Is it reasonable for my current wife s daughter and my daughter to go to college at the same time, a

Reasonable! She only cares about her own daughter, and you can care about her daughter! It's fair to each of them to take care of their daughters.

If you're both AA, that's reasonable. But if the money is used together, even if her income is much higher than yours, and your income is only 2,000, it is unreasonable (don't be in a hurry to object, the following is for the opponent: if the man's income is high, and the woman's income is only 2,000, is it reasonable that he does not provide for the woman's daughter?). ）

Since you have chosen, there is no reasonableness, and the most reasonable thing is that you will come out of both.

You provide for you, she provides for her, there is nothing reasonable and unreasonable, and you are not without money.

You didn't make it clear at all, if your money is given to your current wife, she is unwilling to pay for your daughter and only take care of her own children, it is really unreasonable, but you don't pay a penny, just thinking about letting the current one raise someone else, it's very reasonable, saying that all adults are the best children on each network!

Unreasonable, you also have the right to **!!

It's too reasonable, unless you want to eat soft rice and feel justified.

If you get married and discuss the AA system, then your wife has no problem doing it, if not, the money is for joint consumption, then your wife is too much, you are a father, and you don't need to be told how to do it.

Isn't this normal, you must be asking this way to think that she also provides for your children, which reflects your incompetence and selfishness from the side.

Isn't it normal for you to provide for your daughter, and for your ex-wife to provide for her own daughter? I haven't seen your ex-wife's daughter either. People who are not related by blood, it is their duty to provide for your daughter. Do you still want moral kidnapping or what?

Are you dead? It's normal to reorganize the family and raise their own cubs!

Then you have to think about why you don't provide for your wife's daughter and your own daughter.

It's good to take care of your own children, why should your stepmother take care of your children.

That is, you are only for you!

Have you lived in the AA system, didn't you leave another day, treat you as a donkey, and you will wait for the day when you unload the mill and kill the donkey.

Why don't you help her provide for her daughter?

I think most netizens have a very positive outlook, which is really good.

Regarding the second marriage, this is a difficult thing to deal with in itself, and both parties have their own children in the second marriage, so there will naturally be more contradictions and places that need to be run-in. Once long-term interests and conditions are involved, then one party in the second marriage will naturally have reservations, and the wife only provides for her daughter to go to college, which may be biased but understandable.

1. In a second-married family where the wife only provides for her daughter to go to college, both husband and wife have their own daughters, and both daughters are admitted to college, while the wife only provides for her daughters to go to school, but does not care about her husband's daughters. Then as a husband, he must be very dissatisfied with this matter. Thinks that the wife is selfish and biased, and only thinks about her daughter and does not think about her husband's daughter.

But in fact, people are selfish, it is instinctive to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, as a wife, if she doesn't even love her own children, how can she love other people's children. And she didn't provide for her daughter to go to college, but went to college for the daughter born to her husband and ex-wife, which is unreasonable. If her own daughter did not go to university, she still did not allow her husband's daughter to go to college in this situation, which is problematic.

People love their children, because wives don't provide for their daughters to go to college, and husbands have a psychological imbalance, because husbands love their daughters and want their daughters to be treated equally. In other words, in the husband's heart, the two daughters are also different, and it is obvious that the husband is more considerate of his daughter.

2. If the wife provides for her daughter to go to college, then the husband can also provide for his daughter to go to college, and since the husband cannot ask his ex-wife to provide for his daughter to go to college, he can make his own money for his daughter to go to college. The ex-wife only paid for her daughter's education, and did not say that her husband was not allowed to provide for his daughter's education. Since the wife has chosen to provide for her daughter, the husband can also choose to provide for her daughter's education.

To be honest, the cost of college is quite large, although the tuition of a good university is not expensive, but the cost of daily life is unavoidable. It is true that a sum of money is still needed to provide for a college student, so it is understandable for a wife to choose to be selfish and provide for her daughter first.

3. If you can't treat everyone equally, then you can't ask the other party not to favor her children when this kind of thing happens, sometimes the husband has to learn to communicate with his wife, and he can't be rash. And there must be a reason why the wife did this, and if the husband did not treat the two daughters equally in his daily life, then what right did the husband have to ask his wife to do this?

And the husband also has to learn to communicate with his wife, after all, the children have been admitted to college, and they still have to be sent. At this time, the husband's speech is very important, learn to understand the other person's concerns, and come up with ideas and ways to solve the concerns, so that you can reach a reasonable consensus with your wife about the child's education.

If you communicate with your wife, and the other party still says that she will only send her daughter to college, then there is no need to say much as a husband. I can only endure more hardships and earn more money, and find a way to send my daughter to college.

This is your own business, and you should have taken this issue into account when you remarried, and your respective daughters will be responsible for each other.

In fact, you can provide for your daughter, although it may increase the burden, but you can't go to school first because of choking.

Well, it's true that you have a problem with your own education.

First, you interfere in your son's marital life. It's not a feudal society anymore, and when a son gets married, who he marries is a matter of the two of them, and the parents can only make a reference, but it's not right for you to interfere in other people's marriages, at least in modern society, it's a crime. There are provisions in this marriage law.

Second, you interfere with your daughter's right to education. In modern society, both boys and girls are born, and even the status of women has a tendency to be higher than that of men. You deprive your daughter of her right to education, which is another crime.

In fact, it is not that reading books is useless, reading books well can be converted into money, and reading books well can earn tens of thousands of yuan or hundreds of thousands of dollars a month.

In short, it is some of your wrong and old ideas that have led to the situation you said, which directly ruined the happy life of your daughter and son, and of course I have to blame you. The solution is to stop interfering immediately and try to make up for it.

You deserve it. These days, you don't know how hard it is to find a girlfriend now, let alone a wife. Don't read to your daughter, do you know, reading is very useful for a person, not only to make money, but also to cultivate personal temperament, character, and connotation. It's no wonder I don't hate you.

What you are doing is wrong and should be reflected on and corrected.