Why does my girlfriend have me, and she still says that she feels lonely

Updated on society 2024-06-19
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Everything needs to be communicated, it is recommended to find a time, the two of you find a quiet place, calm down and communicate well, you must be calm. It's best to prepare the topic in advance, and take care of the person you think is worthy of your love!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It means that you are not taking care of yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You don't care enough for her, or you don't give her what she really wants. She doesn't love you that much.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I've never been in a relationship, but I have a lot of girls' friends, and I spend a lot of time with girls, and I don't know if my help to you, but I'll do my best.

    First of all, you have to believe her, don't doubt if she forgets, even if she is lying to you and fooling you, as long as you have trust in your heart, she will choose you even if she remembers him.

    Also, if you don't meet every day, you won't exist. Here's an example. You say that two people live together all day long, don't talk, and find other people when they have something, isn't it still very lonely.

    What you're going to do is be better for her. Be kind to everyone around her, if you can.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Find some time to spend with her!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It means that she is in a lonely state now, and you can take appropriate care of her!!

    If you are disappointed, what does it mean to be lonely for the rest of your life is not to talk to anyone, people must learn to be alone and learn to be lonely.

    It is said that before loneliness is confusion, and after loneliness is growth. Since loneliness is the norm in life, there is no need to worry too much. Loneliness is not walking alone in the cold wind and rain, loneliness is the absolute grip with the self in the dark.

    We have to learn to face loneliness, and only loneliness can make people sad and cry ......I mean, it's only loneliness that makes us more focused on creating. When life stops being innovated, it is the real twilight of life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When I first started dating, the girl said that you don't have to talk about people, what he means is that the people you meet don't have to go too much, or tell each other your inner thoughts.

    Everyone should have their own sense of boundaries and retain their own sufficient privacy. Otherwise, it is easy to fall into passivity, especially if it is easy to be taken advantage of by people with ulterior motives.

    Loneliness itself is a norm, he feels that lonely people are a norm, he doesn't believe in love, he doesn't believe in things that are too beautiful. He thinks that if you are alone, you can gain the power to think and move forward. At present, he has not found the very happy fruit of love.

    So he still has some doubts about this relationship, and he has a lot of doubts. Even he already felt a result that it was difficult for two people to come together, so it was accompanied by a sense of loss. If there is nothing, the feeling of drifting away makes him unable to catch it.

    He is afraid that his affection will be let down by others, if he is very sincere, but the other party hides all kinds of things, which makes him very unhappy. He feels that he should be honest with each other, and without this as a foundation, there is no need for two people to come together.

    Even if it is lonely, there is nothing to be afraid of, if you choose to deceive him, you would rather choose to be alone. At least there is no distraction and no speculation. It's better to live a dull life than to deceive each other.

    So the meaning of her words on Moments is self-evident, and she has been hurt recently. Especially in the relationship, the imitation pants Buddha was deceived by others and teased. At this time, she should reflect on her own behavior, as well as the impact of the conflict and contradictions between the two sides, as well as the harm done to her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Are you busy with your own career, not enough communication, be considerate of each other, you can only sacrifice love for the sake of your career.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe your girlfriend can't fill your loneliness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A little more communication, a little more companionship won't be like this.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Is it because your girlfriend doesn't care enough about you and don't get along very much, or that neither of you is in love? /

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because your girlfriend often doesn't talk to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then you are not easy to be satisfied, it is really too much.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It may be that the relationship between two people is not very good, or they are not very communicative.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because you feel like your girlfriend doesn't love you that much, you don't have a common topic with her, and she doesn't be considerate of you. I think you can have a good communication with your girlfriend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because your loneliness is not because there is no one around you, but because your heart is not full enough, you need to find something meaningful to do to enrich your heart.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe your loneliness is not that you need someone to accompany you, but from the heart, a deep feeling of human nature, which is the loneliness that your girlfriend can't solve.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because you and your girlfriend are not really in love, you still have a certain estrangement, and you will feel that she can't understand you, so you will feel lonely.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because your girlfriend doesn't really understand you and can't empathize with what you're going through, maybe you should change to a girlfriend who understands you better.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think you really love each other, how can people who love each other make each other feel lonely, they should be eager to stick to each other every day.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Maybe she is not the girl you really want in your life, real love is sweet, warm, not lonely.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maybe you have passed the love period, and you have a certain understanding of each other, and you are no longer as excited and novel as you were in the previous love period.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Girlfriends feel especially lonely when they are alone in the dead of night. It can also feel lonely when a loved one has passed away. Women are more sensual and need more care and love.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    To explain to you this way, loneliness is a person or the mind is alone, and people who are emotionally weak will feel negative. So when you feel lonely, you are at your weakest. As for the time, I think it's a girl, then those days must be.

    It is also the case when you have difficulties at work and study. It's also possible when you're alone. As long as you have a heart, loneliness means that you don't care about her.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    When will girls feel lonely, when girls are alone, they will feel lonely when they have nothing to do, girls are very emotional, once they encounter unhappy things, they will want to find someone to talk to, at this time when their boyfriend is not around, she will feel lonely, when she sees others in and out of pairs, her boyfriend has not contacted her for a long time, at this time she will feel lonely and lonely.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you ignore her, don't see her, don't send her messages, if you just talk to your friend and ignore her, you will be lonely, remember when you walk with your friend, if she walks slowly, remember to wait for her or take her with you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Grievances at work.

    Every girl is a little princess with a glass heart, but she may have slowly become numb because of the cruelty she has experienced in society. When we encounter tricky bosses and scheming colleagues at work, we are wronged, but we can only hold back our tears, and continue this work we don't like for various reasons, it is undoubtedly the loneliest.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    A lot of the time. 1.No one to take care of you when you are sick.

    2.When you are wronged, no one complains.

    3. No one protects you when you are afraid.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When the other person's love for her decreases.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Why do you feel lonely when you have a girlfriend? Did you get a girlfriend when you were lonely? It's still lonely because the purpose of making friends with her is just to keep an eye on her loneliness!

    Just for the sake of not being alone! You don't love her, and if you love her, you won't feel lonely!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    First of all, understand that people are born lonely, no one can be fully understood by others, and accept that loneliness is the norm of life, and maybe we will not exaggerate its negative effects when facing loneliness.

    Whether you are lonely or not, it doesn't matter if you have a girlfriend or not, have you ever seen a couple who don't talk to each other and only use WeChat to communicate, do you know that when someone says "I'm sad" to their partner, their partner just looks at him with unfamiliar eyes? The so-called "supreme to the sun and the moon, the closest relatives to the estranged couple" is the same for girlfriends.

    If it's also a suggestion, do two things: 1Fill up my time effectively, and if I feel lonely, I'll read a book or watch a movie quietly with headphones on.

    2.Communicate more with your girlfriend, many problems between partners need to be solved by telling, expressing, and accepting. If affection is a flower, communication is its sunshine and rain.

    Finally, don't be afraid of loneliness, many great works are created by the author while enduring loneliness and enjoying loneliness, you feel lonely, you are thinking and enjoying the process of thinking.

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