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The two love each other but have no future, want to give up but reluctant, the only way is to put it in the heart, there is a saying that there is a heart to plant flowers and flowers do not bloom, no intention to plant willows and willows, emotional road, insist on hope, let go will miss, the love of the two loves is beautiful, if true love should be cherished, can not be because of setbacks want to give up, sometimes a turn is a lifetime of regret, some people once let go of a lifetime will not meet again, because true love is not so easy to meet, in fact, if you really love each other, It's a kind of possession when you're not together.
Love is a variety of forms of possession, it depends on how you treat this feeling, the companionship around you, the resonance of the soul, these are the possession of love, if you are truly affectionate and truly loved, then no one can do without anyone's dependence, even if there is too much helplessness, you can't let go, because that is rooted in the bottom of your heart, if you love can't extricate yourself, even if there is no future, but if you have to ask for what you know is impossible to have, then it's another matter, after all, everyone has their own understanding of love. As long as love doesn't hurt innocent people, it is a beautiful fate sooner or later, because there is no right or wrong in love, some are just deep or shallow, affectionate love will withstand hardships, and love that can't stand the test is the so-called emotion, and true love is not close to it.
Love is a world for two.
If you are dependent on each other, no one can separate the two people, and the abandonment of love is due to the lack of firmness in your heart. The emotional story between people, the essence is the induction of the heart, only by appreciating each other, each other has a good feeling, as for whether there is a result or not, it does not matter, enjoy the process of communication is really happy, life is like a dream, it is true to meet you in the vast sea of people. Character and personal realm will have different results, go with the flow to be safe and sound, life is short for decades, don't give up what you think in your heart, wait until the future.
The future is made by yourself with your own hands, not given by others, and sticking to the dream in your heart is the direction of your future!
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You should force yourself to force yourself and choose to break up, because there is no future between two people at all, and if you continue to be entangled, it will only cause both of you to be hurt.
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You should take the initiative to communicate with each other to resolve the conflict between two people, so that two people can be very happy together, and will not let yourself be disappointed and despaired, and even have a future.
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You should choose to give up, because two people have no future, and if it drags on for a long time, it will only hurt the two of you, and it will also affect the lives of the two of you.
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should take the initiative to leave the other party, it can be seen that the other party is no longer suitable for him, but he is entangled in habits, and what he is entangled in is not love, nor is the other party.
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As long as you have really paid emotionally, you will inevitably have some reluctance when facing a breakup, whether it is the person who broke up or the person who was broken up, no matter the reason why two people broke up is not love. Even a breakup born of love can feel uncomfortable because of the sudden withdrawal of habit. Therefore, in the face of being very sad and reluctant to express after a breakup, the first thing to do is to put a good mentality, believing that this is human nature.
<>Generally speaking, 80% of couples will choose to reunite if they are still unhappy after a breakup. But the results of the reorganization are often unsatisfactory, because the initial reorganization is caused by emotion, and the two do not solve the problem fundamentally, so such a reorganization often becomes an inevitable repetition of the past. In other words, regrouping without a solution at all, just another breakup.
For couples who have broken up and are about to get back together, it is important to figure out if their problems can be resolved. If it is a problem that cannot be solved, then it is broken when it is broken, and timely stop loss may be a better choice to face the relationship.
Sense of loss. The so-called sense of loss is the withdrawal reaction we mentioned earlier, and I believe everyone is familiar with this reaction. It is said that it takes 21 days to form a habit, but the relationship between husband and wife generally exceeds 21 days.
For couples, the fact that their significant other exists has become a habit, and breaking up in such a situation can be difficult to accept. In the face of the reaction to divorce, people subconsciously want to get back to their past habits, so it is very normal to feel reluctant and want to get back together with each other.
A sense of incompleteness. The normal reaction after a breakup is to intellectually accept that it is over, but emotionally still accept. In other words, your brain will feel that the relationship with the other person is not over yet, and subconsciously still habitually think about what happened to the other person.
This memory will have an almost instantaneous reaction in life, in the early stages of a breakup. Moments like this will naturally make you want to get back together.
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Long pain is better than short pain, knowing that there is no result, and not giving up, it is to delay each other's time, and as a result, both of them end up missing the happiness that could have belonged to them!
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Deciding whether or not to continue a relationship that doesn't end is a personal decision, but here are some suggestions to help you decide:
1.Communicate honestly: Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and concerns. Understand the expectations and perceptions of the other party to see if there is consensus or possible compromise.
2.Self-reflection: Think deeply about your own true feelings and needs for the relationship. Consider your expectations for the future and whether you can accept the reality that the relationship will not have an ending.
3.Alignment of values and goals: Assess whether you and your partner's values and goals are aligned. If there are inconsistencies, it may indicate that the relationship is not achieving long-term suitability and satisfaction.
4.Mental and emotional health: Consider the impact of the relationship on your mental and emotional well-being. If you feel that the relationship is causing you constant pain, upset, or resentment, it may be necessary to rethink whether it is worth continuing.
5.Accept reality or choose to leave: If you don't think the relationship will meet your expectations and you can't come to terms with its endingless nature, you may need to make the difficult decision to choose to leave and find a relationship that is a better fit.
The most important thing is to respect and pay attention to your own feelings of pure sleepiness, and make a defensive decision that is in line with your own needs and values. If you're confused or having trouble coping, it may be helpful to seek help from a professional counselor or mental health professional.
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If there is no result, let's leave a good memory, life needs to continue to grow, youth needs a good memory.
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If you know that it won't work, then try to give up.
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Keep loving You love Him.
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Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.
When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you. There is no reason to like someone, and it is worth paying without regrets, as long as you can be with the person you love.
In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.
If you find someone like this around you, please cherish ....... Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful.
The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best. In this world, everyone has someone they want to seek, and if they miss it, they won't come back. If you fall in love, don't give up easily.
It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.
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I'm just like you, I can't see the future, I shouldn't give up, I don't want to waste my time, I'm afraid that I won't have anything left in the end, I'm still alone!
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Choose to give up and start looking for another relationship, because you can always find someone you like.
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This kind of relationship is the most tiring, don't do it.
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When we encounter a love with no ending, we should choose to give up and not pursue flowers without results.
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Don't give up on a relationship with no prospects, not only love and unwillingness. More should be reluctant. Two people run an unforgettable love together, can they give up if they give up?
Most love has no prospects, because two people have been out for a long time and find each other inappropriate, but people who have given their bodies to each other are really scared when they think of their future life as strangers. There is also love for each other, and knowledge can't go on, and if it goes on, it's more harmful. There are very few people who don't stop this wrong love because they are unwilling.
There are many kinds of no prospects, the first one, the family is against it, the two of you must be separated, or the family will open the pot and fry the temple after getting married! There is one next to me who is opposed to being separated by my family, my good brother, who is not in good condition at home, but he is still quite handsome. He and I were at the same table in high school for two years, and during that time they were away from home for more than a year, both of them persevered, and I felt that they were both stable and happy.
I blessed them a lot, but I didn't expect that when my brother went to his house for the first time, his parents and his opposition didn't allow him to eat, and my high school table mate was also very sad. They hadn't spoken for a long time, and my brother always complained to me, and I didn't know how to comfort them, and then they broke up, and my high school table mate took the initiative to break up. My buddy is really sad, it's been two years, and he hasn't found a partner, and every time I ask him, he says he doesn't want to look for it.
My buddy really doesn't want to give up this relationship, and neither do my high school classmates, do you think the end of this love is not love or willing? Neither, it's because of family distractions.
The second one, lost to the material, is also a real case around me. Two of my friends, both best friends. I never expected them to walk together, I was not optimistic about them from the beginning, I know them deeply from their family background to the criteria for choosing a mate, but I would rather demolish a temple than a marriage.
I still haven't said anything, the woman likes a good family, but this man is poor jingling, except for studying well and having literary talents, there is nothing at home, and the houses are rented. As I thought, in less than a year, the two of them broke up, and in a year, the woman learned about his family background and broke up very decisively, and the man didn't know why he broke up, and I can't say that after breaking up peacefully, I am still friends, don't even be friends because I told the truth. The man doesn't want to give up, but the material conditions are too poor, and although the woman values feelings, this is really a matter that needs to be carefully considered.
This love was lost to materialism.
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When you know that a relationship has no prospects and you don't want to give up, it can only mean that you are really unwilling, or that you haven't met the right person with real power, but it won't be because of love.
I have always believed that love is when two people are attracted to each other and take care of each other.
A person's one-sided love is just an obsession, or a kind of self-hypnosis.
Most people are just unwilling to let themselves fail, unwilling to get what they want, as if they wanted to get something for a long time, but never got it. At first, it was because I liked it, but later it became possessive. In the end, I am unwilling to give up just because I don't want to admit my failure, and I am not willing to let myself fail like this.
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It's because of love, because I love each other too much, even if the future is ethereal, I still want to go on with him, because I love it too much, I am reluctant to leave the relationship with no prospect like this, because I love it too much, even if I am displaced from the future home, I just want to be with him, and it is good if he is by my side.
There is so much in a relationship between two people, including our energy, our time, our dedication and our love for each other. It's not easy to be emotionally together, meeting you may also be trying all the luck of my life, because you came, I don't want to go, you live in my heart, domineering encroachment on all the positions in my heart, I know that our relationship has no prospects, we can't see the future, but I still don't want to give up and don't want to leave you, because I love you, because I love you as a person, because I value this feeling. I'm desperate, I'm desperate, I want to stay by your side, how can I give up, how can I give up this relationship.
The feelings that can't see the future may be confusing, or tired, but because they are still in love, they can't bear to throw away their promises, because they are still in love, they can't give up their emotions, because they are still in love, their hearts will still hurt.
After paying so much, a relationship is not established casually, I love you and it is not formed overnight, and two people together do not come out step by step. It's not easy for a relationship to be together, how can you give up because of poor prospects, not because of unwillingness, but because of love. Let's talk about Zhu Yingtai and Liang Shanbo, a pair of hard-working mandarin ducks who are not favored, their emotional prospects are illusory, they can't go together, their younger brother's feelings are wrong, they are emotional grievances that are wrong every step of love, and they are lovers who have no future at all.
However, how can they be willing to give up the emotions of two people, because they love too much, they choose to fight against the evil forces, because they love too much, they choose to face the difficulties hand in hand, because they love too much, and they have never given up their commitment to each other. So if you go down to the region, I am willing to accompany you to life and death together, if you turn into a butterfly, I am willing to follow, we fly slowly, fly over the flowers to the other side.
I am a blooming summer lotus.
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Of course, they can continue to walk, because when two people who love each other get married, their love life will be very smooth, and no matter how many trivial things in life, it is impossible for the love between them to disappear.