I don t like him on a blind date, but my family likes him, should I be with him?

If you are not satisfied with your blind date, but your family is satisfied, then you should not be with him either.

What age is this, this is no longer the era of the past when the parents ordered the matchmaker's words, we should fully control our own destiny and future, especially such a major event as marriage, which is related to the happiness of the second half of your life, and it is not your family but yourself who lives with that person, so you should choose the object according to your own wishes.

Men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man

For a woman, what kind of man she marries is directly related to her happy life in the second half of her life, so at this time you can still choose, you must choose a person you like, as for the opinions of the family, I think you can use it as a reference, but you can't choose according to their will.

There is only one life in life, youth is very short, and the most precious time for a girl is in the period when you are 20 or 30 years old, if you dedicate this time to someone you don't love, then this life is really a loss.

No one else can take responsibility for your life

We should hold our destiny in our own hands, instead of living according to the will of others, even if our parents like them, even if your family thinks he is suitable, this does not represent your own heart.

When choosing a marriage partner, you must choose one that satisfies you, and it must be a person who pleases your eyes, just imagine how sad it is to face a person you don't like for the rest of your life.

People only have one life, but we use such a only life to face a person who has no feelings, and we don't panic?

If you are not satisfied with yourself, but your family is satisfied, then this man is a suitable person to marry. But you may feel a little uncomfortable inside. Besides, blind date is just a way to get to know boys, and it still takes the next time to communicate, communicate, and get along with each other in order to discover and find the most real each other.

I think you need to think about what your family thinks. If you are really reluctant to accept him, even if the family likes you very much, you can't force it to agree. Follow your heart.

I don't think so, after all, it's you, not your family, who will spend your life with him in the future. It's up to you to decide. But the family's point of view is also very important, after all, they have a lot of experience.

Don't be with him, your family likes it and it's not them who are with him, it's you who wants to live with him for the rest of your life, so don't be with him if you don't like it.

I think that emotional problems should follow your heart. Although the opinions of parents and theirs can be used as a reference, the most important thing is to listen to your own ideas.

I think you have to live with him for the rest of your life, and you don't have to be influenced by your family's opinions early, and you go according to your own heart.

Are you talking about me, you blocked me 3 times in half a month, and then added it back, was it forced by your parents, if you don't want to, you can tell your parents, I won't force you, I like you and you don't like me.

Personally, I think that when you encounter this situation, then follow your heart. If there is a conflict in the future, your family will say that it is your own choice, so the opinion of your family is a reference, and what you like is the most important.

Regardless of men and women, when they reach a certain age but have no object, the family will urge, and arrange a blind date, arrange what they are satisfied with, and think that it is suitable for you, and will not consider whether you like it, the personality of the two, and whether the three views are compatible。In the eyes of parents, they feel that feelings can be accumulated slowly, and they will not pay too much attention to the feelings we pay attention to. But there is no doubt that the parents' starting point is for our good, but their so-called way is what they think.

I think that if you really don't feel suitable or disliked, don't settle for it, after all, two people have to live for a lifetime.

If you don't like it, don't care how much pressure you have, don't care how many people obstruct it, you must tell each other that we are not suitable, and we must not be together。Because the people who will live in the future are the two of you, from the beginning of the unwillingness, in the future firewood, rice, oil and salt will be infinitely amplified, and the contradiction will become deeper and deeper. If the other party is a person who loves you very much and can tolerate you for a lifetime, then you can be together, otherwise you have to make a decision immediately.

Whether the shoes fit or not only the feet know, the shoes are small and the legs tell the feet to wear a few days to support it, and after a few days the feet are worn out and the shoes are broken.

Feelings can't be child's play, and if you take it as child's play, it will turn you into a complete lunatic。There is only endless hysteria every day, and because I don't like it, everything is a problem, from the distribution of property between two people to the small of eating and farting. Every trivial matter of life will torture you to death, so you can't be emotionally charged with others, how to handle it specifically, or rely on yourself, don't weigh the pros and cons, because feelings have no interests at all, and feelings with interests are called equivalent exchange.

We are all adults, and we all have to be warm and kind people. If you go on a blind date, if the other party is not the type of disgust, but it doesn't feel enough, you might as well sincerely date the other party for a while, anyway, what you think in your heart, you can tell him directly. For example, I think you're a good person, but it's not to the extent that it makes me feel like a friend at first sight.

I don't know what will happen in the future, if you want, we can date for a while, we will know each other for a period of time to see if it is appropriate, if one of us does not want to interact with each other in the future, we have to tell each other directly in time, okay?

I will tell my parents directly, I don't like him, and the two of them are not suitable, and tell my parents that there is no need to hide it, and that your parents will carry it for you if there is anything.

Tell your parents directly, I don't think this person is suitable for me, he is not good at all, and then that's why you don't like it, just put it bluntly, no one will force you to get married.

You can directly confess to your parents, this is a lifelong event, you can't be ambiguous, since you don't like it, your parents won't force you to get married.

Just say that you don't like each other, or tell your parents about each other's shortcomings, and your parents will generally not wronged you.

Frankly speaking, because your parents are on your side, tell them the reason why you don't like it, and your parents won't understand you.

The object of the blind date, if you don't like it, then you don't like him, which aspects may you already have this fixed number in your heart, then tell your parents, then say it directly, let them understand you.

I would tell my parents that after a period of contact, I felt that the two of us had no common topics with each other, and in terms of personality and living habits, they were not very suitable, and in order to avoid being together in the future, they would be separated, so I decided not to continue to interact with each other, and I didn't feel it.

If you don't like it, tell your parents that you don't like it, and your parents won't force it.

I would tell my parents that I didn't like him somewhere and that he didn't fit in with my personality, so I didn't like it.

If you are married, it is your own, and you will accompany you for a lifetime, if you are not happy, then you must refuse, I believe that if you talk to your parents like this, he will definitely agree.

It can be said bluntly, because blind date does not mean that two people must be together, and there is no need to force them to be together, after all, marriage is two people living together or thinking about themselves.

If I don't like it, I'll tell my parents directly, because I'm more direct, and if you don't say it directly, people will think you're interested in this person.

Since I don't like it, I don't like it, I didn't accept it at the beginning, and then I got married and made do with it for a lifetime, so I have to make a decision.

Encountered the same situation, the elders of the blind date family are very satisfied, but after two months, I just don't feel it, even a simple touch will be repulsed, and I told the elders that I don't want to continue to get along, and was opposed by everyone, saying that the relationship should be managed slowly, but how can I manage it? In the case of rejection of even touch.

If you say it to your parents, you can tell them directly what you don't like about the blind date, is there anything you can't say?