My husband died in a car accident and my in laws were at my house, and I overheard their words, what

You can choose to leave them and choose a new marriage, but you still have the obligation to support your in-laws, after all, they are also your elders

If you regret it, just say your grievances, and if you're doing the right thing, you don't need to back down.

My husband died in a car accident and my in-laws were at my house, and I overheard their words, I regret it, you should communicate with your in-laws and express your thoughts, and your in-laws should not be unkind people.

I will choose to leave her child behind, and although there may be many challenges in the future, it is a great thing to be able to raise a child alone, whether it is a boy or a girl, and I will consider raising him, giving him love and a safer family environment, and providing him with the best education and life opportunities.

1, after all, this is the only crystallization of love between you and your husband, and it is also a life that has not descended to search for the hungry world, if your husband died unexpectedly, it would be a pity to do it, and it would be cruel to strangle your own flesh and blood.

2, if the in-laws lose their only child, they should give birth to their husband's children, and the second old white-haired person is sent to the black-haired person, and he is in the abyss of pain that life is worse than death. If you can be stronger, giving birth to the child is undoubtedly a shot in the arm for the second elder, presumably breaking through the low age, but also able to pick up the burden of family life, and love your children and grandchildren's emotional intelligence unabated children's lives, there will be no problem in growing up.

3. I am still young, and the road to life in the future is still very long, for my children, if my in-laws are willing, you can also choose to stay and raise children and take care of the elderly.

4. You can find another husband who loves you and is considerate of you, reorganize the family, and have another child, you can have your own children, or you can raise the children left by your ex-husband together. Or you can choose to give birth to this child, and then find a life partner to start a family again, and you can visit the child and the two elderly people at any time in the years to come.

My husband and I were introduced to marriage three years ago and have a one-year-old daughter. At first, the two of us lived happily, but since I gave birth to a baby, my husband suspected that I was giving birth to a girl, and he became less and less concerned about me. Sometimes he would get drunk and quarrel with me.

My in-laws also treated me coldly, saying that I was a chicken that couldn't lay eggs.

He lives in the company after every quarrel, and sometimes Tu Huchang doesn't come back for a few days, and he doesn't care about the children. He opened his own small company and the business was doing well. When I married him, my sisters were very envious of me, saying that I had no worries about food and clothing in my life.

Who would have thought it would be like this? If I had given birth to a boy, it wouldn't have been like this.

That day, he came back late and drunk. We got into another argument over a trivial matter and ended up beating me. He also said that life is better than death.

After we argued for more than an hour, he slammed the door and left. Unexpectedly, he really died. When I was crossing the street, I didn't see the car coming from the opposite side because I drank too much and was hit by the car.

People were taken to the hospital in a dying state.

After taking care of my husband's funeral, I proposed to inherit his inheritance. My in-laws said no, said I was not eligible to inherit, said I had killed their son, and told me to get out of this house and not take any money. More than half a year later, they still insist that I don't have any inheritance.

I want to sue them. I asked a lawyer friend. He said, "In my case, the court may decide two cases."

One is that my husband's death has something to do with me and I have no right to inherit; One is that my husband's death has nothing to do with me, and I have the right to inherit. Now I'm also confused. Should I sue them, i.e., am I eligible to inherit?

Psychologist:

After receiving your letter, I also read the relevant law books and consulted friends in the relevant legal circles, and I think you still have the right to inherit. According to Article 7 of the Inheritance Law, if an heir commits any of the following acts, he or she shall lose the right of inheritance:

1) Intentionally killing the decedent;

2) Killing other heirs for the sake of inheritance;

3) Abandoning the decedent or abusing the decedent, where the circumstances are serious;

4) Forging, altering, or destroying a slag will, where the circumstances are serious. If none of the above four situations are suitable for you, you still have the right to inherit. It is said that the death of your husband has a certain causal relationship with you, but the accidental death caused by the conflict between the husband and wife does not belong to the legal situation of losing the right of inheritance.

Your husband's death is not something you could have foreseen, so you are still eligible to inherit.

If you can't win the case, you can take legal action. Of course, it's hard for you. You don't want to go to court with someone you love.

After all, it's your right, and you're going to fight for it. Another thing to say is that it's not your fault that you have a boy or a girl. In this era, patriarchy is preferenced.

In fact, girls and boys are the same. No matter what other people think, you just have to think that girls are the same, even better than boys.

Severance. Don't want such a mother-in-law, you should cut off relations with her to save yourself from anger.

This kind of mother-in-law should ignore her anymore, go to relatives and friends to borrow money, and treat her husband first.

What to do, what to do, leave it alone. If the child has an accident, it is also appropriate to contribute some money, if the husband and wife really don't have it, it is okay to ask the mother for a little, but it is reasonable for her not to be angry with you.

In the mother-in-law's heart, she thinks that you are an inauspicious person who killed her son, so she will kick you out. But I think this mother-in-law's idea is a bit extreme, and she should have her own judgment.

In fact, such a mother-in-law should be very selfish and mean, and should leave as soon as possible.

You have an obligation to raise your child. As long as your children are underage, you are obligated to do so, and you can also afford child support.

Parents' obligations to their children:

Parents' obligation to raise their children is unconditional, and as long as parents give birth to children, they must fulfill their obligations to raise and educate them. Article 21 of the Marriage Law stipulates that "in the event of non-performance by the parents, the minor or the child who is unable to live independently shall have the right to demand no maintenance from the parents." ”

According to Article 20 of the Supreme People's Court's Interpretation (1) on Several Issues Concerning the Application of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, "children who are unable to live independently" refer to adult children who are still receiving education at or below high school level, or who are unable to maintain a normal life due to non-subjective reasons, such as having lost or not completely lost their ability to work.

This article stipulates the time for the termination of the obligation of parents to raise their children, and the period of time when normal adult children are still receiving high school education or less, and the maintenance of abnormal health conditions shall be for life. In addition, if the child has reached the age of 16 and uses his or her labor income to support his or her normal living needs, the parents may also not pay child support.

Parents do not fulfill their maintenance obligations:

Article 44 of the "Marriage Law" stipulates the civil liability of parents who fail to perform their parenting responsibilities, and the people's court shall make a request for the abandonment of family members and the victim, and the other party may request a divorce, so if the other party files for divorce, the party who does not perform the responsibility of raising the child may be required to pay compensation.

If the act of abandonment is serious and constitutes a crime, in accordance with article 260 of the Criminal Law, where the circumstances are heinous, a sentence of up to two years imprisonment, short-term detention or controlled release is to be given. Where the crime in the preceding paragraph is committed, causing serious injury or death to the victim, a sentence of between two and seven years imprisonment is to be given.

It's been a few days apart. I've spent most of my time thinking about you, and I'm still so defeated, so vulnerable. When I was a child, I wanted to be a good student, but I ended up being a problem student in the eyes of the teacher; wanted to be a good son, but he was always beaten by his father because of various problems; Later, when Man grew up, he wanted to be a good boyfriend, and everyone saw it; I want to be a good employee, but the results are still not ideal.

There are many reasons for this, and I don't want to explain it, it's too pale and too weak to explain. Maybe I should change my name and call me Xia Yi, the one who has achieved nothing, the one who has failed, and the one who is a mess. I've laughed, cried, joyed, lost, it's good, even if there is more unwillingness, the ending is already doomed, not everyone can change their fate, I don't believe I'm one of the very few, I know that my luck is not so good, just don't regret it.

It's like that little sand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it flows; Like that transparent water, if you are in this block, it can flow away from that side.