My child has been working in other places for 10 years without contact, is it relatively low key?

It's not that you're low-key, it should be emotionally indifferent! As close relatives, children and parents should keep in touch, hutong information with each other, and care for each other, instead of not contacting for so long, so that the family affection will fade and feel that there are no relatives! You can't experience the joy of family!

I went to work in the field for ten years and did not contact. It's not a matter of being low-key, it's being more cold. There is no affection. It's not normal.

No, it's because there's some estrangement between you or you don't have a common language. He doesn't contact you, you can contact him! Keep in touch with your parents and children so they don't get rusty!

That's not low-key, that's not filial piety or that's severing the relationship, or there is no direct relationship with the family and there are considerable contradictions.

It's not low-key, and if you don't contact it for ten years, it's missing.

Most of this situation is that it is not good to mix outside, embarrassed to see your family, or it may be that you are living well and looking down on you, this situation is relatively small.

If there is not a single contact, it is not low-key. Either it's ruthless, or something happens.

I don't think so, I haven't been in touch for ten years, normal situations are impossible, are you sure nothing happened? Let's get in touch quickly. Just in case.

Are you saying that your child has been working in a field for 10 years and has not contacted you? Are you his parents? Don't you feel like you're a failure?

Such a child, why hasn't he contacted you for ten years, does he feel resentful of you? Or do you want to get out of your management?

I just didn't want to contact you, I didn't care about it, maybe I was just busy with work and didn't have time.

The girl went on a business trip, and she didn't tell me that I was low-key. What about this possible daughter, he doesn't want you to know, after all, he is already an adult, what about when he grows up? has his own independent thinking space, not to talk about anything low-key, and not to let the shirt count as nothing, and what is the publicity, he may want to experience this by himself.

He hasn't said anything about the situation abroad for more than 5 years, it doesn't necessarily mean that he is low-key, it may be that he doesn't want to communicate with his family, so he doesn't agree to say it.

You can take the initiative to talk to him, get to know him better, and care about it. After all, living alone in a foreign country is actually very isolated.

As a parent, you must hope that your child can find a decent job, these things can only be solved by himself, and it is useless for you to be in a hurry.

I've seen a real person, that is, there are men and women who go out to work together, but the woman comes back and the man has no figure, which shows that the woman has a ghost and doesn't tell the truth and divorces, after ten years, suddenly the police in the field contacted the woman, and the woman said that she didn't know, the most middle this man has a very old ID card, and found his family to know that this man went out for ten years and did not contact his family, because when he left, the family objected, and he came back with no face, and finally died** came to the notice.

Young people, who go out to work, have not come back for more than ten years, and there are two possibilities -

1.developed, settled in other places;

2.mixed badly, had no shame to see Jiangdong's father, and even died in a foreign country.

Every family has a difficult scripture to read, and the real reason is only known to their own family, as an outsider, I guess the following 1: It may be that the relationship between his children and his parents is very bad, and the family is not harmonious, so that now they have tacitly acquiesced to each other that there is no father-son relationship, that is, they have their own lives. 2：

Something may have happened to the family, such as their children are no longer there, or something has happened that they can't come back. 3: Maybe his children are engaged in some secret work, even if they come back, they are very low-key, and try to avoid the possibility of meeting outsiders.

Call the police, look for someone.

Maybe you're dead, you may not want to go back to this home, you may be in jail.

Maybe I want to be able to return to my hometown one day, but it's not too smooth outside, I don't want to go home if I don't earn money, thank you for the idea is not good, you have money and no money to go home for the New Year. It's not as good as living in your own broken home, I hope you will often go home to see, and your parents miss you at home

There is no good development outside, and I am embarrassed not to see my parents and fellow villagers.

In the tank! But it is recommended not to let the baby become a left-behind child, the young heart is easily hurt! Life is phased, the key is to do the right thing at the right time!

According to your own financial situation, it is recommended to buy a suite in a foreign city as long as it is better than it is now (if you can't do it in one step), even if it is very small, it is a home! Take your baby with you! Let's discuss it with my husband, it's important to have his support!

There are many times in life that you need to choose, and if you choose the wrong one, you may regret it for the rest of your life and do what you want to do! You can overcome the difficulties slowly! Leave for a better reunion temporarily!

family, especially when children are young.

The most important thing is the wife's opinion. Career is important, but is family and family more important? If she doesn't want you to leave and wants you to stay with her to run your family and take care of the children, you'd better respect her opinion or she'll be sad.

Although there are elderly people to help take care of the children, it does not mean that parents can ignore it. You still have to bring more of your own children. When your husband is not around, it always feels bad after a long time, but it is only two years before and after, and it depends on what your wife thinks in her heart.

You said that your family's conditions are very good, the income is considerable, and the money is inexhaustible, if there is a better opportunity in 2 years, will you go? I wish you all happiness!

Question: The children are all 10 years old.

This age is slowly becoming a bit rebellious.

Question: What if my mother goes out to work?

Mom wants to go. The answer to this depends on the father's usual sense of responsibility for the child and whether he gets along well with the child, if the father is a special person in charge of the child, it is okay to ask, isn't there a lot of mothers who go out to work after having children, the father loves the child very much, so the mother also hurts, that is, the temper is big, so the child is more dependent on the father, and the answer is that if the father belongs to the basics, there is no difference between there and not, then it is recommended that the mother take and let the father go out to work.

That's fine, no matter who you are, as long as you can take the child well.

Then my mother can go to work with confidence.

Then you have to take a good look at how much the chance of success is this time, the child should be fine, and after two years, he will still be a child, my idea is that you are still young now, so you can break through again, not necessarily for money, but also for an opportunity. But it depends on your own wishes, if your purpose is purely to make money, I don't think it's necessary, if this opportunity is very important for your future, you can consider it. But you and your wife haven't been married for a long time, and if you leave so early, she'll have a lot less fun at home alone.

I think family is still very important to a person. You need to talk to your wife about this.

Go ahead, it is better to enjoy the success of your career than to develop your career bigger, so that it is good for yourself and your family, you must not miss the opportunity, do not lose the opportunity, the secret of success is to learn to grasp the opportunity.

I guess it depends on whether your child is male or female.

If it's a man, you have to fight as a father.

Fight for the future of his son.

My wife doesn't feel the need to go, because she's afraid that you'll work too hard.

If it's a girl, then give up.

After all, although the opportunity is rare, it must also be worked on.

Besides, your family is already in very good condition.

Children are so young, you can also help your parents take care of them.

Giving others the opportunity is also forming virtues.

The parents of the child are brought, and most people will choose to develop in such a situation, and they can go home every week, what reason does a man have to give up the development of his career?

It's better not to, you think, whether the child is important or the work is important, and wait until the child is older to go.

Understand you very well.

Choose the child to lose the opportunity, choose the opportunity to lose the "child".

However, I suggest that you choose a child now, the child grows only once, and you will have many opportunities in the future.

Since the family is well-off, don't hesitate to stay for the sake of the children.

If you can come back every week, how can you call it a foreign country???

If you have such a good opportunity, you might as well go home, anyway, you can go home every week. The child can still be taken care of.

Money is more important than children! It's a lifelong thing if children don't teach well! There is still so much time for a child to learn! Look at it! It's better for the child to bring it himself, otherwise he won't kiss himself much in the future! Ay.

It's better not to, left-behind children are pitiful.

When you are a child, it would be pitiful to have fatherly love without a father.

When I was a child, my father worked every day and I couldn't see it a few times a month...

Although the living conditions are better.

But it doesn't seem to be as close to my mother.

He seems to be so far away from himself at times ...

A diaphragm handle...

I don't want to have a kid like me anymore.

I know that my dad loves me, but I still often disobey my dad...

I can come back every week, it's not called separation! I support you....I think everyone would go if they had the opportunity to do so....

Once the opportunity has passed, you won't be able to grasp it.

Men should have their own things to do, not spend the day at home.

You can't have it both ways!!

Family harmony is important.

People are tired of living, so why make yourself more tired.

It's up to you, if it's worth it, go for it.

Hello, understand your feelings, I believe that your nephews and nieces will also miss you, usually often call ** to contact, don't worry that your daughter will adapt after a while, adults first adjust their mentality, because your brother is going to live in other places, there is no banquet in the world, we have to accept the fact that we can't change, but we can keep in touch often, and we will get together during the New Year, so don't be sad, blood is thicker than water, this kind of family affection cannot be changed, very close.

Life has been sad and parting since ancient times, and there is no banquet in the world that will not be dispersed, normal.

It's normal, it's good to be apart for a while, as long as the kids remember you often.

It's nothing.

This is family affection.

It's been a long time. It's going to be fine.

After a while.

There is no such thing.

It's good to get used to it slowly.

You should go to other places not just to seek development, don't you think this is the first step in your life, like you said, rent a house alone, cook . But outside you will have more opportunities, more friends, more horizons Don't you think it's too comfortable to live in a small city The pace of the city is slow Every day I only think about three questions What to eat in the morning, what to eat at noon, what to eat at night :) I am also a person in the field Although there are unsatisfactory places in life, but it is more fulfilling If you come out for more than half a year, and you go back, I think you will also have a deep understanding of the small life in a small city, and you will see your life from beginning to end at a glance. . .

It's okay, some people are fathers and mothers who are not far away, and some people are good men who are determined to be in all directions There is no right or wrong, just a choice

Personally, I suggest that in this case, you can start a family first, and then start a business If the girl is not in the local area, then go to your own home after getting married and have a closed back, and you will not be lonely!

Look at yourself, go if you want to, exercise or exercise.

Why don't you want to fight and go to the field! I'm 24 years old, so I should learn to be independent! If you want to do this business, and you can't find the dates at home for the time being, then do you have to wait for the empty rock trails?

But it's really not easy for a girl to be alone in the field! It's all right to get used to it!