In the face of stress and boredom, what do I do? 20

If you study secondary school, you will really regret it. Although many universities are not good, the time to study in college is actually to exercise a person's way of thinking and doing things. As long as you treat yourself well, there's nothing dark about it.

By the way, if it weren't for some special major, the undergraduate was four years.

I can only you, the choice is yours.

Nowadays, people think that going to college will lead to a good way out, but that is wrong.

As a large whole, society needs a variety of talents to meet its needs and make it operate smoothly.

And a large part of the talent does not come from universities, but from other sources.

University or technical secondary school, it's your choice.

The key is what interests you.

If you have no interest in studying with university, then don't choose blindly.

If you don't have interest, you won't put your mind into it, and even if you pass the exam, it will be difficult to make a difference.

On the other hand, find something that you are really interested in, put your mind into it, and you will eventually be rewarded and successful.

Life is your own path, and your parents and classmates can't take it for you.

The key lies with you!

As a person who has come over, I can tell you that you decide your own affairs, I personally think that instead of mixing in college for a few years, it is better to enter the society early, and now the society recruits talents, what is talent, not to read more, but to have practical ability, how to come, relying on your own to do, to work hard, to struggle for the return, that is, you will never come to the meeting with your own hands.

Hey, it's a waste of time to talk about going to college for a few years. Waste of youth.

I hope you understand that parents are reasonable! It's easy!

I came out of secondary school.

Or a civil aviation flight major.

And now

Why don't you go to college.

Even if you don't go to school and look for a job, you can give another college certificate.

How to deal with pressure from the surrounding community and society:

1.Be firm in your own determination: Make the decisions you want, and be willing to take on whatever your choices come about.

2.Say goodbye to societal stereotypes about age: Age is not the whole of a person and should not be defined by this label.

3.Recognize your strengths and weaknesses: Seeing your strengths can help you feel more confident and firm in your choices. Recognizing your own shortcomings can help you constantly improve yourself and get better opportunities.

5.Take responsibility: If you don't have a satisfying career or family situation when you're older, learn to take responsibility for your choices and keep working to make a difference.

6.Build good relationships: Recognizing that spiritual companionship and support are equally important, building and maintaining good relationships can give you strength and help in the face of difficulties and setbacks.

7.Change your thinking and relax your mindset: Don't see the conventional route out of society as a very painful and arduous thing, but as another opportunity to explore and challenge yourself, relax your mind and adjust your thinking moderately.

Summary: Life needs to try, explore and practice by itself. Although stress and anxiety are unavoidable, believe in yourself, think carefully and work hard, take responsibility for your choices, and believe that there is a better future waiting for you.

Let's not see marriage and career planning as a mandatory thing, but stick to self-centeredness and make what we think is the best choice.

For example, when we are dissatisfied with our current situation and want to change it, but we don't know what kind of state we want to change, this "not knowing" is our trouble. Troubles ** in "don't know", "don't know where to start" and other aspects.

The feeling of compulsion between the "growing desire to change" and the "slow process of change" is pressure.

All things are on the same principle. Correctly deal with the ** (cause) of troubles, grasp the rhythm and mentality of doing things, and the worries and pressures will naturally be reduced. First of all, we must have a full and objective understanding and understanding of ourselves.

You don't want to be looked down upon, do you? You don't want to be so mediocre in the past few years when you're young, do you??? You don't want to be asked for help by others but you can't help because you don't work hard???

You don't want your family's expectations of you to become a reason for their disappointment??? You don't want to. We are not working hard for others, we are working for ourselves, and we can say to ourselves in the future, well, I have paid in those years, I have gained, I do not regret it, even if it is a deformation.

The sunset is so beautiful, isn't it like enjoying it with a serene smile???

Because you are dissatisfied, so annoying

With pressure, there is motivation, and only with motivation can we reflect the value of our own existence

To put it simply: no pressure, where do you get the motivation! Try it buddy!

It may be that the ever-accelerating pace of work or life has brought you great mental pressure, and you feel that your mood is not good and needs to be adjusted.

Adjust the time of work and rest appropriately, set a time for exercise, often relax your mind, and relax tense nerves.

How to relieve and eliminate mental stress?

Stress relief: Roar loudly when you get home.

5 minutes to vent the resentment in your heart; Then sit on the sofa and listen quietly to the light**.

15 minutes, and after that, you'll feel much more comfortable. Or if you confide your grievances to family or close friends, you can be relieved. Hopefully, through psychological adjustment, you will be able to deal with similar situations correctly and make yourself physically and mentally happy.

You should listen to more ** and let the beautiful music dissolve the mental fatigue. Brisk and comfortable ** can not only give people the edification and enjoyment of beauty, but also make people's spirits be effectively relaxed. Laughing is the best way to get rid of stress, so you can forget about your worries and smile often.

You should also consciously slow down the pace of life, deal with all kinds of complicated things calmly and calmly, and do not blame yourself even if you do something wrong, which is conducive to people's psychological balance and also helps to relieve people's mental pressure. Be brave and face the reality, and don't be afraid to admit that your abilities are limited and you can't handle things properly.

You need to make a lot of friends, talk to friends often, and communicate or confide in people from the bottom of your heart can not only enhance people's friendship and trust, but also make you feel good and your worries are eliminated.

If you believe that you will be able to reduce stress, cheer up, feel comfortable, and be healthy, you will be able to enhance friendship with a good attitude, work smoothly, and live a happy life!

Tell them that the birth of a daughter is China Merchants Bank, the birth of a child is a construction bank, and their family has a lot of money, don't say it...

Maybe he will be born as a son, but it's a big deal to have a few more, and the child has company!

1. All: First of all, it is necessary to have a correct understanding of worries and work pressure.

Whether a person is poor or rich, he will have troubles, but they are different, so they are common to all people and cannot get rid of them, depending on how you control them. When you can't change the person you are, you can only change yourself, change your mind.

It's hard to find a job now, because the jobs are limited, and there are a lot of people waiting for the job, so it's a must to do a good job. Pressure is certain, but human potential can be tapped, in fact, everyone has a gold mine, as long as you find the right way to mine it. Come on! Come on!

Go with your heart!

Do what you want to do the most, and it's okay to be crazy, as long as it doesn't make any impact on others. Going crazy is the most direct way to release yourself, and it's okay to sing indiscriminately.

Let's go on a tour when you have time. Travel can relieve the body and mind, and it's good to feel emotional. Oh, I really don't want to move, just stay at home and listen to songs, don't listen to something too sad, it's better to sing slowly, it can soothe your nerves. If you don't play games, you can just play casual games.

It's better to get together with friends and family more often, and when someone is with you, it's better than being depressed alone;

In the end, I still think that people should cultivate a positive and optimistic spirit in order to turn pressure into motivation. Many times, the same problem, from different angles, will have a good effect

I like fishing, and I usually go when I'm annoyed. There are also intense sports, such as playing basketball.

It is recommended that you climb the mountain with your friends. If it's me, I'll hit a sandbag or pillow, and I won't break the law to vent my anger (don't hit someone) If you're more introverted, it's best to read books and listen to some ** that can make you feel comfortable.