What does my boyfriend mean when he says he still loves me and just doesn t want to be with me?

In fact, it seems to me that the meaning is already very clear and obvious. He just doesn't like you anymore, wants to break up with you, and doesn't want to be with you. As a man, from his own point of view, no boy would be unwilling to be with the girl he likes (except for special circumstances, of course, but that is mostly a bloody plot only in TV dramas).

The reason why he said that he still loves you is only to give himself a high-sounding reason to break up with you.

My college roommate, a very handsome young man, his love is probably what you said, but the hero and heroine are reversed. I remember that he was very fond of a little girl at that time, so to speak, and it can be said that he changed his whole self for that girl, just to better cater to his criteria for choosing a mate for this girl.

Later, the two of them developed into a couple and began their love career, but it was also a tragic experience. This boy seems to be pleasing this girl in love, and he is always submissive, and he doesn't even dare to gasp. This also caused the girl to become more and more arrogant, self-righteous, and even began to look down on the boy.

After a long time, this girl ignored my roommate. Eventually, she and my roommate broke up. The reason for the breakup is that I still love you, but we are not suitable and cannot be together.

As a result, my roommate stupidly thought that he was not doing well and wanted to correct it. But no matter what he did, the girl rejected him.

On the day when we felt hopeless, we drank a lot of beer with our roommates, and a few young lads talked a lot together. The roommate cried and said that he had paid too much for this relationship, but he didn't expect it to be such a result. We comforted him, but it didn't seem to have much effect, so the brothers drank together, and that was by far the most drunk.

Looking at his appearance, he was very distressed, but he was helpless.

Life is like that, like to joke with you from time to time. But friend, you have to believe that there are only those in this world who can't afford to let go, and the tide of time will eventually wipe out the initial throbbing, leaving only a brief blush and heartbeat.

It means that the two of you have great differences in their views and living habits, and although he loves you, he only has endless quarrels with you. Therefore he does not want to be with you.

Such a man is very attentive, wants to possess you, but does not want to be responsible, this is what it means, so such a man is unreliable.

Maybe you hurt his heart too much, even if he loves you again, he doesn't dare to be with you, he's afraid that he will be hurt by you again. So he loves you, but he won't be with you anymore.

Is this kind of non-breakup and kept for the New Year? Why do you still love me but can't be with me? He's clearly trying to break up with you, but it's nice to say, decent.

In a relationship, as a boy, there are always many factors to consider before you can make up your mind to be together. Your boyfriend says he still loves you, but he doesn't want to be with you, I think there are several reasons:

Strong economic strength is the greatest confidence for a man to fall in love. As a boy, even if he loves a girl very much, if his economic conditions are not good and he can't provide security for the lives of two people, it is easy to retreat and choose not to be with a girl. Because as a boy, he naturally has a sense of responsibility, to be responsible for the people he loves, and to give good material living conditions for the people he loves.

Just think of a sentence that we often said when we were students: "The most desperate thing as a boy is that at the most powerless age, I meet the girl who wants to take care of her life the most." "So even if your boyfriend still loves you, if he feels that he is not capable of giving you happiness and has no way to take care of you, it is easy to have an inferiority complex, and in order to avoid delaying your happiness, even if he still loves you, he is not willing to be with you.

From being together to getting married, it is not only a matter of two people's affection, but also a matter of two families. If your boyfriend's elders don't agree with your relationship, even if your boyfriend loves you, he won't be with you. After all, there is a good saying, filial piety comes first.

Especially if your boyfriend is a good baby who has been obedient to his parents and elders since he was a child, then it is impossible for him not to listen to the words of the elders in the family. may be forced by the pressure and arrangement of the family, even if you still love you, you can only bear to let go, sometimes the right is often more important than the like. This could also be the reason why your boyfriend still loves you but doesn't choose to be with you.

When boys reach the age when they should get married, they tend to consider more and more comprehensive factors than girls. Not just ask yourself whether you like it or not, but also consider all aspects, such as your financial strength, family situation, etc.

The specific factors are still different from person to person, so you should have an honest conversation with your boyfriend.

If your boyfriend says he loves you but doesn't want to be with you, there may be some reason, and it is also possible that he says that he loves you against his will, so think about it.

This may be because your boyfriend feels that after weighing the pros and cons, he thinks that you are not the best choice for him, so he is reluctant to stay with you.

It's because there is a problem between the two of you that your boyfriend will choose to leave you and start a new life.

I should think that I still mind it in my heart, and I will think of some things that happened before, and there is no way to let this relationship into it again.

Your boyfriend said that he still loves you, but he doesn't want to be with you, maybe for other reasons, he has to choose to break up with you, maybe this sentence is just a perfunctory.

Brother he loves you very much, but he can't be with you anymore, because he has his own responsibilities or there are conflicts between you that can't be resolved, because this world is not simple, only love.

If your boyfriend keeps saying that he loves you very much, I think it's important to distinguish whether he just uses words to express his love for you, or whether he will take action to express his love.

If your boyfriend is just talking about how he loves you all the time, but you don't feel that he loves you in action, then he doesn't want to marry you at all, maybe it's just playing.

If your boyfriend doesn't just talk about love, you also take special care of you, protect you, and tolerate you in the usual process of getting along, then if you haven't mentioned marriage, I think maybe he may not be able to take care of you financially now, maybe your boyfriend wants to wait until his career is stable, and then talk about marriage.

I think what you need to understand clearly is whether your boyfriend doesn't want to marry you, or doesn't want to marry you for the time being, this is actually very important, if it is purely not wanting to marry you, then he is not ready to marry at all, and it is possible that he does not see you as the object he can marry at all.

Then my words actually think you should also think about what step the relationship between the two of you has developed now, and then whether the work of the two people is in a stable state, if this is the state, in fact, you can talk to your boyfriend about the topic of marriage.

Moreover, you must first meet your parents before you talk about getting married, if you have already met both parents, then it depends on the attitude of the other party's parents towards you, sometimes, maybe the boyfriend may be more difficult because of the parents.

Marriage is a matter of two people, it is very important, both people feel that they can get married only when they can get married, and I think as a girl, don't keep urging the topic of marriage, you talk to him about this topic once, and it is enough to understand his true thoughts in his heart, and then it depends on whether you continue to choose to wait for him or leave.

It is possible that what he says about loving you is just a perfunctory, and many times what a man says is insincere, and he is unwilling to marry you, which is the best proof that he can't give you a name and a sense of security.

Maybe he wants to find a better girlfriend, but he just wants to use words to perfunctory you and temporarily comfort your emotions, so when this happens, you must choose to separate in time.

Maybe it's because he's just talking about it, and if he doesn't mean to marry you, then there's no need to continue.

This is because the boyfriend is more afraid of marriage, and the family is not in a hurry and does not urge him, so he doesn't want to get married, he just wants to fall in love.

Maybe he doesn't want to be restrained so quickly, it's a lot of fun, although he loves you, but he doesn't want to give up the whole forest because of you.

It shows that I still don't love you, and I'd rather believe that there are ghosts in the world than believe in men's broken mouths.