I don t like to chat with others, I d rather be alone on the Internet and read a book in a daze

First of all, I am also a very introverted person, my family and friends, all of them have my personality, I am cheerful in it, in fact, I don't like this, I didn't like it before, I didn't be so serious before, since I went into society, the surrounding environment oppressed me, I couldn't accept it, so I changed, became more silent, I felt like a monster, I felt inferior, I was afraid of crowds.

But I gradually realized that it was not only me who was different, but there were also people who were more introverted and eccentric than me, and there were many such people, and if God wanted everyone to be the same, he would make everyone introverted.

Therefore, sometimes you have to allow yourself to be different from other people, since you can't change, accept your own alternative, tell yourself, I'm just different from others, there's nothing wrong with that, some people don't have feet, but they still love life, and they reluctantly pretend to be very cheerful and outgoing, which can only add unnecessary burdens to themselves, and make others more uncomfortable, feel that you are very fake and pretentious, and you must correctly understand your own strengths and weaknesses, or that sentence, since you can't change, then choose to accept

It's too introverted, and I need to change it. I used to be like that. It's not good for yourself or the people around you. People have to learn to communicate and try to change themselves.

It's good to do that once in a while, give yourself enough time to think about a lot of questions. But it's really not good to be too introverted.

What do you see**! I can't find any good books to introduce a few good books.

Hello, there are many kinds of such situations, and now many people are like this, such as the reason why they like to stay by themselves, whether they have met someone who knows them.

The reason why many people like to be alone is because this part of the people has not yet met their confidants. At this stage, this part of people will always feel that other people are not able to enter their hearts, even if they have been dating for a period of time, they can't read themselves, so there are many people who like to stay alone, and for those who are lonely and lonely when they stay alone, these people basically bear it themselves. While I don't want to judge others, I don't want to wronged myself.

For example, although many people have made friends, they will find that these friends always have something to dislike them after a long time, in this case, because friends are not good at evaluating others, and they don't want to accept these bad places in their hearts, so they stay alone. Interpersonal difficulties.

For example, many people feel that it is very difficult to communicate with others because they are not very good at communicating with others and do not know communication skills, so many people will choose to stay alone.

7 don't like to chat with everyone, like to stay alone, quietly, don't want others to disturb themselves, want to have more of their own private space, according to our interests and hobbies, choose what they want to do, don't want some people around you to say how to live everywhere, so we must listen to some other people's advice, whether to do it depends on us.

I think it's all about a person's personality and the way they behave in person. In other words, many people are more introverted or withdrawn. So it's normal to don't like communicating with people in general, but I think we should change it.

This depends on personal habits, most of the introverts who don't like to talk about their lives prefer to be alone, and most of those who are extroverted like to gather in groups, make friends, and ultimately look at themselves, which is completely up to them.

In fact, if you don't want to get along with others, being alone is also an attitude and way of life. It's up to you.

Personally, I feel that it is better to be lively, so I like to be around people.