After my first love broke up, I met a boy who loved me at a very helpless time, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-06-10
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This sister, this is your little mistake. But since there are still traces of love between each other, let's continue. You're in love with him now, and it's a good thing for you and for him.

    It's okay if you leave him first, turn back to the shore, you have come up, are you still afraid that the things in the water will bite you? Sister you boldly go forward! Stand up for you !

    It's not easy for a girl to get hurt after her first love but also cheer herself up and find love. I suggest that you confess your previous infidelity to him before going ashore, and the most important thing in a relationship between two people is to be honest. If he is willing to forgive you, then you can live your happy life!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's hard to find a good man.

    Find someone who loves you and you will be happy for the rest of your life.

    Don't think about it so much, if he really loves you, he won't think about why you left him in the first place.

    Since you have fallen in love with him, it means that you will be happy in the future.

    Bless you and bless all lovers in the world.

    Lovers eventually become married.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In fact, if both parties really like it, and are afraid of what, who brought it up, since he is still in contact with you, it means that he still has your efforts in his heart.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Give him a hint and let him know that you really like him this time

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since you like her and you're fighting for him, don't let him get hurt.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Cherish this hard-won fate! I've ever lost.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    We still like each other, so why don't we fight for it? That's your happiness!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The breakup was proposed by you, and of course the reunion was also made by you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's up to you, take the points and leave.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you want to resolve the embarrassment, you can choose to treat each other as if they were good friends. At this time, a simple greeting or two is all that is fine. A simple greeting can also make the other person feel that they have not been ignored and is also a way to be polite.

    But don't have too much contact in private, which may also make the incumbent think otherwise. <>

    Maybe most people won't have contact with their first love after breaking up, because everyone feels that it's very irrational to do so. However, there will also be some mutual friends between two people, so a chance chance may also allow two people to meet. After encountering such a situation, if you want to resolve the embarrassment, you can treat each other as if they were their friends.

    When you see each other, you don't choose to ignore them, you can just say a few words to them. It's polite and doesn't make everyone feel very embarrassed. <>

    If you don't want to have too much to do with your first love, don't have too much contact with them in private. Because after more contact, it may also make others misunderstand, and even make everyone's trust give rise to other ideas. So at this time, everyone should also keep a proper distance.

    Even after meeting your first love, you don't have to feel very embarrassed. Because the relationship between the two people has long passed, and at this time everyone has their own lives. You just need to treat the other party as an acquaintance of your own.

    There are also some people who may be very sad after breaking up with their first love, and they have not even walked out of this relationship. Because they feel that they don't have enough energy to like other people anymore. Therefore, they may be very embarrassed after meeting their first love, and even feel a little excited.

    When you encounter such a situation, you should also try to restrain your inner thoughts. Although everyone has not walked out of this relationship, the other party may have forgotten the original unforgettable.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can greet the other person directly, and you can ask the other party how they are doing recently to resolve their embarrassment and not make the other party feel very embarrassed.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can say hello to each other, you can wave to each other, you can also go to chat with each other, talk about some previous things, or ask how the other person is doing recently and if they have a partner.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't feel embarrassed, if you want to talk to him, just treat him as an ordinary friend and say a few words to him, if you don't want to talk to him, then pretend you don't know him and leave.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Ask yourself, do you still love her? If you love, don't let go, if you don't love, treat it as an old friend, just entertain it, it's not about feelings. See if there's a place for her in your heart, and if you will throb for him.

    When it comes to first love, everyone will show a happy look. Immersed in the sweetness of the past, I couldn't come back to my senses for a long time. This is normal, after all, the initial love ignorance is because of him, and the sweet feeling is also something that others can't give.

    What about my first love! It is also the one that I like the most, it has taught me a lot, although there is pain and suffering, but I still want to thank him, I was very happy in those days with me.

    I have thought more than once, suddenly one day, he came back to me, wanted to return to the original beauty with me, what kind of attitude I have, I think I will definitely agree, because I still love him, it will not be less than before, and it has become stronger after years of precipitation. I think about this almost every day, and I look forward to his return very much, even if I am tired and hard, I am willing. Because of love, so love.

    I regret that I didn't go to the future, stop at the distance brought to us by the university, and the long-distance relationship is also quite good, why would I give up! Isn't it stupid. Even if we meet once a year, I am willing to wait for him, think of him, and miss him.

    But if I don't sell regret medicine, no matter how reluctant I am, it will eventually become a thing of the past. Knowing that he really came to me. I was very excited and incoherent, I wanted to ask him if he had a good time in the past few years, and what are you really doing here?

    This sentence has exhausted my strength, I am looking forward to why he will come back, his answer makes me a little lucky, he came back because he left his heart here, ready to find it, sometimes a sentence will also let us release the suspicions, he came back for a beautiful first love, the breakup is also a pity for him, he wants to make up for it, what reason do I have to refuse!

    We are together again, it is still the feeling of the year, looking at him is also full of happiness, not talking but just a look She also knows what I am thinking, what I need, what he should do, and there is still such a tacit understanding. The belated love made me forget all the tiredness, waiting quietly in the safe harbor he gave, I imagined that we could go on happily together, and I really didn't want to separate, because I once cherished it more. I want to let myself go once, just love it like that!

    There are no regrets if there is no result.

    It's my choice, but what about you? Do you still love it? There are several five years in life that can be missed, and maybe this miss will be a lifetime of pain. Don't lose and know again. It's already late.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's been five years and I'm coming to you again, it's a little too old, first of all, it depends on whether you have a girlfriend now, if you have a girlfriend, forget it, at most be a friend, right, after all, you have to be responsible for your current girlfriend, besides, you can't break up with your current girlfriend for your first love, or maybe something happened to your first love, so you can comfort her first, and then tell her that you already have a girlfriend, maybe your first love is not looking for you to get back together, so you think about what to do yourselfIf you don't have a girlfriend, you can consider getting back together with her, but she is still not the same she you were when you were good with her.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What are you looking for? Renewing old relationships? Or do you just want to talk, or borrow money?

    Although there are thousands of reasons for the first love who has broken up to find you, I think the meaning of your title is that he wants to get back together, right?

    Let me now say what I think.

    It is said that first love is beautiful, because the feelings at that time are the most sincere; When many people recall their first love, they often feel that it is a memory to cherish and are unwilling to erase it from their minds easily.

    However, no matter how precious the memories are, they are only memories; Since it's a memory, wouldn't it be better to keep it in your mind forever?

    What was the reason why you and he broke up in the first place, and has that reason been resolved now? If you want to continue the previous relationship, will the reason that led to your breakup in the first place still become an obstacle on the road to your love?

    Five years is not a long time; But if you want to say short, it's definitely not short. Everybody is going to change, and in five years, how much you've changed and how much he's changed, do you know? Is he still the same person he remembers, or has he become a familiar stranger?

    Do you know all this?

    You must know that your hesitation shows that you are not sure about the matter of getting back together; Or it can also show that your feelings for him are not as deep as you imagined.

    Even, maybe you've already vaguely guessed; Even if you get back together, it's more likely that you'll break up in the end.

    So, isn't it the best outcome to tell him that everything is impossible? Don't end up with any good memories that you have left because of disputes and other reasons.

    Finally, I wish you to find your true love soon.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The motivations of first love mornings are usually divided into two situations:

    1) Love was defeated by the young and frivolous back then, and after the precipitation of time, he understood one thing, you are still the best;

    2) He is more humble now, and suddenly remembered you as an infatuated species, and felt that he had become a piece of, and you would accept him.

    In between these two situations, you need to first look at the current career development of your first love, if he is now beautiful, then, he really thinks you are good, you can consider being with him again;

    If his current career is miserable, then he just thinks that you are a kind girl, and if you are with him at this time, it can only mean one problem, and he will know that you are a kind and easy to deceive girl.

    To be a human being, we need to understand one thing: kindness to good people is called kindness, and kindness to bad people is called ignorance.

    For this reason, it is very important to 'let him go' or 'accept' him in this matter, mainly depending on how he mixes now.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What to do, cold salad, what is it to find it now, what are you doing earlier, good horses don't eat back grass, if you don't have a partner, then you can try it, first love is very beautiful, in case you still have each other in your hearts.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Since you still can't forget your first love and want to have a further relationship with him, then your will must be strong.

    If you're afraid of hurting your current object, then you're thinking a little wrong. Because you can't be firm in your will, you always miss your first love, what's the difference between this and cuckolding your current partner, the only difference is that you don't actually act. I don't think your current partner wants to see that.

    And you also said that he only takes care of you as a sister, so the affection between brother and sister is still relatively heavy, so the long pain is better than the short pain, directly tell him to give you a chance, let you stay alone for a while, and at the same time review well, go to your first love to make it clear, but don't tell your current him that you are looking for your first love, this is very hurtful, before the results come out, don't hurt both of them Ha.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    People, they are not afraid of choosing the wrong one, and they are most afraid of not choosing.

    You've grown up and learned to choose for yourself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Well, it turns out that the woman's feet on two boats are also quite strong, and it is rare to step on it so poetically, and also tm ellipsis...

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