What should I do if a girl refuses, and what should I do if I am rejected by a girl?

That's right, you're just too anxious, if you meet and she accepts you the next day, don't you think she's not casual? In this way, you promise her that it will not change???

So all you have to do now is.

1. Relax your mind and get along with her with the mentality of a friend, and you will not go wrong.

2。Communicate with her more often, and express yourself appropriately in words and deeds.

3.Give her the feeling of dependence and that you are worthy of her choice (this is important, but behave naturally and in moderation)4Of course, movies can be dated, and it's her business whether to go or not, but the key is that you have to make an appointment naturally, naturally like a friend, so you have to do what 1 said.

Maintain the mindset of a friend, there is no desire to gain, there is no heartache to lose. A normal mind will make you play beyond the norm.

The second time we met, I confessed that I was too anxious! And now you look like this, you are still wrong again and again. Don't always interpret her kindness and friendship with you as a hint to you, self-inflicted affection will put you in a quagmire from which you can't extricate yourself.

You may wish to treat yourself as a third party when you are in a relationship with her, and trust that you will see the truth of the facts.

Then forget it ... Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.

She might really just think of you as a friend.

If you can be friends, you can pretend to be a friend first, and then confess again later.

Falling in love is never a person's business, so when you confess and are rejected by the other party, this does not necessarily announce the end of the relationship, don't rush to draw a rest. So, how do you deal with this relationship?

1. Don't be in a hurry to break off the relationship.

In fact, some romances in life start with rejection, so when you are rejected, don't rush to break or give up the relationship.

After rejection, the first thing you have to do is to figure out the reason for the rejection, whether it is because your impatient personality is causing pressure on the other party, or because your relationship is not yet in the heat of that official relationship.

However, no matter what, when you are rejected, you must first understand the reason and don't give up easily. If this rejection is just because your relationship is not hot enough to start a relationship, then you might as well give each other more time together, and maybe next time you can keep the clouds open and see the sunrise.

2. Confession needs to be sincere, don't use jokes to hide your inner fear of failure.

Boys love face, so they are always worried that they will lose face if they are rejected, so they habitually use jokes to indirectly express their true feelings, thinking in their hearts that if Zhichi fails, it can be said that it is just a joke with the other party.

However, you never thought that this kind of tongue-in-cheek confession would give the other party a casual and insincere feeling, and if the other party is a careful and cautious girl, then they will definitely reject you.

Therefore, when a boy confesses, it is better to be sincere and not too casual. If this still fails, then it comes down to the first point, don't be in a hurry to give up, after all, people will change, and if you don't feel anything at this stage, it doesn't mean that you will always be without feelings in the future.

3. Calmly and maturely face failure.

After being rejected, you seriously reflect and understand the reasons for the failure, and find that the other party really just treats you as a friend, then you don't have to be sad and sad, and you don't need to "self-deprecating", because love can never be obtained by force.

At this time, what you have to do is to face up to this relationship, summarize the reasons for failure, don't let negative emotions plague life, take this failure as a kind of learning, and be able to grasp the opportunity more confidently and find your own unique love.