Why do you want what you don t want and you can t get what you want?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-06
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There are three kinds of suffering: not being able to seek suffering, loving and parting from suffering, and resentment and hatred.

    That is: when what you want and what you want does not go well, that is, you can't suffer;

    When the one you love and the pleasure leaves you, that is love and parting from suffering;

    When what you hate and don't love gathers with you, it is resentment and bitterness.

    You don't know the reason why you feel pain, so your original pain is even deeper, because you don't know how to get out of that suffering, and I have had this kind of doubt and pain.

    Even though I'm a Buddhist, I don't want to force people to believe what I worship.

    I just want to give you a suggestion, if you are willing to give it a try, you can try it by touching the Dharma, of course, you must learn it realistically, and try to see if it makes you less troubled, you say?

    Whatever your decision is, I sincerely wish that your karma will be reduced, that you will be happy from suffering, that you will find true happiness, that being able to live without confusion is a happiness in itself, that your wisdom will increase, and your mind will be clear.

    Amitabha.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Causally! Over the ages, countless causes, good or evil, have been planted, and the fruits have been gathered when they encounter the corresponding causes.

    How to get close to good karma, get away from evil karma, get good results, and destroy evil results.

    Only through right heart, right thinking, right faith, and right practice.

    Amitabha.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Eliminate your desires and do things with a peaceful heart, and you will be satisfied.

    If we want to achieve the state of unity between heaven and man, everything is me, everything is Buddha, and everything is God's happiness, so do we still have troubles?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What you want is not really needed, and what you don't want is not really needed. I don't know what you mean, but if it's a human being or something else, it's probably a discriminating thing. Feelings have to be caused.

    It's hard to talk about. It doesn't matter if you believe in Buddhism or not, but you can learn the wisdom of being a human being from Buddhism. The Buddha talks about cause and effect, karma, and so on.

    These are one of the ways you can fulfill your reasonable desires, work hard, some are delusional, and it is useless to do more! I wish you a speedy fulfillment of your wishes.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Good guys'Bad people have accumulated a lot of karma (original sin) when it is time to pay it back (hurry up and pay it off, don't accumulate too much)...Lest.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Everyone wants to have their way, but that's not the case. Society is realistic, life is the same, accept the reality, face is the right choice.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'll teach you how to turn things around.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What do you not want? Laborious? Challenge? Hone?

    What do you want? Money? Power? Happiness?

    Without a cold bone, the plum blossoms are fragrant.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Brain teasers are what everyone doesn't want is illness.

    Disease [ jí bìng ].

    Disease (general term): prevention. Ridden.

    Lao She's "Dragon's Whisker Ditch" Act 1: "Everywhere are swarms of fleas, clumps of mosquitoes, and countless bed bugs, black pressed flies, infected with diseases. ”

    synonyms: illness, illness, disease, emergency.

    Antonyms: health.

    Stroke Order:Introduction to the benefits of brain teasers

    Brain teaser is a more interesting game, through brain teasers such a short time of thinking and answering games can train children's concentration, is conducive to children can concentrate, enhance the interest in learning.

    It can not only improve children's attention, but also improve learning interest, increase knowledge, is conducive to the cultivation of children's interest, and improve the initiative of learning, and has certain benefits for children's development.

    Another point is that brain teasers are also a form of entertainment and a way to decompress. As the so-called smile, ten years less. Most people will encounter some troubles at work or in life, and playing brain teasers can help you relax and maintain a healthy mind.

    At the same time, it can also cultivate people's ability to see the same thing from different angles.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you have a brain teaser, you must be sick.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What everyone doesn't want is illness, fines, bills, and bad luck.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The meaning of this sentence is that some things, people or goals that were once pursued no longer desire or need them after some changes or growth.

    It may be because of a change in one's values, hobbies, or life goals, or because of a setback or unpleasant experience in the pursuit of these things, which has caused oneself to lose interest or motivation in them.

    This process is quite normal, and people continue to grow and develop with time and experience, and their former desires and goals may also change as a result. Therefore, when you no longer want the things you once pursued, it may mean that you have found a lifestyle and goals that are more suitable for you, or you realize that these things are not so important to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What you once couldn't get is now unwanted, which means that in the past, those things that you once wanted very much but couldn't get now seem to have no meaning, and even tired of it, and no longer want to pursue it. For example, the happiness that I once longed for, after all, I was disappointed and relieved; The love that I once eagerly hoped for, how much hurt I have experienced, but now I don't need to talk about it, I just let it go; The dream that I once tried my best to pursue, the confused pace, the years change, and today I no longer pursue. In short, what was once ungliding now does not want filial piety, which shows that a person has self-relief in his heart, a brave abandonment, and also reflects a more mature realm.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The past is the past, and it will fade into the present with the development of time, and it is better to look forward to the future and strive for what can be obtained than to recall the things that cannot be obtained.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Mr. Ma said he didn't like money, but he was getting richer. This confirms what Murphy said that the more you don't want it to happen, the easier it is to happen.

    If the more you don't want it to happen, the easier it is to happen, the more you want it to happen, the less likely it is to happen? My answer is: yes!

    For example, if I want to buy a house, I have to have money. The money can be through work, financial management, gifts, lotteries, etc.; Excluding gifts and ill-gotten gains, you can only work hard, manage your money regularly, and occasionally buy lottery tickets; But under normal circumstances, I always choose jobs that don't pay well, buy money-losing financial products, and never win the lottery.

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