I m confused about the future, and I m confused about my own future.

The pain of ideals and realities.

On the one hand, we are very idealistic, we want to be corporate financial directors, we have ideals and drive. But on the other hand, we are afraid of losing our current job, and it will be difficult to find our ideal job for a while. There is actually a way to solve this.

The answer is: accumulate a lot, and in the absence of victory, we must continue to accumulate. Here are some practical suggestions for you.

1: Continue to do better in your major and learn more practical things. If you want to be a financial director, then you have to learn all the knowledge that the financial director needs, which is the knowledge preparation.

2: Contact some middle and senior management of the company, at least have the opportunity to mix faces, so as to prepare for their own connections.

3: Friend prepare, you also mentioned, work, relationships are very important. So if your friend has a company, then the odds of you going to him to be the CFO are greatly increased.

4: Self-funded preparation. When you have some money, you can invest it in someone or a company, so you become a shareholder, and then you take care of the financial side, so it makes sense.

Confusion is something to explore.

Think for yourself, did you do what you should have done, didn't you do what you shouldn't?

If you don't do this, try to do it.

I'm just as confused as you are! What does the future look like? What is the difference between a human life and a pig, a sheep, a chicken, a duck, or even a grass or a tree?

Maybe we feel different ourselves, but maybe it doesn't look different in the eyes of other species? Hehe, don't think about it so much, it's almost right to deal with it.

Like many people, I had great expectations for the future and confidence in my future. But as we get older, we inevitably encounter many setbacks and difficulties. Do we let ourselves feel disappointed and regretful when we fail to achieve what we expected as children?

Personally, I think that everyone will feel and think like this, but what matters is how we face these emotions and find our own growth in them.

First of all, for many people, the dreams they have shaped in childhood may not be the most suitable path for their own family. This does not mean that our dreams are wrong, but that as we experience and grow, we continue to discover our interests and strengths, and choose a path that is more suitable for us. Therefore, let's not get caught up in our childhood dreams and trust the decisions we make now, as Mahatma Gandhi says, "Be yourself and do your best."

Second, we need to look for the causes of failure and disappointment and learn from them. On the road of life, we cannot avoid encountering setbacks and failures. However, what matters is how we face these challenges and learn from them.

Failure or disappointment can help us recognise what we need to improve and invite others to give us advice and opinions to improve ourselves even further.

Finally, we need to recognize that life is a process of continuous exploration and trial and error. There will be a lot of ups and downs and difficulties along the way, but the important thing is that along the way, you need to believe in your wisdom and courage, try to explore your own areas of interest, and keep moving towards your goals. Don't let your childhood dreams hold you back from imagination and innovation, discover and explore a better future.

In conclusion, whether we are moving forward to pursue our childhood dreams or to find our own path, we need to face every challenge and obstacle in life bravely. We should try to explore our own interests, find opportunities to improve ourselves in the process of constantly challenging ourselves and failing, and guide ourselves to become better people, which is the right direction and goal for us to continue to move forward on the road of life.