your ideas, you can add some natural raw materials according to your wishes, you can also add a certain kind of flowers and plants that the ancestors liked before their lives, they are all okay, with such incense is enough to express your full filial piety, the ancestors will understand your good intentions when they see it in heaven, I will also feel the blessing of your family's health.

If you can't go, you won't go, because it's not easy to go, and it's good for a person to be filial piety in his heart, and it's good to think about it, because it's also very difficult for a woman to get pregnant, don't you say!

Pregnant women are not allowed to go to the grave, afraid of unclean things hurting the baby in the belly, although superstitious, but rather believe that there is no believe, go to the cemetery is afraid of the baby, and the smell of burning paper money is not good. During pregnancy, pregnant women should pay attention to rest, avoid strenuous exercise and sexual life, go out for a walk appropriately, and absorb more fresh air.

Precautions for daily contraindications in pregnant women.

1. It is not advisable to use wind oil essence.

Wind oil essence contains camphor, which can cross the placenta and enter the amniotic cavity, causing nausea and vomiting in pregnant women.

2. It is not advisable to wear lipstick.

The composition of lipstick is mainly oils, waxes, dyes, and fragrances. Grease is generally lanolin, which will adsorb various heavy metal trace elements and microorganisms such as Escherichia coli that are not conducive to human health in the air, and has a certain osmotic effect.

3. It is not suitable to perm or dye hair.

The cold perm used in perm often contains substances such as alkaline thioglycol and hydrogen peroxide. Hair dyes are nitro, amino aromatic compounds. These substances are toxic and can induce rashes and respiratory diseases, which are not good for the mother and baby.

Moreover, the electric perm and hair dryer during perm will produce electromagnetic fields, which are harmful to the health of the fetus. During pregnancy, the hair of pregnant women is relatively fragile and easy to fall out, and if the hair is permed with chemical agents, it can lead to a large amount of hair loss.

4. It is not advisable to use more detergents.

In the early stages of pregnancy, excessive use of laundry detergent, shampoo, and dish soap will be absorbed and stored in the body, denatured the outer cell membrane of the fertilized egg, resulting in miscarriage. If a woman regularly uses detergent and the absorption reaches a certain concentration, 48 hours after fertilization, the egg cell can be denatured and the pregnant egg dies.

1. In some places, especially in the north, women are not allowed to go to the grave (regardless of the ancestral grave of their mother's family and their mother-in-law)? This situation is relatively rare, only in a few places, in Xiaogan, Hubei Province, there is a saying that women must not go to the grave. There are probably three reasons for this:

One way of saying is: men are inferior to women, and they are afraid that women will show their heads. However, judging from historical records, this statement is not absolute.

As described in the meticulous "Old Things of Martial Arts":"Three days before the Qingming Festival for the cold food, people go to the mound and wild sacrifices, especially many women, light makeup and plain clothes, carry the wandering girl, and share the dumplings to rest. "It can be seen that as early as the Southern Song Dynasty, women were able to participate in the tomb.

Another theory is that in the agricultural era, it was still very cold in the north, especially in the Yellow River Valley, and even colder in the wild, so it was more convenient for men to go out to the tomb to worship.

Another theory is: it is popular in rural areas to get married before the Spring Festival, and around the Qingming Festival, newlywed women are two months pregnant, so they need to have a safe pregnancy, and of course they can't go out to sweep the tomb.

2. There is also a relatively widespread spread that married women cannot go back to their parents' homes to sweep the graves (unmarried women cannot sweep the tombs), the main reason is that there is a saying among the people: daughters belong to other people's families"The water spilled by the daughter of the married dry song"Going to the grave will take away the blessings or wealth of the mother's family. In some places, after a woman marries into her in-law's house, she can go to the grave of the non-Zheng.

In some places, girlfriends or women who are only engaged and unmarried cannot go home with their boyfriends to visit the grave, also for fear of being taken away by outsiders.

3. In many places, pregnant women avoid tomb sweeping activities during the Qingming Festival, and the main reasons are as follows.

There is a superstition that tomb sweeping is heavy and fearful of affecting the child, and in some places there is a saying that the child is more timid when smiling at the pregnant woman sweeping the tomb.

Another theory is that the pregnancy should not be told to others in private, and only be asked for advice from the mother-in-law, and only told the mother-in-law until it was very sure. This is mainly due to the fear of deviations in pregnant women and ridicule by outsiders. In the process of sweeping the tomb, kneeling and worshipping, etc., it is easy to expose the woman's pregnancy.

There is also a more reliable saying that the Qingming season is very crowded, for the safety of the fetus, it is not recommended for pregnant women to participate, and the weather and surrounding environment of the tomb sweeping are not conducive to the health of pregnant women.

4. The new daughter-in-law and the family of the newborn child must take the new daughter-in-law and the child to the grave together.

The main reason is to show that the ancestors are recognized, and the second is to comfort the ancestors.

5. Women who have menstrual holidays should also avoid tomb sweeping.

The main reason for this saying in a few places is that they are worried about going to the grave during menstruation, touching the sacrifices, and disrespecting the ancestors.

However, there is no need to argue about whether a woman can sweep the tomb, the core is filial piety, it is better to respect customs, sometimes when there is a conflict with customs, the family sits down to talk, discuss and solve, after all, the family and harmony is the greatest filial piety to the ancestors, and it is also the greatest blessing of the family.

Pregnant women are not suitable to go to the grave.

The main reason is that the pregnant woman is pregnant with an unborn baby in her womb. If you reluctantly go to sweep the grave, you are afraid that the yin energy in the cemetery will affect the health of the fetus, and even lead to the possibility of stillbirth. And even if the pregnant woman who goes to sweep the tomb does not have a miscarriage, the child born is also prone to frailty and sickness, this is because the fetus is in contact with yin qi when it is in the mother's body, and it is entangled in some dirty things, so it will be so, so the folk tradition, for the health of the fetus, pregnant women should not go to the tomb.

Try to keep pregnant women as little as possible.