Let me ask you a question that you may be thinking about

First of all, people need idols rather than find something higher than themselves to look up to and worship, a person they want to do but can't do to support and pay attention, watch them do what they yearn for, to get inspiration, fill the emptiness, fans' concern for idols is like believers' fanaticism for faith, it must be higher than others.

In addition, the idol in everyone's mind must be the object of 100% real and 100% spontaneous 100% favorability in his heart, so it can arouse the understanding and compassion of the person himself to the greatest extent.

Think about it, who your relatives are is not chosen by yourself, so there will always be some factors such as "I should love them out of courtesy, humanity and responsibility" (it must not be all like this, such as maternal love); And friendship is often because as a human being, there is no way to rely on others or be given help in life to establish feelings, which will be somewhat passive (and not all of them); Even love, although it is the most real and spontaneous emotion, still has possessiveness, suspicion, and distrust that may exist at any time, and long-term love will be transformed into the family affection mentioned above, and the love for idols knows that it is impossible to monopolize him and her, and it does not affect its intensity and longevity.

In addition, the appearance or temperament of most celebrity idols is generally the closest to the highest point of their fans' aesthetic concepts, and there is no way, our human nature is the part of our human nature that has cheap bones, and the beauty of appearance occupies a natural advantage for all emotional value judgments.

In fact, I am also quite pessimistic about this issue, and I haven't thought about it carefully, but I just talk about my current thoughts one-sidedly, which is not logical and scattered.

However, it is not necessary to look at this phenomenon in a narrow and isolated way. For example, the characters in the works of art are created avatars, but as long as some enthusiasts believe that this is their destiny, they will also spend a lot of energy to pay attention to it, and even speculate about the psychological activities that the character does not describe in the work. For another example, even if everyone knows how to care about their relatives and friends, they are only good to their relatives and friends, and they are so good that they do not hesitate to sacrifice others for them, is it a deeper pain for human beings since ancient times?

So off topic? Thank you for your question, which led me to this point: we all have a hateful problem is that it is easy to pay too much attention to the people we love the most and ignore the people who need love and attention the most, and the essential reason is that human nature is like this, and the second is that most people's understanding of love needs to be improved, when everyone learns to look at the whole life or even non-life from the whole, and penetrates and spreads their clear, compassionate, friendly and concerned eyes from the part that attracts them the most to the end, maybe at that time, there is really nothing in the world that is terrible.

Idols are the objects of their liking and their spiritual food, so they care a lot about their idols' every move and even their personal privacy, and it is not uncommon for friends to encounter each other, so it's like you said.

Chinese love to make fun, and foreigners also love to make fun.

It is suggested that the landlord can refer to some ** written by Mr. Lu Xun, which describes the inferior nature of many Chinese people, to put it bluntly, he loves to join in the fun, and he has nothing to do.

They regard their idols as their spiritual sustenance, they pin their idols on the things they want to do but can't do, they think that their idols are successful when they succeed, so that they can be recognized by the society, and people's greatest desire is to be recognized by the society.