When is it most likely to feel lonely?

Helplessness and confusion.

When there are no loved ones.

When do people feel lonely? I once asked this question in Zhihu, and another blogger said like this, he said: The deepest loneliness is that you have a lot of relatives and friends, and you have a good relationship with lovers, who have accompanied you for many years, but you suddenly find that they don't understand you at all, they are all your closest people, but they never really understand your thoughts and hearts.

Yes, there are so many people, but there is no one who understands your heart, no one understands the real you, you have you know the real you, a lonely existence, no one says to her: "Hello, the real so-and-so." ”

I didn't know what to say at the time, so I silently nodded a thumbs up. Looking at it again today, that circle of friends has been deleted.

We want to show our hearts, that someone will understand us, but we are ashamed to express it.

In fact, the loneliest time is not alone, but a group of people together, and you are just one person.

If you are the lonely person, then I wish you an early meeting of the person who understands you.

Sitting quietly in a person's huge ** business villa, all the household items should be had, very complete, and specially for our company's market mentor to have here.

Flipping through the book "The Method of Happiness", my intuition tells me that this book is not my favorite type, the professional theory is too strong, and the most important thing is that I feel that my happiness is not weak, relatively speaking, I feel that I am a very contented person.

Because of contentment, I am always grateful for everything, for the people I have met, and for the things I have experienced, which have made me grow faster and better. Being a grateful person is my greatest gift to my life.

But at some point, I was overshadowed by a sudden and intense sense of loneliness, intense, helpless, and sad.

For example, here and now.

I carefully analyzed my psychological process and found that this loneliness was due to an emotion after I opened Alipay and paid off Huabei.

Therefore, when I finished paying off Huabei, I clicked on the bank card to check the balance, and a strong sense of loss swept over. Moonlight = moonshine [high consumption]; Internship for 1 year = zero savings = debt [low income]. Am I expecting too much from myself, and my earning power can't support my spending power?

The standard of living and lifestyle have changed with the improvement of the economic level, the level of consumption has risen sharply, coupled with the thinking of not knowing how to manage money, and the incorrect concept of consumption, so that I can always keep money - it can be said"Loser"。

At this moment, I am in the midst of an unnamed sadness, and a strong sense of loneliness surrounds me unbridledly.

Since the beginning of college, I have been talking every day: I want to become a rich woman as soon as possible and go to the bright road of making a fortune! Speaking of which, I was still defeated by my own shriveled wallet.

The economic foundation determines the superstructure, when a person's basic food and clothing can not be realized, the time and energy to come? **To the capital to go for recreation?

When I used to read tourism, I had a strong sense of mission: I want to make tourism a patent that even the poor can have! Later, when I was traveling, I realized how much I used to swear, and how naïve and naïve and lost I am now!

One point ** section of quality, low-price shopping groups are really boring, it is not interesting to be complained, and bargaining with sales is even more boring. It's not that the poor can't travel, but the poor go to travel with a group, and the experience will not be very good. Nowadays, traditional travel agencies with group tours are basically a sightseeing tour.

In-depth tours are in the minority, the ** of high-quality groups is very high, and if you want cheap and high-quality groups, there is no such thing.

As "I Am Not the God of Medicine" said: There is only one disease in this world, and that is the disease of poverty, and there is no rule of law for this disease.

Everyone said that it was good to do tourism, you could make a lot of money, and you could go around for free to play ......That's good, so why don't you do it?

Suddenly I felt more lonely, not a peer, unable to be at the same frequency, unable to resonate, unable to produce sparks of thought.

You're so lonely, what should you do?

Work hard to make money, make enough money, have more freedom of choice, don't think about money for what you want to buy, don't think about time when you want to go, and don't need to look at the days if you want to see people, will you still be lonely?

When does a person feel the loneliest, when a person is being hit, framed, and has nowhere to tell, he can only solve it by himself, but this is not the loneliest, the deepest loneliness, is that you have a lot of relatives and friends, and have very good lovers, they have accompanied you for many years, but you suddenly find that they don't understand you at all, they are all your closest people, but they never really understand your thoughts and hearts.

At this time, you will feel that you are alone in this world, and you will not even have the idea of breaking free and asking for help, which is the time when a person feels the loneliest.

When the Chinese New Year is celebrated, you are in a foreign land, and the sleepless nights are the loneliest.

When a person is hit, frustrated, or failing, he is most likely to feel lonely, and at this time, he especially hopes to have someone by his side to give him warmth.

When you are alone in a foreign land, you can't sleep alone. Or when no one understands.

Personally, I think it's the loneliest thing in the dead of night.

Losing a loved one or sleeping alone at night. The most important thing is what you think, not what others say.

Go to bed at night, especially when you wake up.