What s the happiest thing about it? Be realistic

What is the happiest thing to get married? The natural responsibility is over, and it is the first joy in life. As the old saying goes, "relieved"; As the saying goes, "A stone in the heart falls to the ground."

At this time, the kind of relaxation and happiness that people can not be described in words. The greater the responsibility, the longer the days of responsibility, and when the responsibility is over, the sea and the sky are open, and the heart is at ease, and the happiness will be multiplied. In most of the world, the happiness obtained from suffering is true happiness, and life must know the suffering of responsibility, in order to know the happiness of responsibility.

This cycle of bitterness and happiness is a kind of fun in this dynamic world. But he did not fulfill his responsibilities and was reproached by his conscience, and these sufferings were all brought on by himself. As soon as you turn it over, you will be happy everywhere if you fulfill your responsibilities everywhere; Always be responsible, always happy.

The right to be happy is up to you. Confucius said that "there is no self-satisfaction without entering", which is precisely this effect. But why did Mencius say that "a gentleman has lifelong worries"?

Because the more sages and heroes he is, the greater his responsibilities are; And he often has to take all kinds of responsibilities on his shoulders, and the burden on his shoulders has never been put down. Zeng Zi also said: "There is a long way to go......Death is gone, isn't it far away?

The benevolence and the people with lofty ideals who worry about the people and the country, the saints and Buddhas who are sad and compassionate, even if he feels pain all his life, can do it. But he did his duty there every day, and he was there every day to find true happiness in suffering. So he is still happy in the end, not bitter.

Someone said, "Since this suffering is born from responsibility, if I remove it, will there never be suffering?" This is not the case.

The responsibility is not there until it is relieved, not that it is not discharged. If life can always be like a two- or three-year-old child, there is no responsibility, then there is no suffering. When you grow up, the responsibility naturally falls on your head, how can you hide?

But there is a big difference. If you fulfill great responsibilities, you will have great happiness; If you do a small responsibility, you will have a small happiness. If you want to hide, you will throw yourself into the sea of misery, and you will never be able to lift it.

It varies from person to person, in short, achieving one's ideal is the happiest and happiest.

Do what you love and you'll be happy.

The happiest time in this life is when you get what you want after you work hard.

The happiest things in my life, the few things that I will never forget, when I was a child, I would go to the ship every summer vacation, watching my father's handsome appearance at the helm in the cockpit during the day, lying on the deck at night, and I could still see a lot of stars in the night sky at that time, and the waves crashing against the boat and swaying. It was probably the most carefree and happiest time I can remember.

The happiest moment in my life was when I had a fever for several days in elementary school, and my father asked me where I wanted to go, and I said I wanted to go to the zoo. But after school and Zhongshan Park got off work, my dad stuffed me through the iron gate fence into the zoo, and asked him why he didn't come with me. Dad said he couldn't get in.

So I went to see the smelly bears, tigers and vultures by myself, and I was scared to goosebumps, and when I came out, my father picked a lot of mulberries for me, and held them in his hand, and then took me to eat sweet and sour fish and Mao Xuewang. I'm the only one who has seen ferocious animals at the zoo, and I'm alone! It's awesome!

When I was a child, my grandmother raised a few rabbits on the balcony and planted loofahs. Every morning, I would feed the rabbits, pet the loofah, and ask my grandmother, can I eat the loofah today? Grandma teases me :

The loofah is not ripe and cannot be eaten, but it can be eaten by rabbits. "I was so scared that I cried. In the evening, my grandmother would hold me to watch a TV series, and I always hoped that the TV would continue to broadcast the next episode, and that it would never be time for my grandfather to come and call for bedtime.

The sounds and smells of these memories still warm me. Peace of mind.

And my husband proposed to me. On an ordinary Monday, after work, we went out to eat seafood dumplings together, took a walk and talked about life, and then went home. I opened the door and found that the house was decorated with a lot of letters and pink hearts, and as soon as I turned around and my husband proposed to me with pink roses and rings, I started crying all the time, saying, "Oh my God, I knew I should have worn that new red dress today."

The happiest moment in my memory was my first kiss with you. We stand under a big old tree, you look at me tenderly, and I shyly avoid your eyes. It is the purest love without any distractions.

At that moment, I felt very happy and felt the joy of being with him.

There are many things in life that make me feel the happiest, but there is one thing that I will never forget.

When I bought a house a few years ago, all my savings were given to my husband to pay for the house, and I only had 500 yuan in my bank card for living expenses.

I'm not afraid of your jokes, I can't even get the money to sweep the tomb of my in-laws on the Qingming Festival. A few days before the Qingming Festival, I have been struggling with how to be good. At this urgent moment, about two days before the Qingming Festival, I suddenly saw 9,000 yuan in my bank card.

It was a big surprise, and I was dancing with joy, and my heart was so excited that I couldn't even sleep.

The next day, I packed up a change of clothes, bought a ticket and set off.

That's the happiest thing in my life! When you need money urgently, there is a sum of money that can be credited to your bank card in time.

The happiest thing in life is that my parents are alive and well, my relatives are safe, and my life is dull and there are few waves.

I think the definition of happiness changes as we get older. If I had been asked this question before, I would have been happy to realize my own worth or to achieve material satisfaction, but now I would only like to experience the quiet years in ordinary days.

Since elementary school, I have had too many relatives around me who have passed away one after another, and in the face of this situation, I have no choice but to cry to vent the pain in my heart.

My grandfather died of cancer in the sixth grade of elementary school. At that time, his death was quite painful, he did not eat a drop of water for several days, and he was already delirious when he died.

He was one of the relatives who loved me the most since I was a child, he taught me to read, write, and practice calligraphy; Teach me how to be a human being; Accompany me to get to know this world full of unknowns. So much so that now I have a lot of ideas that are influenced by him.

But when he needed my help, I couldn't do anything but cry helplessly, and then watched as he lost his vital signs.

I don't want to go through the pain of my loved ones leaving me anymore, so what I'm happiest about now is being able to live a dull life with my family.

1.At work, when you can do your best to do what you promise, and you can refuse what you refuse without pressure;

2.In life, you can eat if you want to eat, and you can buy if you want;

3.Emotionally, I don't regret my choice.

In general, don't leave regrets, you only have one life, find your comfort zone, and be happy to be yourself.

Everything that makes me feel motivated makes me happy.

In other words, everything that is interesting, everything that piques my interest makes me happy.

When I was younger, I could be alone at home reading a book and forgetting to eat, seeing that it was getting dark, seeing that I had forgotten time and feeling, and this thing just made me very happy.

Now I can't read a book like I did when I was a child, because I can't concentrate on it for a long time.

But just one thing that keeps me fully focused, whatever it is, whether it's gratuitous or paid, makes me tremble with pleasure.

Sometimes there are several projects and a bunch of bugs, but the more I do it, the more excited I become, and although work doesn't make people happy, I am happy when I have something to do. It excites me more than sitting idly when I'm not working.