Why the more intimate the relationship, the less proactive

Looking at a touching article on the computer, it touched my heartstrings and made me see the sigh of the heart, the uneasiness of emotions, I felt the flowers bloom and the clouds scattered. The fleeting feeling of the sunset, and the annoyance of blooming and falling flowers are as good as not having a thousand days of flowers. Hua Luo, there is a shortage of people.

Therefore, sometimes low-key patience is the wisdom of wisdom. Pride isn't about forgetting me, it's about staying calm when you're down.

Life is impermanent, "the morning is like silk, and the evening is like snow". The journey of life is "ticking" every day. After the vicissitudes of life, everything is nothing more than blue sky and water in a bottle.

If you don't want to regret it for the rest of your life, then cherish the present moment and live in the moment, the water will become muddy and the leaves of the river will naturally flow away. If you can't stop it, let it be natural and casual, approach the future with a normal mindset, and keep your composure. Do the old things in the old city.

No desires and pains, no desires and no worries. We are human beings, and we are inherently controlled by desire. It is impossible without desire, without desire and otherworldliness.

We can have desires and thoughts, but we can't be greedy. We can position ourselves accurately. If we cross the border, we feel tired and inward.

The flowing water and flowers are not old, and feeling the heavy breath of the years, I see that time is flying, and only the wind and dust are left to extinguish the beautiful past.

Intimacy means being honest and having something to say. When I see that your actions today do not meet my standards, I will talk about you, and if you see that my words tomorrow do not meet your standards, you will talk about me. In this way, friction will arise, and the so-called loyalty will be contrary to the ear.

There is a saying: Hitting is kissing and scolding is love, and not beating and scolding is a curse. That's what it means.

Not because I'm afraid, it's because I'm too demanding. On the contrary, if people who are not very close to each other are together, they will not say it because of their concerns, so that there is no friction between them, and they get along with each other in a calm and harmonious way.

Not everyone will accept criticism and accusations from others. On the contrary, a lot of people don't feel disgusted, and that's what you said. Intimate people don't get along very well!

I think it would be better to treat close people with a more sincere and tolerant heart, not to be too demanding of each other, and not to be like two plasters stuck together every day. Leave a little more space for each other and for yourself.

The most familiar stranger, you've heard of it. The more intimate you are, the more you will relax your own requirements, and you may ask too much of each other. Cause intimate damage, so be the same as strangers when you get along, and be the same as close friends when you care.

You can't blame or discipline you plainly because of intimacy, and you still think that I'm doing it for his good. In this way, there is no difference from the generation gap between parents.

In fact, sometimes this is the case, he always feels that the person around him will not betray him.

Because if the relationship is close, you may talk about everything, and you will inadvertently say something unrealistic, which will make the other party very uncomfortable and inadvertently hurt the Taoist family.

Sometimes they are so unscrupulous because they are not afraid that the other person will leave, or because they think that the person will not let themselves be hurt.

Everyone should keep a certain distance from each other, because each of us needs to give ourselves a certain amount of space to be alone, and if you have to trespass into someone's space alone, then you will cause others to resent it.

I feel that the closer the relationship, the more hurtful the words are spoken. This sentence is very reasonable, because it is often the people closest to you who hurt people.

The closer the relationship, the more you want to be affirmed by him, and the more you care when he says something, so the more you will be hurt.

In fact, sometimes contradictions are also a way to enhance feelings, but pay attention to proportion, because intimate people care more, so they will be hurt by intimate people, sometimes you may feel nothing, but it hurts others more.

It's because the relationship is relatively close, that's why I care so much, and the people I care about may be more emotional.

Talking to the people closest to you in life is the easiest to hurt each other. I think it's because in an intimate relationship, because the two are too close, they will ignore the boundaries between the two people, and even ignore the feelings of the other person, thinking that what they say is for their own good, so he can accept it and will not refute his own opinions. I think there are three reasons why the more intimate the person is, the more hurtful the words they say.

Because the more people care about in life, the easier it is to poke at the sensitive points of the other party's mistakes. If you live together for a long time, you will get to know each other very well. So it's clear that the other party's sensitive points are in**?

If this sentence hits the other party's sensitive point, it will make the other party feel that he is ignored, not noticed, not recognized, and other emotions, so he will immediately fight back.

The second is that there will be mutual temptations in the love life. Because you can't be sure whether the other person really loves you, you will constantly test the other person. As a result, the other person understands your personality traits very well, so they will not believe what you say, and in the end they will think that the other person really does not love them.

As a result, in the eyes of outsiders, this is all an act of mutual harm.

Finally, it's because they're very familiar with each otherAnd under the banner of being good for you, so you have no scruples about talking, which is very common in the relationship between parents and children, especially when parents know that their children will never leave him, and some of the children's behaviors are very bad, as parents in this intimate relationship, they will not take into account the use of words, and tell the children directly.

It is recommended that you read a book called "Men from Mars and Women from Venus", as a boy you are in this state of mind is normal, don't be too nervous haha

Have you ever been emotionally hurt? Want to escape, afraid of being hurt again? Don't run away from your current feelings, you have suffered such pain, can you bear to let someone who likes you taste it again? The same pain.

Because she knows that you will be good to her, she will take the initiative to lean over, but whether she can achieve it depends on fate, and usually becomes a girlfriend (personal test).

I like guys, but I'm not sure if the other person is true to me.

Maybe they're starting to notice you, and they're likely to date later.

Rejecting you, that's a girl's reserve.

I don't want to be with you, and I feel like it's good to have someone who likes me, that's it, I don't think there will be any results, there are too many girls like this.

Because of intimacy, you will think of others, and if others can't do what you want, there will be conflicts.

In daily life, we inevitably have conflicts for others, and another situation is that the longer we get along with each other, the easier it is to have conflictsAmong the 12 zodiac signs, which three zodiac signs are more closely related to others, the more likely they are to have conflicts?

Aries, in fact, Aries people are very impulsive, because they are a sign with a very sense of justice, and many times they feel very uncomfortable when they see something unfair and want to take care of itIn real life, because Aries people sometimes like to be impulsive, the longer you get along with them, the more likely you are to have conflicts, but Aries people have a big personality, although there are many contradictions, but after that, it will be fine.

Scorpio, many people think that Scorpios are very mysterious, many people don't know them, and think they are very easy to bully. In fact, in terms of friendship, Scorpios are very tolerant and can forgive their friends many times. However, sometimes, because their friends still have the same attitude under their tolerance and forgiveness, and they have not changed their previous problems, sometimes Scorpios often deliberately contradict them.

Leo, Leo people are very hot, which is also something that everyone knows, so it is inevitable that there will be conflicts when getting along with Leo people, but everyone will find that after getting along for a long time, in fact, sometimes they have tempers that come and go quickly, and their tantrums are also reasonable, and they will not lose their temper.

It's just that sometimes, we look at a thing from a different angle than his position, so the short-tempered Leo will inevitably have contradictions with everyone.

Leo is arrogant, especially Leo girls. Scorpio and Taurus are both more stubborn, so the more they get along, it may trigger some contradictions, and if it is a general acquaintance, in fact, there are very few contradictions.

For some Leos, over time they will find that they are very short-tempered, which will also make the relationship more and more stiff.

Sagittarius, Sagittarius is actually a sign that pursues perfection at heart, and on the surface it doesn't care, but in fact, it is easy to lose temper with acquaintances and cause conflicts.

Leo, the powerful and noble queen sometimes doesn't know how to put down her body. Taurus and Scorpio are stubborn, and even if they know that it is their own problem, they can't pull down their faces and take the initiative to admit their mistakes.

I'm Libra and my girlfriend Scorpio, and the two of us often have conflicts, but each time we get back together quickly.

Many zodiac signs are, after all, it is easy to see a lot of bad aspects when they are too close.

Girls are usually polite, when it comes to private interests, 80% will put themselves first, and between buddies, no matter how noisy they usually are, how angry they are, they will consider each other at critical moments and be good for each other.

Second, these are just outward manifestations, and the main thing is to see how they treat you in times of trouble. I prefer to lose each other, and I am comfortable. ps, I'm a woman.

I don't know if the landlord has heard a word, brothers help brothers, girlfriends pit girlfriends.

No, it's not that girls will also lose it.

No, no, no, the more mature girls are, the more they love to hurt each other.