When did you feel most lonely and lost? How did you spend it?

Everyone has a time when they are lonely and confused, and the time when I am most confused should be after graduating from college and about to enter the big family of society, and there are many unknowns. At this time, there will be people in your class group who send messages every day, complaining about their work and how their company is not humane. Then the little friends who came with you, the little friends who traveled with you are full of expectations, have all found jobs, and come back from work every day to talk about this year's work, I feel that I can't fit in at all, don't say interjection, at that time I really feel that I am an outsider, very sad, and then you still face all this with a smile, and continue to nest in the rental house to submit resumes to find a job.

Occasionally, one or two will let you go to an interview, and when you receive an interview notice for the first time, don't mention how happy you are, but there is no smooth sailing, probably after experiencing more disappointments like this, you no longer have great hopes for the interview, just thinking, do your best.

Then, I really received an offer, although the salary is not very satisfactory to you, but I can finally get a job. Actually, the work is not so easy, I don't understand a lot, it's like a blank piece of paper, I don't know anything, but fortunately, the colleagues I met are very good and willing to teach me. In fact, for this job, I can't support myself, I have to get up at 6 o'clock every day, although it is 9 o'clock to start work, but during this period I have to spend time on the road, crowded roads, crowded subways, when you encounter bad weather, you still have to endure, thinking that you must not be late, this kind of thing, at this time I really feel very inspirational.

Then there was a time when I got off work very late, and there was no bus back, so I walked for half an hour to go back in order to save money, and I was tired when I went back, so I washed and went to sleep, and then I still had to get up early to go to work tomorrow morning. <>

Until one day, I worked overtime until I came back early in the morning, when I got off work and saw them go to work, I found that I was a countercurrent of office workers, it turned out that everyone worked harder than you, everyone came out to work hard, and they all worked as hard as you to stay in this city. It was at that moment that I suddenly came to my senses.

There is no most confused, only more confused! Uh, uh

Sometimes I feel so lost, I believe it, I get deceived, I don't believe it, I get loneliness.

The things that make me confused, there are so many people who are confused, why should there be one more you?

Which of your words is true? Which sentence is false?

I know that if a person cares too much about right and wrong, he will live a very tired and tired life, but I can't help but be tired, just as I can't doubt your fake heart, this world is really terrible, fake and pitiful, do you still want to fake together?

I used to be afraid of being alone, and then I used a fake smile to cater to many, many people.

Instead of being happy because of this, I lost a lot of happiness.

I don't think I'm a noisy person, I prefer a quiet stay.

Then I think of something I like, and that makes me feel happy.

I don't like the noise and companionship of pretense, I like the loneliness and tranquility of being alone.

Maybe it's the vicissitudes of mentality, or maybe it's time for people to say goodbye to the past.

I used to live humbly and sadly, but now I want to smile and live my life every day.

is still confused, catering to others, because he is afraid of lonely girls, loneliness is not terrible.

The scary thing is that you lose yourself because you are afraid of being alone.

Catering to others, joining a group that he doesn't like, but looking out of place.

In fact, enjoying loneliness is also a kind of fun, loneliness sometimes makes people sober, sometimes makes people confused, but after all, loneliness is a mood, it will come suddenly, it will also leave suddenly, sometimes chasing loneliness, it is also very fun.

I still feel lost, lonely, and out of place in this noisy world.

But I live very comfortably, very easy-going.

When I want to laugh, I can laugh out loud.

When I want to cry, I can cry out loud.

Whether it's laughing, whether it's crying, no one cares how I laugh, how I cry, no one thinks it's not good-looking, no one thinks it's not sad to cry.

And in my life, the only person I have ever met who is willing to listen to me keep saying one thing, saying that one person, only her, the person I can't give up the most, even if I am on a different path from her, but at least our hearts have always been concerned about each other, may you be well.

After I broke up with my boyfriend, I walked down the street and saw many young couples holding hands, which made me very lonely. So what do we do when we're lonely?

Loneliness is sometimes very enjoyable, sometimes it is like a flood of beasts, about to swallow people, at this time, how should single people face it?

Face loneliness, write it down, and you will understand yourself better. Loneliness is normal, and loneliness is a feeling that can never be eliminated in our lives.

If we haven't felt lonely, it's hard for us to listen to our true hearts. Every moment of loneliness is the moment closest to your true heart.

Therefore, some people who are afraid to see their own hearts will avoid loneliness. But if you want to understand yourself, this is when you can keep a journal and write down your feelings and thoughts. You can also summarize the general situations in which it is easier to feel lonely?

This way you can see what is expected within you, and you will know your needs better. We usually see all people with high emotional intelligence, and their perception is very strong.

If you also want to improve your emotional intelligence, journaling is also a good way to help us improve our perception. When you are single, you can calm down and better understand yourself, have a clear positioning and plan for life, and your future in life is bright.

Plan your life and complete your dream list.

Recently, I watched a bubble noodle drama "Wakako Wine", and I like the lifestyle of the heroine in it very much. Every day, no matter how late she left work, she had to go to a tavern to drink.

Most of the time, I am alone, and occasionally I will chat with the people who share the table, recommend and share my favorite dishes, and I will also meet with friends to eat, drink and have fun.

So, when you have something you want to do, or a dream in life that you want to achieve. When you do something more creative, energetic, and worthwhile, this loneliness is also reduced.

Can you try to recall that you always wanted to do it, but didn't do those things? For example, it can be as small as traveling to a place that you really want to go, completing an essay, finding your dream job, and starting your own company.

Write down all the things you want to do one by one, and this is your list of dreams for life. Then, you can practice, and in the process of experiencing and experiencing, you will find some life interesting, and you will feel the value of life.

When a person does a lot of things and no one can help them, they will feel that they are still very boring alone, and there is no one to share many emotions. You can only carry everything by yourself, and no one can share it.

I slept at noon, and I didn't wake up until night, at this time, I felt that the whole world had abandoned you, the world was so quiet, and I felt very lonely at this time.

Everyone will have some friends more or less when they are young, but when they grow up, most of them will drift apart and fall apart, and some of the friends who usually talk to you most familiar with may have taken root in various cities, and at this moment, they are alone in a city, working for life, but when you want to go out to relax and relax, you find that there is no one to talk to.

Loneliness is different for everyone.

It is when I am facing great pressure in society, there is no one to confide in, and I can only bear these grievances and resolve them, in this case, I will feel very lonely.

When I am wronged, I feel very lonely, I feel that no one around me trusts me, no one comforts me, so at this time, I feel very lonely and miss home.

In the big empty house, a person in front of the TV, although the TV is very loud, I still feel very lonely, I want to have someone who can accompany me, can accompany me to chat when I am lonely.

When I don't have anything to do, I feel very lonely because I'm always busy, and if I suddenly have nothing to do, I feel very bored and lonely.

When I eat in the evening, because I am already working, I usually have a tight time in the morning, and I have colleagues to eat together at noon, but when I go home in the evening, I only have myself, so I feel lonely every time I eat at night.

In fact, sometimes I am very happy when I am alone, but when you need to be accompanied and taken care of, there is no one around, at this time I will feel very lonely and aggrieved. <>

When I first entered the university, I felt the most lonely, because the university was far away from my home, I didn't have my own friends, I didn't know anyone, I didn't know anyone, I didn't know my life, and I was a very introverted person, so I often felt lonely. <>

I feel very lonely in the dead of night, because I am alone in the dead of night, and my brain thinks a lot when it is resting, so I feel lonely at that time.