How do you know if two people are compatible?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-21
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When people get along with each other, they will become more familiar with each other, so as to know whether the other person is suitable for themselves. But this is based on getting along with each other in order to understand. Only you know whether it is suitable or not, and no one else can make decisions for you.

    If you want to know whether two people are suitable, you must pay attention to the following questions in the process of getting along. First, whether you can tolerate the other person's character. This problem is not something that can be known in a day or two, and it takes two people to go through a long period of contact before they can truly appreciate what the other person's personality is like.

    Personality issues are important because they are the most frequent problems to face later in life. Personality issues can reflect a lot of situations, so this is something that should be understood first. The personality is suitable, which should mean that the two people can not only complement each other, but also be able to stand each other's personalities.

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    Second, when the other party is dealing with some things, will you agree with his approach and will you feel that it is properly handled. Because this is a problem that will be faced in the future, when two people encounter a thing, they need to face and solve it together, if the difference is too big, it will cause conflicts. Therefore, if two people have the same way of dealing with it, it will solve a lot of troubles and increase the tacit understanding between two people.

    Third, whether you can stand each other's shortcomings, everyone will have shortcomings, but as the other half, you should be able to tolerate each other's shortcomings, so that you can continue to be together for a longer time. As the other half, it is the one who knows the shortcomings of the other party, but can tolerate it, and will have the patience to help the other party to improve.

    If you can do that, then it should be suitable.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The various basic etiquette determines a person's upbringing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Each of us will meet the other half, he makes your life complete, there is a good lyric, we are all lonely existence, looking for love, filling the white of life, that person, must be the most suitable person with you, then, someone has to ask, what is suitable? I often hear couples say when they break up, you're fine, but we're not suitable.

    What exactly does it mean to be unsuitable? Is it birth, family background, personality or something else, maybe, inappropriate is just an excuse, the big reason for the breakup is that I no longer love, because I no longer love, so I feel that she doesn't do anything with her heart, because she no longer loves, so I feel that there are many differences with her, because you love her before, so you didn't notice it, but now your love is gone, and you no longer tolerate all her shortcomings.

    When you like to eat chili peppers, your other half likes things with light tastes, when you want to rest at home on Saturdays and Sundays, your other half wants to go to the bar to party, and there are many small things in life, but these are not the point, because if he loves you enough, he will tolerate everything about you, and change his behavior and habits for you, so that you can have no barriers and no differences when you are together.

    Therefore, if you want to know whether the two of you are suitable and whether you can be together, the most important thing is to see whether he loves you enough and is willing to change for you, and at the same time, it also depends on whether you like him enough and can change yourself for him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Only each other will know whether two people are suitable or not, and if you pursue your truest heart, you will know whether you are suitable or not!

    When two people are together, they need an atmosphere that is not tired of getting along, absolute trust in each other, and relative freedom. If you are with each other, you will not have a lot of scruples, as long as you are with him, you will be very at ease, no matter what you do you will feel happy and happy, whether the other party has money or not, you are willing to be with him, and the other party has always been good to you, each other is in love with each other, who would say that such two people are not suitable?

    If you go out to play together, each other is in each other's eyes, no matter when and where, as long as the other party appears in your sight, you will subconsciously care about him, that kind of eyes are full of love, even if your love period has passed, you will still care about each other as always, love each other, two people are suitable, more hearts will always be together, no matter what you experience, what you meet, each other's hearts will not be separated.

    Couples press the road together, go shopping, eat street stalls, play games together, etc., I think from every little thing you can feel whether the other party cares about you, whether they have always been good to you, whether they have always loved you and liked you. If you feel very comfortable with each other, without the slightest awkwardness, without the slightest embarrassment or artificiality, and get along very well and comfortably, this can also prove that you are suitable together.

    Two people are suitable, that is, two people are truly in love with each other, distressed by each other and caring for each other. If you don't see each other for a day, you will miss each other very much, even if you meet every day, you will still say good morning and good night to each other as when you were together, and you will still nag each other to remember to drink more water, take care of yourself and other daily trivial things, which will also show that you are suitable to be together, because of love, so you will care and feel distressed, because of love, so you will accommodate each other's small shortcomings, and it is also because of love that you will be suitable to be together.

    The biggest point, if you want to know whether you are suitable or not, you have to look at how you deal with difficult issues when you quarrel, when you have differences of opinion over some things, is it to blame and scold each other? Or is it tolerant and accommodating to listen to each other? This will be the time that can best reflect the feelings of two people, and when you encounter problems, you will not only think about yourself, one will be angry, and the other will bow your head, which is appropriate.

    It would be inappropriate to say that two people quarrel and are unwilling to compromise with each other, and they have to divide the high and low.

    Remember to experience it with your heart.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You don't have to find the best, but you must find the most suitable. Whether two people are suitable or not depends on the state of the two people when they quarrel.

    Many people say: whether a man is good to you or not, not to see how good he is to you when he is in a good mood, but to see how bad he is to you when he is in a bad mood, if a man is still caring about you when he is in a bad mood, and will think about what you like to eat, and take care of your emotions, then this is a good man, and you must be suitable.

    There are no two people in the world who are particularly suitable, even if they have similar interests, they have to go through a run-in to go on, girls must open their eyes to see how the man is when they fall in love, otherwise you will suffer after marriage.

    Husbands and wives have a seven-year itch, in these seven years, some couples can't stand it and divorce, and some couples have a better relationship, this is the best time to test whether the husband and wife are suitable, the right couple always has to withstand all the tests and stay together forever.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After getting along for a long time, it is natural to know whether two people are suitable or not, because when two people first started together, they both wanted to show their best side to each other. Then deliberately hide the bad side, for fear of being discovered by the other party.

    And there is a certain difference between two people who are in love and two people who are married. For two people who are in love, every day is new to me, they enjoy the process of falling in love, and there are few quarrels. And it is said that a woman in love is the most beautiful, and it has never been said that a woman in marriage is the most beautiful.

    Women in love want to be beautiful and have their boyfriends compliment. Because the relationship between two people is only boyfriend and girlfriend, and it is possible that they will break up in the future, so in their hearts, they always want to leave their best side to each other as memories in the future. And the two people who are married have already formed a consciousness from the bottom of their hearts, feeling that they are already their own, so they will not pay attention to their own image, and they will do everything very casually.

    Therefore, if you want to know whether two people are suitable or not, you can't see it in love. Because of this, there is a talk of trial marriage. Many people are afraid that two people will not be suitable before they get married, which will lead to divorce later.

    In order not to make a mistake to the end, two people start to try marriage, if they find that the two people are not suitable during the trial marriage process, then break up immediately, if it is suitable, then you can consider marriage. I think this method is good and avoids a lot of things from happening.

    Two people don't say that they can get married if they like each other, there are many factors to consider. We have to judge whether two people are suitable to be together from the aspects of family, personality, three views, character, and each other's parents.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Many people say they don't know what kind of couple is suitable.

    Let me tell you the story of me and my partner! I don't know if it's a good match with him, but I think my love with him is quite complete.

    It didn't take long for me to fall in love with him. During the year I was with him, there were a lot of fights, but it didn't affect our relationship, but it got better.

    It's not just because we like each other, or love each other. And for another reason. We all want to be with each other for a long time. We have this kind of love, so maybe we are the right one!

    In fact, there is another point, that is, couples should compare hearts to hearts and understand each other.

    I've seen couples like this, they each have their own opinions, and then the guy talks about the man's troubles, and the girl talks about the woman's troubles, and everyone refuses to back down, so in the end they break up.

    But I have also seen such couples, the same boy said the man's troubles, and the girl said the woman's troubles, but in the end they found a time to talk to each other, so the two found a suitable way to resolve their conflicts, and until now they are still together and live a very happy life.

    So that's what we call suitability.

    What I mean by the current standard for couples to be together is not exactly whether they like it or not, or whether they love each other or not. Therefore, it is relatively important to judge whether love is suitable in a couple. It's just that time is more important than falling in love here.

    If you want to know whether a couple is suitable or not, you need to get to know each other slowly. Since you love each other, cherish it, compare your heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's up to you! Because everyone's personality, ideas, thoughts, interests and hobbies are different.

    Whether a person is suitable or not, of course, depends on the interests and thoughts of the two of you, and whether you are both standing at the same height.

    When two people fall in love, it must be because they like each other, and then that's why they will be together, and then if you are together, it means that you must be very similar somewhere, and then you can talk very well and have common opinions, or this guy is very good to you, and then it is because of his appearance, you think you two like it and then you are together. <>

    Here I will say my personal opinion is that if two people are not suitable, I think the mind is on the same height as you, have a common opinion, and then everything can be thought of together, I think this can reflect whether a person is suitable or not, of course, there may be compromises between couples, and there may also be run-ins. Maybe as a boy thinks a little more than a girl, although sometimes he is careless, but he can also think of what he should think, so sometimes boys are more delicate.

    So it's up to you to fall in love, personal likes are likes, and there is no inappropriateness. It's appropriate to say anything when you like someone, and it's not appropriate to talk too much when you don't like someone.

    Like a couple around me, two people have the same job, and then at first they feel that they are all about the same, because two people have the same job, and the things to be tested are also the same, and then they will be very different in all aspects, and then they will feel that there are a lot of things to talk about, so they are together, and after being together, they find that they are not as good as they thought before, because sometimes boys' emotional intelligence is not high, which is also a very distressing thing.

    So as I said above, it all depends on the individual, like it is not like, and there is no such thing as whether it is suitable or not, when you like a person, everything is appropriate, and if you don't like a person, how you hate it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Whether it is suitable for two people to be together, I think it depends on the following points.

    One is whether the ideas are aligned. To be honest, it's important that two people are on the same page when they are together. If two people, only you, want to struggle, want to work hard, and want to live in a big city, then your other half is naturally not suitable for you.

    A lot of times, when we have feelings for a story, it's hard to get out there. When two people are together, they should have a common goal and be willing to put in the effort. Instead of lying alone at home, fighting and fighting outside alone.

    The second is whether they have common hobbies. It is difficult for two people to go on without a common hobby together, because it will feel boring and boring. Two people are going to spend the rest of their lives together, how can so much time be wasted on boring things that you and I stare at each other.

    Having a common hobby can show whether it is appropriate for two people to be together, because having topics to talk about together is the joy of life.

    The third is whether the personalities of two people are compatible. Character is very important, maybe you can endure it for a while, but can you endure it for a lifetime? Personality is the most difficult thing to change, and if two people have similar personalities or can complement each other, they can be together and get along happily.

    I've imagined countless pictures of my future husband's life in the future, and our personalities are similar, but he must be the one who loves him a little more than I do. There are only two people with the same three views, he will accompany you where you want to go, he will accompany you to eat what you want to eat, whether it is suitable or not depends on these three points, I hope you will meet your own Prince Charming and spend the rest of your life together.

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