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also take into account his emotions appropriately, let him have the opportunity to express himself, and then give him some praise appropriately. Inadvertent compliments can make him feel a lot better. Anything is negotiable.
What kind of people we face, what kind of communication methods do we have to use, this kind of people just say that they have a strong desire to prove, that does not mean that there is a problem with their personality. It's just a unique character of theirs, and respecting his character and soothing it properly can make <>
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When we are dealing with such people, we must pay attention to the following:
1. Adjust your mentality and lower your status, so that you can get along better with such people.
2. Pay attention to your own language and don't be too arrogant, so that it will be easier to get along with others, and others will be willing to believe in you more.
3. Pay attention to your makeup, it is best to focus on light makeup, which will give people a much better feeling, and the overall temperament will also be significantly improved. <>
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1. Face others with a firm and calm attitude: People who are too strong, they never disdain to get along with a cowardly person, and it is impossible to give colleagues who show weakness everywhere a little chance to survive, so they face a person who has a strong desire to prove himself. Please show your posture and let the other party know that you are a person who will not deliberately pick thorns but is definitely not afraid of picking thorns, when your calmness and ability and spirit come out, the other party will naturally be afraid of a few points.
2. The enemy is strong and I retreat: self-proof is naturally indispensable for many coups, when we have conflicts with them. It is enough for us to take a backward stance and avoid greater contradictions. <>
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A person who has a strong desire for self-proof indicates that he is insecure in his heart, so he wants to be recognized by others. When dealing with such people, you have to pay attention to some strategies.
First of all, you must lower your figure, don't show your edge, be more tolerant of him, and give him some opportunities to show himself. And give him more recognition, encourage him, and give him a lot of respect.
Secondly, when you speak, you should be tactful and save face for the other party. Don't show your heart in any way, leave the best for the other person and let him feel your sincerity.
Finally, in the event of a conflict with the other party, learn to be silent and leave the last chance to speak to the other party. If he says more, it won't prove anything. If you say less, it won't prove anything. But this will allow you to live in peace.
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My cousin is such a person, very arrogant, she can't tolerate others talking about her, she always likes to show her advantages, and others praise her, so they laugh haha.
I don't work against her for her kind of character, and I have always responded and praised her in a low-key manner, showing that I care about her very much, and I am very interested in her affairs.
She would feel that I was very easy-going, and she always treated me as a confidant to me, and sometimes she would help me with others. ......
For such people, if you want to get along with them, you can only be soft, do what they like, keep a low profile, and strive to enter their hearts. <>
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A strong desire to prove himself shows that he has no bottom in his heart at all, and he is particularly selfish, and he needs to keep his distance from such a person and try to avoid conflict with him, because they are extremely insecure and will find a way to win this game, so my advice is to keep a distance and not go too close and not too far.
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