What are the real cases that need to be fireproof, waterproof and girlfriends?

I have a friend who introduced his boyfriend to his girlfriend who had a good relationship, and the two ended up together behind his back.

I have a friend of mine, and her best friend pried my friend's boyfriend away in real life.

I know a woman who has a good relationship with her boyfriend, and then one of this woman's girlfriends says bad things about her boyfriend in front of her, turns her back and asks the girl's boyfriend out for dinner.

When Zhang Shaohan was at a low point in her life, not only did her mother betray her, but her friend Fan Weiqi also fell into the trap, not only snatching her endorsement, but also not lending a helping hand.

Huo Siyan and Huang Yi, the two of them used to be best friends, and one day they openly scolded each other on Weibo, and the main reason for the scolding was to fight for a man.

3. Girlfriends are too good at disguiseI want to say that if your best friend is really good for you, and your boyfriend really loves you, then these two people will not have too much intersection, and they will not hide from you that they have too much communication. If these two people still have any additional communication activities with their backs to you, then this girlfriend and boyfriend can also be dispensed with. Because some girlfriends don't really make friends with you, but want to use you as a foil and want to dig into the wall.

As the saying goes, you can't have the heart to harm others, and you can't do without the heart to prevent people. Although my girlfriend has a good relationship with me, I feel that it is precisely because of the good relationship that there is a need to prevent girlfriends. The main reasons are as follows.

1.You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people.

Each of us should be a kind person and should not have the psychology of hurting others. But there is still a need to have the psychology of preventing others from hurting themselves, and the main purpose is just in case. For girlfriends, they have a good relationship with us, and they generally don't choose to hurt us, but we can also take a little precautions, in case they hurt us, we can be prepared.

If you don't take precautions, then the damage may be deep or even irreparable.

2.Girlfriends know themselves very well, and they are also prone to hurt deeply.

My girlfriend has a good relationship with us and is very close to us, we eat with our girlfriends and gossip together. In this kind of daily life, we know each other very well. We know each other's secrets, and we know each other's pain points better.

If girlfriends want to hurt us, they can hurt deeply, because they know that being stuck in ** is the most painful. So you must guard against your girlfriends, so as not to be hurt unintentionally.

3.Girlfriends are closest to us, and they are more likely to hurt us.

We will tell our girlfriends about many things we experience in life, and let them help us with advice, but because of this, our girlfriends know a lot of things about us, and they can suddenly intervene in the middle. For example, in the case of boyfriend, I will tell my girlfriend about the matter between myself and my boyfriend intentionally or unintentionally, and if my girlfriend wants to harm us, she can deliberately create a little misunderstanding, or deliberately fan the flames on the side, which will cause bad consequences for us.

I think it is necessary to guard against girlfriends, the main reason is that it is indispensable to guard against people, and girlfriends know us very well, and they can easily hurt us, and they can hurt us deeply.

I don't think a girlfriend needs to be guarded, but he needs to be restrained to keep a certain distance from his partner, because even if he is as close as a girlfriend, there is no guarantee that there will be no problems between two people.

I don't think you need to guard against it if it's a real girlfriend, because a true girlfriend really wants you to be happy and won't stop your happiness! If it's that kind of fake girlfriend, you have to worry, because that kind of person with a bad heart doesn't even have the qualifications to be a friend, let alone a girlfriend!

I don't think there is any need to guard against each other, because if two people are true friends, they will definitely think about each other.

There should be a certain amount of precautions between girlfriends. Because many people have ruined their happiness because of the existence of girlfriends.

This sentence is very reasonable, so girlfriends really need to be guarded against, there is a very good saying, the heart of prevention must not be diseased, it is the best girlfriend, we must also keep a distance.

Not necessarily. A good girlfriend must know how to respect herself and keep her distance from her object.

I think it's necessary, after falling in love, I often move around with my girlfriends, and the number of contacts between my boyfriend and my girlfriends is gradually increasing, so it's better to pay attention to it after a long time.

There is no need to prevent girlfriends, and preventing girlfriends is a kind of distrust of girlfriends and a kind of insincerity to friends.

You need to look at the character of the other party, if your best friend is relatively good, there is no need to do such a thing.

No matter how good the relationship is, you can't say anything to her without reservation, because everyone has their own little secrets!

is the so-called anti-human heart is indispensable, and the frequent case is that the girlfriend robbed your boyfriend, so there will be, fire prevention, theft prevention and girlfriend protection.

Because some girlfriends will rob the boyfriend of the good sister, and will say bad things about her in front of the boyfriend of the good sister, and when the good sister is not consented, she will break the news about the good sister, so it is said that "fire prevention, anti-theft and anti-girlfriend".

Because some girlfriends will gossip about themselves behind their backs, and then sometimes when they see that they and their boyfriends are too sweet, they will say to themselves that their boyfriend is not good, and they have done something bad to sow discord behind their backs.

Because she and her best friend are the closest, she knows all about you, your strengths and weaknesses, your tears and pain points, and once you betray you, you will be hurt very badly.

Because I tell my girlfriend most of everything, my girlfriend is the one who knows her boyfriend better. If your best friend wants to grab her boyfriend, it's easy to succeed.

Because girlfriends are their closest friends and know a lot of their secrets, once there is a conflict one day, it is easy to let their privacy leak and cause a series of bad consequences.

Because in real life, the bloody incident of girlfriends turning into rivals is always heart-wrenching and unpreventable. Love is the mutual fulfillment between two people, so it is not the fault of the girlfriend alone when the girlfriend becomes a love rival, and the man you love is also inescapable.

I think this should be the meaning of "knowing people and knowing oneself and winning all battles". Girlfriends are the people we trust the most, and at the same time, they are the ones who know our weaknesses the most, and if this kind of person wants to hurt us, we can't hide.

Because my girlfriend is the person who has spent the most time in my life and knows that she has the most things to do, when I have a conflict with my boyfriend, she may talk nonsense, which leads to the breakdown of my relationship with my boyfriend.

Because a large part of the problems in couples are due to the presence of girlfriends, who will tell themselves what bad things my boyfriend has that I don't know about, which leads me to quarrel with my boyfriend.

1. Keep a certain distance from your girlfriends. Don't rely too much on your girlfriends, have your own living space. It's a good idea to meet regularly so that you don't lose your time too much.

2. Keep your distance from your best friend's boyfriend and lover, and don't think about it. Don't often bring your girlfriends home, and don't let your boyfriend or lover spend more time with your girlfriends, so as not to fall in love for a long time.

3Be clear about how money is spent. Just like the old saying goes, "Brothers settle accounts clearly", if the accounts are kept clear, there will be fewer unnecessary disputes and troubles.

4. No matter how close a friend is, he should also talk about himself and principles in his interactions. You can't violate the principles and do things you shouldn't do just because it's your best friend's request.

5. Don't interfere too much in the housework of your girlfriends. As the saying goes, it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, and no matter how good a friend's family affairs are, they are also other people's affairs, so appropriate suggestions are okay, and you can't interfere more.