Ask the master to analyze my life fortune. 20

Good luck this year! Believe me!

What does it feel like to know a bloody life experience every day?

For example, most of life depends on luck.

In the past, heaven favored only those who were prepared. Now for people to be successful, they need a little more luck from God.

Working the road to success is essential. But more important than hard work is luck. Yes, luck, if it weren't for luck it's hard to explain why the richest man in the world is Bill Gates, and why the little-known supporting actor Brian was at the beginning.

Was Cranston able to become an instant hit with Breaking Bad? Similarly, a young man who is much more handsome than Prague Pitt in Hollywood grabbed a lot of money, why is he the only one who succeeds?

Luck and a small starting advantage can add up and amplify over time, leading to a world of difference in results. The more competitive it is, the more important luck is, especially in an industry like acting. Al Pacino, the star of "The Godfather III", was able to get the role of "The Godfather", which is precisely the power of luck.

This is proven by scientific experiments. It's just that successful people don't want to admit that most of their success comes from luck.

How much of our achievements should be attributed to our own efforts, and how much needs to be attributed to the influence of the external environment? ”

New York Times columnist David. Brooks is like this:

If you're planning for the future, you should believe that the future is under your control, and that you will be rewarded if you give it – even if it's just an illusion, you should believe in it, and only then can you give it your all. But if you've succeeded, you should look back and realize that you've earned more than you deserve, and you should be thankful for that. ”

Fitzgerald, author of The Great Gatsby, said, "The test of first-class intelligence is your ability to maintain normal behavior while having two opposing thoughts in your mind at the same time."

Since luck is so important, how can you get good luck? To put it simply, it is to keep a grateful heart and speak with integrity.

Lao Tzu said in the Tao Te Ching that "wealth and arrogance are self-indulgent". In ancient times, knowing good and not doing it was called madness, knowing evil and not changing it was confusing, and behavior was indulgent and arrogant. Pride and indulgence are human nature. Once people are rich or authoritarian, they are often pampered and arrogant, and they are indulgent.

Zigong said: "Poor without deceit, rich without arrogance, what is it? Zi said: "Yes." Those who are not poor are happy, and those who are rich and gracious are also. ”

The words of our ancestors are intended to teach us to be content and happy, not to be pampered and arrogant, and to be flustered. Historically, there are many people and families who have died due to the arrogance of autocracy. In modern times, such as Zhang Juzheng, the capital of the Ming Dynasty, and the Huo family in the Han Dynasty, the high merit is the master, and they do not know how to converge, and they finally end up being beheaded.

Another great way to get lucky is to learn to be grateful. It looks like chicken soup, but it's very practical. Being filled with gratitude makes it easier to experience happiness, avoid anxiety, and is also good for physical and mental health.

Oprah, the famous American talk show queen, has maintained the habit of gratitude. I've tried to keep a gratitude journal every day, and there will indeed be subtle changes in my mentality.